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Is the Federal Government Trying to Turn Young Adults Into Perpetual Dependants?

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Real Estate Agent with Retired

Matt Listro wrote a blog post about the new credit card rules for 18 - 21 year olds. Basically, in order for members of that age group to get a credit card, they need a co-signer, unless they can show proof of employment. Granted, this was a knee-jerk over reaction to the targeting of that age group by credit card companies. However, rather than really address the problem the government has put a band aid on it that, just as Cash for Clunkers did to the  automotive industry, will only move the problem to the future.

Basically, it is telling legal adults that they do not have the capability to make credit decisions for themselves. Granted, this may be the case, but requiring a co-signer will not necessarily make that person more credit savvy or reliable after the age of 21.

Couple this with the requirement for insurance companies to cover children up until the age of 26. This is telling this age group that they are not required to fend for themselves, that they can legally, by fiat, rely on their parents for support, at least insurance-wise, up until that age. (On a side note, during a particularly heated divorce, since my kids were over 18, my ex's attorney told her that she could get child support up until they were 23).

These two recent pieces of legislation, as well as some previously passed and others yet to come, are basically saying that this age group does not need to be self-reliant, they can depend upon bailouts.

However, at the same time, 18 year olds are allowed to sign a contract with the government for military service. They are allowed to sign on the dotted line that they are voluntarily putting their lives, their health, etc. in jeapordy yet they are not required to have anyone looking over their shoulders when they do this.

Additionally, at 18, they are allowed to marry and have kids without any "co-signer". This is  certainly a more serious issue than signing a credit card contract.

It is yet another case of nanny state, good intentioned but poorly implemented legislation. And this legislation will fail these young people just as badly as the lack of it has. Yes, some of the credit card companies have been targeting this group specifically. But why is that? The answer is simple, these kids, who immediately become legal adults on the 18th anniversary of birth, are not prepared for life on their own, in the world. They are not taught about credit, finances, banking, checking, etc. in school. They are not taught it in homes, partially because their parents don't know enough themselves, partially because of today's societal influence on families.

Yes, the answer to why they are not ready is simple. But, to address the problem systemically, to eliminate the root cause, and not just to put legislative bandages upon it, is a bit more complex. No, not really complex, just a bit more difficult. Schools need to start incorporating life, beyond sex education, into the curriculum. Parents need to understand their finances and work with their children. Show them what it takes to balance a check book. Show them how much they earn, and how much the government takes in taxes. Show them how much it costs to live the life-style they live. Show them the differences between wants and needs and how to prioritize for them.

I know its not a popular message right now, but, we need to teach our children to be self-reliant. We will not always be there to bail them out. And we cannot afford to have the government instill upon them a sense of dependance. Maybe some of us should start practicing that ourselves and set the example.

Comments (13)

Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

It's just a concession to credit card companies to have a second chance of collecting the debt. There is NO benefit to the consumer whatsoever,

Sep 13, 2010 01:34 PM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Mike,

Maybe it for the good?

If they went to public schools remaining dependent for an extra 5 to 7 years may give them time to learn common sense. It may give them time to learn logical thinking.

It's not like they're stopping them from drinking or buying Mexican drugs, making or killing babies, tattooing or mutilating their bodies.

Bill

 

Sep 13, 2010 01:53 PM
Barb & Sal Dragotta
Macomb, MI
Macomb County Michigan

Mike...you are definitely speaking to the choir here..too bad those who need to hear this probably will not so do;
          or,  that should be worded as those who need to READ this [ this age group often does not HEAR].
          Often the parent[s] who do teach through word & action as labeled too restrictive, while those who do not
          involve their children, whatever the age in the money decisions, are called too permissive.
         Sal & I chose to be on the restrictive side of this equation; not a welcome decision
         but a decision none-the-less made & followed.
         This should be a well comment-making post.  Good points made.  Thanks
 Barb & Sal

  

Sep 13, 2010 02:02 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Mike,

I like to keep it simple. If you're old enough to bleed for your country wearing a uniform, you're old enough to get a credit card without someone else signing.

Rich

Sep 13, 2010 02:12 PM
Elizabeth Baklaich
Virtual Assistant to Steve Baklaich RE/MAX Realty Source MN - Saint Cloud, MN

Hi Mike, I am concerned that all of this is geared towards creating people who will be easier to control, like you said dependent.

Sep 13, 2010 03:52 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Mike,

Are you, guys, really trying to find logic here? I think Richard is right, it is simply making it easier for CC companies to collect, which they do not need in case of army service, or marrying. Does it incease dependancy and creates a sense of immaturity? You bet

Sep 13, 2010 04:13 PM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ

Mike,

When you realize how hard it is for that age gruop to find wok these days it is just another way for the govt. to try and bankrupt their parents also. Our present govt will not be happy until at least 90% of the country is dependant on them. Every little fooloish law they pass is just another brick in the wall.

Sep 13, 2010 05:08 PM
Tchaka Owen
Galleria International Realty - Hollywood, FL

You left out the example where, "Basically, it's telling legal adults that they do not have the capability to make alcohol purchase/consumption decisions for themselves".

 

 

Sep 13, 2010 06:28 PM
Jon Budish
Resident Realty - Fort Collins, CO

I think it's typical legislation, meant to buy the youth vote with someone elses money. mandate that everyone else (parents) pay their way. Just another form of welfare.

Sep 14, 2010 01:50 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Richard - that may be part of it, but, I do believe that their is more to it, not much of it good

Bill - for too many that extra few years will not help

Barb & Sal - I actually had an 8th grade math teacher that used real life examples, helped me both in finances and to love math

Rich - nuff said

Elizabeth - it appears that much of the new legislation takes that position that individuals are victims and unable to manage their own lives

Jon - its some of both

Hugh - and a very poorly constructed wall it is

Tchaka - I left that one out on purpose, but I seriously thought about it. However, it is not new legislation.

Jon - have you seen some of the commercials about young adults on their parents insurance?

 

Sep 14, 2010 02:11 AM
Elizabeth Baklaich
Virtual Assistant to Steve Baklaich RE/MAX Realty Source MN - Saint Cloud, MN

Mike, It is really quite sad. Failure creates determination and gives necessary lessons to help facilitate success. Hershey is still one of my favorite examples of failure turned into huge success.

Sep 14, 2010 04:02 AM
Shirley Parks
Sands Realty 210-414-0966 - San Antonio, TX
Broker, 210-414-0966, San Antonio TX Real Estate

"cover children up until the age of 26" ...too funny.  When I was 26 I had children; one age 6 and one age 4.  My husband had graduated dental school and was in the army.  It wasn't common to have credit cards then but we received one unsolicited when my husband graduated.  We seldom charged on it but when we did, we paid it off immediately.  Gee, I sound like an old-timer.  :o)

Sep 14, 2010 04:57 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Elizabeth - we learn by our mistakes

Shirley - I had on child, and had been to Viet Nam twice

Sep 17, 2010 01:41 AM