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When Nothing Works....Try Resting....

By
Real Estate Agent with Royal Shell Real Estate Inc BK3025297

Who isn't frustrated these days? We are all working two to three times as hard for half the money. There are so many challenges life feels like we're swimming up a never ending salmon ladder.

My G-mail account went bizarre two months ago and I spent at least 3 Saturdays and countless evenings trying different things to fix it. Nothing made the slow creeping loads change. Nothing stopped it from locking up. I was at the end of my rope.

This was only one of many indicators in my life that things just aren't cooperating. I had a second migraine in a month's time and my physical body was feeling beaten up- sore all over, an indication of a fibromyalga flare up.

The Universe in all its Wisdom delivered a book that I have only begun to read. "Happier Than God" showed up as a bonus gift- not ordered by me- how cool is that?

I have only gotten through about the third chapter but this advice was the author's advice. Recovering from the migraine and still feeling shaky on my pins I took Friday off! This is not a normal or even infrequent thing for me to do.

Yep...went out on my honey's boat and just RELAXED. I even went over the boat's side to help push off of some coral when we got hung up. The salt water was warm at Ponce Inlet and we played and swam along disappearing island. The day was glorious and we even beat the thunderstorms back to the house at day's end.

(I did check my Droid a few times and kept the troops working, but for the most part, I was enjoying the sun and the day and my company.)

Today, my aches and pains are only about 5% of what they had been (feel more like normal muscle strain than fibro-symptoms). I just logged in to G-Mail and it is operating NORMALLY. Is this a miracle or what? LOL My migraine fog is lifted and I actually feel better physically than I have in months.

We spend so much time resisting the world and life. Swimming that upstream against the current ritual, day after day battle that life becomes just that...a battle instead of a life. This book has been a great reminder to me and hopefully this blog will remind you to take a break, take a rest....stop resisting and do nothing. Give yourself some time to recover and heal up.

This AHA moment just came through to me and this is probably the best place to stop....

Even God rested on the 7th day.....who are we, mere mortals, to think we don't need to rest regularly?

(Try it...rest and see what log jams in your life open up:) )

 

Posted by

Janet Fetterman, Broker Associate, CAM

Sales Manager, Golden Ocala Golf & Equestrian Club

Janet@RoyalShellSales.com

www.GoldenOcala.com

386-299-6393  

 

 

Mary Kay Hopkins
Mary Kay Hopkins, LLC e-PRO, GRI, CRS, CRB - Lake Charles, LA
e-PRO,GRI,CRS

Janet, resting is not what I do best, yet I totally agree with you regarding the benefits.

Aug 21, 2010 11:05 AM
Janet Fetterman
Royal Shell Real Estate Inc - Ocala, FL
Selling Luxury Lifestyles...

Thanks Mary Kay- I've had some break throughs...it feels good.

Aug 23, 2010 02:07 PM
Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

Awesome reminder.  Resting is HARD to do!  I remember being a dairy farmer in my young 20's....resting was like a sin!  I STILL feel guilty if I'm not busy all the time and I have to struggle to remember the basics of which you posted.  Thanks for the reminder.

Sep 03, 2010 03:59 AM
Janet Fetterman
Royal Shell Real Estate Inc - Ocala, FL
Selling Luxury Lifestyles...

I remember my cardiologist telling me that I had a choice to make...I could do it voluntarily or my heart would make the choice for me......hmmmmm seems like our head should make the choice and we will enjoy life more:)

Enjoy your life:)

Sep 03, 2010 08:13 AM