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Life Lessons - Things I should know.

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Real Estate Agent with Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael)

  Unfortunately, I don't know if there is an author for this or if it just a compilation of life lessons from one person or a group, but I thought this was very interesting and I am keeping it in my file of quotations...

To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more.

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

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Suzanne McLaughlin

Sabinske & Associates, Inc.    

When you need to buy or sell in St. Michael or Albertville Minnesota, or anywhere in Wright County, Sherburne County or Anoka County or Hennepin County, give me a call! 

Comments (13)

Ralph Gorgoglione
Metro Life Homes - Palm Springs, CA
California and Hawaii Real Estate (310) 497-9407

Hey Suzanne,

this is a really cool list!

I'll have to keep it in my notes.....

Sep 22, 2010 02:29 PM
Larry Bergstrom
Crescent Realty, Inc. Spanaway, WA. - Spanaway, WA
CNE, CRS, GRI

Fabulous. One quote that I saw many years ago, that may or may not fit into your list was:

When your boat comes in, be sure that you are there to unload it.

Sep 22, 2010 02:32 PM
Ted J. Macy
Top Agents Atlanta Metro - Milton, GA

 Thanks for the great list.  We all need to review this on decisions we make.  Love # 26.  Thanks for being you. 

Sep 22, 2010 03:08 PM
Mary Douglas
United Country Ponderosa Realty, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado - Red Feather Lakes, CO
REALTOR, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado

Suzanne, so many lessons in this thing called life!  I like this list thanks for putting it together - you could have 45 blog post just from this list !

Sep 22, 2010 03:17 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Actually, Mary, you are right.  Ralph, thanks again for reposting.  Ted.  I use #26 on a regular basis.  And, Larry, I think we should add it to the list,  thanks. 

Sep 22, 2010 03:21 PM
Ray Saenz
Exit Realty Laredo - Laredo, TX
Homes for Sale in Laredo, TX - Texas, Realtor

Suzanne,
this is a great share! these lessons are a must for everyone who wants to improve his life, take care and hope that you are doing fine !

 

Sep 22, 2010 03:25 PM
Don Wixom
RE/MAX Executives Nampa, ID - Nampa, ID
"Looking out for your next move..."tm

Suzanne, great rules to live by! There are some real gems in here! Thanks for sharing these!

Sep 22, 2010 04:36 PM
Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Suzanne,

Wow. What a compilation of common sense. This one is getting bookmarked to come back to on occasion.

Rich

Sep 22, 2010 04:58 PM
Graziella Bruner
NCS Premier Real Estate - Detroit, MI
Associate Broker - Serving Wayne & Oakland County

Cool and great list, this is something to reblog.  Thanks for the list.

Sep 22, 2010 05:09 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathryn, GREAT post, and especially enjoy #6 - really rather do anything else, but argue - learn to agree to disagree!

Sep 25, 2010 05:01 AM
Jack Mossman - The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Lodi
The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Lodi - Lodi, CA
The Nines Team in Lodi

Suzanne - so what's a passing grade?  Life isn't a spectator sport, but sometimes it should at least be multiple choice.  This is a great list ... and I wish I could say that I am consistent with all but one ... but I can't ... I suspect that we can all use this to help us focus and do better ... in all aspects of our lives.

Sep 25, 2010 03:45 PM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

I love this post and I plan to print this list!  It is a good reminder that things don't always go the way we would want them.

Sep 25, 2010 03:47 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Suzanne....what a great post and it really puts a new perspective on life.....I just read a reblog of this post by Joan Cox...

Oct 18, 2010 05:05 AM