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PRIORITY ONE: By Whose Standards?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY REB.755648

Priority One: By Whose Standards -- bibleWelcome to my Priority One blog series.  I choose to start my week on Active Rain with a post about something from the Word of God or my thoughts about walking through this life as a follower of Jesus Christ.

This week has provoked thoughtfulness.  As I have pushed through another week another month without measurable positive results in areas that have proved stubborn to change, I have struggled to not give into that tempting place of discouragement.  I say tempting, because if I go there, I might just talk myself into that next place of thinking it's okay to stop fighting and to accept less than what I believe God has for me.

Priority One: By Whose StandardsIt is important in these times that I don't listen to my own thoughts and emotions because they just can't be trusted. In everything, I need to be careful how I look at things: by whose standards I am to judge my circumstances.

My way of thinking has been shaped over the years by too many unreliable influences.  I'm sure any of you reading this can say the same thing!

  • My standard says I am physically and mentally tired of the struggle...God's standard says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, and His grace is sufficient for me.
  • My standard says I am overweight and unhappy with my body....God's standard says I am His workmanship, and I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
  • My standard says I am not seeing enough results for my labor and am therefore unsuccessful...God standard says "For I know the plans I have for you," says the Lord. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope." Jer 29:11
  • My standard says I am woefully unrighteous as I struggle with impatience and frustration, self-centeredness, an often too critical attitude, and a tongue that is too quick and sometimes too harsh, and . . . God's standard says my righteousness is in Him, and He is faithful and just to cleanse me from all unrighteousness.

I could go on....and probably so could you.

So today I wish you the peace of Christ in your hearts. And together I pray with you:  Lord, help me today to look at my situations with the mind of Christ...to measure my circumstances according to YOUR standards and not my own. Help me to remember that your purposes are infinitely different from the things the world says are important. And thank you, that as I strive to follow your Word, that by your Holy Spirit, you allow the Christ in me to show forth more each day, the "self" in me to be replaced with your love and kindness.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  gentleness and self-control....Gal 5:22-24.

Priority One

 Have a great Sunday, and join me as I put God first in everything...He is my Priority One!                

Be Blessed!

Join me during the week as I share information about the real estate market and life and living around Windsor and its surrounding towns in Hartford County, Connecticut.

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Don Wixom
RE/MAX Executives Nampa, ID - Nampa, ID
"Looking out for your next move..."tm

Lisa, great post & great messages from God's word! Thanks for being so bold to share your thoughts and scriptures with us!

Nov 07, 2010 06:03 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

Great post - and yes, you are right!  We need to examine our way of thinking! Thank you for this.

Nov 07, 2010 06:30 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Wow! Your first priority posts have all been good so far... but this one is my favorite!  A list of "valid" excuses to give up... countered by the perfect word of God who loves us and wants the very best for us. Thank you for reminding us of that today. ♥♥♥

Nov 07, 2010 06:49 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Good for you, not going to that next place.  I can usually look at the struggles of people with larger problems than me and begin to count my blessings if I find myself getting dark and twisted inside.  Love your very inspirational posts Lisa. 

Nov 07, 2010 08:55 AM
Cinnamon Wright
Wilmington Real Estate 4U 910.547.1446 - Wrightsville Beach, NC
Assistant to Tish Lloyd

Have you been spying on me?  It's been an incredibly rough week internally and my little voice has only seemed to get louder as I got lower.  My spirits are buoyed by your post and Gods Word.  Thank you!

Nov 07, 2010 09:14 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Lisa, this is one of the best spiritual posts I have read in a long time. I am featuring this on SpiritualRain and voting for it to be featured on all of Activerain.

Nov 07, 2010 09:52 AM
Lisa Orme
The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY - Windsor, CT
Broker/Realtor, ABR, CRS,GRI, PSCS, SFR, Notary Pu

Don - Surely the only boldness I have is from Him, but thank you.

Susan - We absolutely do - every day - at least once or twice...

Joni - thank you for always having something so wonderfully encouraging for me, girl. This one was one of those that was harder to work through and get on paper, so I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Tammy - There are many in more difficult situations than I, but discouragement tempts us all at times. I'm just glad I have been given a measure of faith to carry me through, especially on those days that are a little rougher than he rest!

Cinnamon - I am so glad my words have lifted your spirit. That internal voice can be so destructive to us if we don't learn to silence it and focus on what the Word says instead!

Mike - thank you - I am glad to have the forum to share the word that God has given me...Blessings!

Nov 07, 2010 10:49 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Lisa,

Awesome!  God's word never says that we should live by our standards but by HIS.  In fact, if our eyes are on mankind instead of Jesus Christ, we can be assured that we are going to miss the best that God has for us. 

I encourage you in your endeavors.  I struggle with my own and forget that God knows exactly where I am and has a plan. 

I pray His blessings be always poured upon you!

Nov 07, 2010 12:26 PM
xxxx xxxx
xxxx - Alexandria, PA

I like how you are choosing to look at what is positive and what must be a priority instead of dwelling on the negatives.  May God bless you in the good times and the struggles.

Nov 07, 2010 12:40 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Lisa ~ your words have touched me.  I believe we all have those same thoughts about our lives.  It is easy to be self critical.  The question we need to ask ourselves is, "By Whose Standard?"  Thank you!

Nov 08, 2010 07:27 AM
Lisa Orme
The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY - Windsor, CT
Broker/Realtor, ABR, CRS,GRI, PSCS, SFR, Notary Pu

Judi - You are right - everything is about living by God's standards - whether we have been saved by Jesus Christ or not, it is still His standards that we will be accountable to - not our own!

Phil - I can always use more blessings, so thank you!

Dawn - thank YOU! We DO all have the same thoughts (when we actually take time to reflect, that is), and it is good to know that many others travel these roads of life with us...we are fellow travelers....

Nov 08, 2010 08:12 AM
Joetta Fort
The DiGiorgio Group - Arvada, CO
Independent Broker, Homes Denver to Boulder

Wow - you said it, and now all I can do is agree with you, and with your prayer. God's Word is an excellent tonic for discouragement. My other favorite thing when things get tough is worship.

Nov 08, 2010 09:56 AM
Lisa Orme
The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY - Windsor, CT
Broker/Realtor, ABR, CRS,GRI, PSCS, SFR, Notary Pu

Joetta - thanks! Yes, worship is essential - and so is giving thanks IN all circumstances! But you know that too!

Nov 08, 2010 01:20 PM