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Today My Sister Would Be 38 years old

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Real Estate Agent with Exceed Realty 0597753

August 20 is always a difficult day for me.  6 years ago  I got a call early one morning to be told that my sister Stephanie, nephew - Austin who was 10 and Niece - Taylor who was 8 all three died from smoke inhalation from a cigarette smoldering in a couch.  I can tell you that whoever said that time will heal you was so wrong about that.  It seems like it was just yesterday that it happened.  Time has done nothing for me.  The pain seems to have been lingering around the whole time and not a day goes by that I don't think about their tragic end.  Not a day goes by I don't think about my sister saying, "hey brotha"  or Taylor and Austin saying "hey uncle Terry".  Today would be my sisters birthday.  She would be 38 years old today.  She was always proud of her brother; of everything I did.

 

On that day I truly feel like two angels were brought down in the form of her children to take her away from the pain in her life.  It was becoming too hard for her to bear anymore.  She would be happy to know I am writing about her in my Active Rain blog today. I know it is not about real estate, but it is about life and what makes us who we are.  They are  a part of me, and always will be.

 

She always felt I got more attention than her.  But Stephanie this one is for you.  I love you so much.

Happy Birthday, Stephanie!

Stephanie Kraeemr  Austin SmithTaylor Smith

I could have missed the pain, but I'd of had to miss The Dance

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Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

hi Terry,

I'm very sorry for your loss....all 3 taken so young. I can't even imagine how hard this has been for you and your family.

Jo

Aug 20, 2010 01:19 PM
Laura Filip
Laura Filip Broker , Opening doors for All Seasons of Life - Whitesboro, TX
What can we do for you today?

Terry Thank you for the post about your sister my thoughts and prayers are with you. May your spirit be lifted up and may Grace be with you.

Aug 20, 2010 01:22 PM
Josh & Julie Hambarian
Josh & Julie - Steele Realty. North County San Diego Coastal - Encinitas, CA

Hi Terry,

My condolences and I'm sure she is looking after you and you make her proud.

Aug 20, 2010 01:22 PM
Eric J
Eric J - Dream Home Financing - Freehold, NJ
Dream Home Financing

Terry,

I am so sorry to read about the tragedy that you are still dealing with. I can only hope that one day it will be a little easier for you. Quite often life is not fair. Try to enjoy yours and smile when you think of the ones who passed before you.

Eric

Aug 20, 2010 01:26 PM
Sheldon Neal
Bergen County, NJ - RE/MAX Real Estate Limited - Maywood, NJ
That British Agent Bergen County NJ

Never easy to recall those who were taken from us too early, but you still have beautiful memories of 3 beautiful people. Like you I dont think time will ever fully heal certain pains - but maybe it will get easier in the long run.  Sorry to hear this happened.

Aug 22, 2010 08:24 AM
Terry Kraemer
Exceed Realty - Houston, TX
Houston Realtor

I would like to thank you all for your nice comments.  Jo, My sister lived in the same town with my mother and she adored her grandchildren. She has had it the hardest becasue she morns every day and three birthdays, and every holiday.  It hurts me to see her hurt so much.  Again, thank you all very much. 

Terry

Aug 22, 2010 05:54 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Terry,

Sounds like Stephanie, Austin and Taylor were lucky to have you for a brother and uncle. Stephanie would be very proud of her big brother for writing this tribute. It was good speaking with you this morning.

Margaret

Aug 23, 2010 02:35 AM
Terry Kraemer
Exceed Realty - Houston, TX
Houston Realtor

Margaret,

 

Thank You so much for the kind words.  I truly apprecialte that.  It was nice speaking with you too. 

 

Terry

 

Aug 23, 2010 02:15 PM