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Monday's Inspiration! An interview with Christopher Gardner

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Real Estate Agent with Windermere Real Estate N.E.

At the Mastermind 2007 Conference that I attended in San Diego, Brian Buffini interviewed Christopher Gardner.  Here are some of the highlights of that interview.

In the "Pursuit of Happyness", actor Will Smith portrayed Christopher Gardner's character as he faced setback after setback while trying to achieve his goal of becoming a stock broker.  He was single father...and at one point ended up homeless on the streets of San Fransisco, while serving as an intern.  He relentlessly pursued his dream, and at the end of his internship was selected as a stock broker.

Chris Gardner doesn't become an inspiration if he remains homeless.

Chris said that his drive came because he "wanted to be world class at something."  His mother was his greatest inspiration.  He virtually had no dad and it was important to him break the cycle of the absent dad.  He made a promise to himself at 5 years old.  he realized that the problem doesn't have to be generational.  He said that being there for his son was "The most important thing I've ever done  in his life."

Here are some of the highlights in bullet points:

  • Although his Mother's dreams were shattered, she still instilled in him that he could do anything and be anything.
  • He made conscience CHOICE to go the other way from poverty, alcoholism and child abuse.
  • He said the best time to make friends is before you need friends.
  • "Always pursue happiness", is what he said when asked the "one thing" needed to live an inspired life.
  • When asked if he would like any "do overs" in life he responded, "Absolutely NOT.  Change one thing, everything changes afterward."
  • When asked, "What kept you from feeling overwhelmed?", he responded, "I embraced the spirit of life that he saw in my Mom.  I chose the light."

To learn more about this remarkable man, rent or purchase the DVD movie of his life "The Pursuit of Happyness"

Here is a video clip about Chris Gardner

Marlene Bridges
Village Real Estate Services, Inc. - Laguna Hills, CA
Laguna Homes|Laguna Condos|Laguna Real Estate
Greg & Brian - What a thrilling experience to see this incredible man in person.  I'm sure you will have many occasions to recall something he said that one day for many years to come.  Thanks for sharing.
Aug 27, 2007 04:36 AM
Karen Luke
South Metro Property Management, LLC - McDonough, GA
Henry County Real Estate

A M A Z I N G! I didn't know it was real life story. Thanks for sharing.

I just joined the Buffini organization recently.

See you around AR

Aug 27, 2007 05:14 AM
Leon Austin
Mobile Notary Services - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Mobile Notary

Greg, I have purchased the movie on DVD and it is one of my favorite movies. Each time I watch it there is a new lesson that I learn, or it reinforces a lesson that I previously learned. Thanks for sharing the video clip.

 

Aug 27, 2007 11:02 PM
Greg & Brian Perry
Windermere Real Estate N.E. - Kirkland, WA
Working-for-you
It was inspiring to see the man behind the movie and have him talk about those experiences.  I think about his story all the time and how he overcame his challenges through persistence.
Aug 28, 2007 02:46 AM
DEREK CHAPMAN
RE/MAX Realty Professionals - Wichita, KS
What a great pull yourself up by your bootstraps story.  This man is awesome and was THE best Oprah show I have ever seen.  Mind you, it's the only Oprah show I have ever seen.
Aug 28, 2007 02:34 PM
Greg & Brian Perry
Windermere Real Estate N.E. - Kirkland, WA
Working-for-you

Derek,

That's funny!

Aug 28, 2007 03:30 PM
Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS

Good Post!  I was inspired by him on the Oprah Show, David Letterman Show and seeing him at MasterMind was over the top!  Par for Buff!

It's a Good Life!

Fran Rokicki, Clubnet~Mentor, Broker~CT

Aug 29, 2007 09:38 AM
Greg & Brian Perry
Windermere Real Estate N.E. - Kirkland, WA
Working-for-you

I am finding that Chris Gardner has become a little voice in my head........keep going......keep moving to ward your goals......

Sep 03, 2007 07:47 AM
Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS
I keep hearing Brian!!  There was so much good content at that event!
Sep 06, 2007 06:19 AM