Parents Insisted, “They Don’t Need an Agent!"—How First Time Homebuyers Find their Way Home!

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Real Estate Agent with Boardman Realty Minnesota License#90858

My cell phone rang as I pulled into the parking lot of my RE/MAX real estate office in White Bear Lake one afternoon. The caller said he and his fiancée had just driven by a listing of mine and could I show them the inside. My first question is always, “Are you working with a real estate agent?” “No”, he answered. The meeting was set for the next evening.

Remax Specialist Office in White Bear Lake by Teri Eckholm REALTORThe young man and his fiancée arrived with an entourage of parents and assorted other friends and relatives. Being first time buyers, they wanted assistance and approval on their very first home purchase. Looking over the home from top to bottom, they liked what they saw but needed time to think. I asked the question I always ask, “When you are shopping for a home, are you shopping for a REALTOR®?” One of the dads quickly answered. They don’t need an agent and won’t be signing any contract with a buyer’s agent. They will get a better deal working directly with the listing agent.

I explained why this wasn’t true but could tell from the look on this dad’s face, he wasn’t about to believe me.


I avoided the debate but went on to explain agency to the young couple. I asked them to sign the disclosure on agency as required by the State of Minnesota. Buyers need to understand that with any of my broker's listings, I am under contract to work for the seller and protect their interests. However, if the couple decides to sign a buyers’ representation agreement with me, they would be in a DUAL agency when looking at any property currently listed with RE/MAX Specialists. They had seen many homes over the last several weeks with dozens of other REALTORS®, but I was the only listing agent who explained agency to them or asked them to sign the required disclosure.

Days later, a decision was made; the young couple wanted to make an offer on my listing. A contract was signed for buyers’ representation for the specific home only. Dual agency now applies. As an agent working for both parties, I could not do anything that would hurt either the buyer or seller. Because the agreement was only for the specific home, I could not discuss other property options. An offer was presented, but terms could not be agreed upon. The buyers went away.

A few weeks the price was reduced on my listing. I called this young couple to see if the lower price would be enough to renew their interest. It would. But there was also another new construction house in a different area that was being considered.

Another showing. They were sure that they had it down to between the two homes. I could see the indecision and confusion on their faces. I asked about the other home they were considering to help them contrast it to my listing to help my selling clients and put their home in a better light. As with most homes, neither home was a perfect fit. I am a firm believer that after weighing all of the pluses and minuses, homes will sell themselves if they are the right home. A week passed. No offer came forth.

Finally a phone call came from the young man. We have made a decision. We are not going to offer again on your listing. It is not the right home for us. In fact, neither home is right. We are starting over and think we need our own agent. "Would you help us find a home?"

Now as their buyers’ representative, I got to work. For the next few weeks, we visited half a dozen or so homes from the hundreds currently on the MLS that met their criteria. Traveling from Stillwater to White Bear Lake and Hugo to Forest Lake, we narrowed down the field of potential homes to a couple of favorite houses. Finally, one sparked enough interest for a second showing with the parents, but this home also had a few quirks that raised concerns. That same evening, since we were out, I set up another showing for a home in a development that hadn't considered but I knew would be a very good match for their needs. As it turned out, the second home was perfect for these buyers!

With the perfect home, there was no delay or hesitation in signing the offer. Things fell into place. With every visit to the home for the inspection and showings, the young couple became more excited about their first home.

At the final walk-through, with minutes to go before they were to receive the keys to their first home, I asked them, “So, are you glad that you decided to sign with a REALTOR®?”

They answered together, “Yes!! You made it so much easier to find the right home! Especially for first time buyers.” I don’t make this stuff up…Those were their exact words.

After the closing, I received a hug and sincere, “thank you for everything”, from my young clients. As they set off to begin life in their dream home a thought struck me, I absolutely LOVE my job!

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Teri Eckholm. REALTOR with Boardman Realty, is a native Minnesotan who has lived and worked in the Minneapolis St Paul metro all of her life. She specializes in lakeshore homes, acreage properties and first time home buyers but assists anyone making a move in the north and east Twin Cities metro.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and need help from a professional REALTOR®, give Teri , a call or visit her website for a FREE Home Buyer Success Guide or FREE Home Value Report She specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

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Comments (12)

Wendy Betts
RE/MAX PROGROUP - SOUTH DELTA /SOUTH SURREY & WHITE ROCK - Tsawwassen, BC
South Delta & S. Surrey Realtor

Great job, Teri.  I think the moral of the story is, they didn't care how much you KNEW until the KNEW how much you cared!  We try and protect our own interests with the agency contracts, and sometimes forget that trust must be earned equal to our commission.  Your referrals from this young couple will be your biggest success. Cheers, Wendy Betts - Vancouver BC

Oct 26, 2010 04:42 AM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired Real Estate Professional

Good Morning. Great story and one that mirrors my personal experience as well. I am suggesting this post because it contains a message for the Buyers out there and another for the AR member agents ( fulfilling the obligation required by most states law) that agency be disclosed and acknowledged by Buyers in writing at the moment a property or price is discussed with a customer or client.

Oct 26, 2010 07:38 AM
Brigita McKelvie, Associate Broker
Cindy Stys Equestrian and Country Properties, Ltd. - Lehigh Valley, PA
The Broker with horse sense and no horsing around

Teri,

A job well done!  It is amazing how many agents do NOT explain the agencies to buyers or sellers.  I went on a listing appointment (it was an expired listing that was on the market several times) and asked them about the Consumer Notice.  They said that they signed it before but were unaware of what it meant because the agents never explained it to them.  Funny, the consumer signs the Notice which states at the end that the consumer understands the agencies.  Hmmmmm.  Do you think the agents understand it??

Brigita

Oct 26, 2010 08:57 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Great story, Teri.  Your honesty and forthrightness paid off.  You give the profession a good name.

Oct 26, 2010 09:14 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 118 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Terri,

Your joy at your buyers finding just the right house shines through this post.  There are so many ways that you have demonstrated the right way to handle this entire situation.

I've also suggested.

Great Job!

Oct 26, 2010 02:32 PM
Lynda Eisenmann
Preferred Home Brokers - Brea, CA
Broker-Owner,CRS,CDPE,GRI,SRES, Brea,CA, Orange Co

Hi Teri,

Ditto on the comments above. Seems like one very important aspect of our business is educating the consumers at times like this. Not everyone takes the time to do this.

Oct 26, 2010 02:53 PM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Wendy--I think you are correct...especially in the case of the parents. Many first time buyers will bring parents and if they have had a bad past experience, convincing them that you have their kid's best interest at heart is the key!

Oct 27, 2010 01:29 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

William--Thank you for suggesting. :) I gave the buyers a copy of the agency agreement that they signed and at the top it states that it is a disclosure not a contract and BY LAW we must discuss. The fact that I was the only agent out of several that did said something to them.

Oct 27, 2010 01:31 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Brigita--Thanks!! I would like to believe that my fellow MN agents know what agency is but don't know how best to present that agency agreement. It is hard to pull out when you meet people for the first time. But since it is the law they should figure it out quickly if they are showing their own listings.

Oct 27, 2010 01:34 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Jane--Thank you...I appreciate that very much! :)

Oct 27, 2010 01:34 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Judi--This is one time where everything just fell into place. Good clients and it is fun to find people the right first home! Thanks for the suggest. :)

Oct 27, 2010 01:35 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro

Lynda--I try to bring my Homebuyer's Success booklet every time I meet a first time buyer so they have something to take away with them that is fun to read while educational on the process of buying a home. It takes longer but the clients that really want to understand the home buying process and do their due diligence really appreciate it.

Oct 27, 2010 01:39 AM

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