Never forget the ones who didn't come home.

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Real Estate Agent with Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 NC 166249

Never forget the ones who didn't come home.

 

On Veteran's Day remember all the veterans of all the wars in the history of our country, living and dead.  For me, Veteran's Day is the day I always remember Tommy.  He didn't come back.

 

 

I grew up in the sixties, so Viet Nam was a pervasive part of my life.  I was developing breasts, learning to dance and do algebra, and somewhere on the other side of the world, a war was raging.

During that time I developed my first crush, experienced my first kiss and got my period.  Tommy was the recipient of my first crush, he was the first boy to hold my hand and he gave me my first kiss.

 

Here we are in our last yearbook. 

 

I was eleven years old and Tommy was twelve when I “fell in love” with him.  He was my brother’s best friend and for a long time I might as well have been invisible.  I was fifteen when Tommy gave me my first kiss.  We were both basketball players and we were on the bus going to a game one Friday night.  The boys and girls had to sit on opposite sides of the bus but Tommy always managed to sit across the aisle from me near the back of the bus.  He’d hold my hand across the aisle when the coach wasn’t looking and one night he leaned over and kissed me.  Now a war was raging inside my teen-age heart!

He was the first of my friends to be drafted and the first to die in Viet Nam.  Tommy died a hero but it didn’t change a thing.  The war in Viet Nam continued and more young people went and died and other wars just seem to keep following...one right after the other.

You can learn all about Tommy by checking on the Viet Virtual Wall.  He was from McMinnville, Tennessee and his name was Tommy Young.

http://www.virtualwall.org/iStates.htm

 

I touch his name on the wall every time I go to DC and I never pass a Veteran’s Day without thinking about Tommy.  This is the rubbing I made the first time I located his name on the wall.

 

Don’t ever forget.

 

 

 













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Gabe Sanders
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Thanks Marian.  As a Vet from those days, I appreciate the post and the information.

 

Nov 10, 2010 10:58 PM #5
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Roger D. Mucci
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Tommy touched your heart and will remain there forever.............thank you for sharing this lovely, touching story with all of us, and for opening our hearts to Tommy and all of those who lost their lives defending our honor and country.

Nov 10, 2010 11:10 PM #6
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Roy Kelley
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Thanks for sharing your personal story. This is a good reminder to thank the families of veterans that gave their lives for our country and our freedom.

 Blooming for all veterans today!

Nov 10, 2010 11:23 PM #7
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Cinnamon Wright
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Thank you for this.  My Dad did 2 tours in Vietnam, and would never talk about it.  I understand he lost a number of friends there and 1, that he grew up with and went into service with, that came home, but was never the same.  All of our service members, past and present, deserve our thanks and admiration.

Nov 11, 2010 12:13 AM #8
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Paula Stadiem
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Pine Knoll Shores, NC

What a small world that one of your AR friends knew your childhood sweetheart.  Thank you to him for his service and all of our servicemen.  God Bless America

Nov 11, 2010 02:50 AM #9
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Tish Lloyd
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Thank you, Marian, for this loving tribute.  Our hearts are heavy and proud this day.  My husband did not lose his life until he returned from Viet Nam and suffered long with the results of Agent Orange.  He spoke very little about his two tours there, but he was a staunchly proud American.  How Blessed we were to have known these fine men.

Nov 11, 2010 03:00 AM #10
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Amy Hahn
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Mom - I have been hearing stories about Tommy my whole life, and I remember visiting the Wall with you a number of times.  As I read Michael's comment, chills went through my body.  Michael wrote a post called, "He ain't Heavy"...you need to check it out.

To Michael - Thank you for your service!

Nov 11, 2010 03:07 AM #11
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What a special story and memory for you.  We must always remember to thank our veterans today and everyday.

Nov 11, 2010 04:03 AM #12
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Hi Marian--Not only is your story touching but, seeing that another one of my favorite AR peeps was there with him just gives me goosebumps.  My, how the world keeps getting smaller.  Thank you for sharing your touching story--coming from a military family myself, I will NEVER forget those who have given themselves for the freedom of ALL Americans.

Nov 11, 2010 04:47 AM #13
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Marian, You know we won't forget in our household!  Thanks for writing this tribute to your friend, it could not have been easy.

Nov 11, 2010 06:52 AM #14
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Marian-a beautiful tribute to Thomas and knowing that Micheal is connected to your story is even more amazing.  I just came home from Arlington Cemetery and it is a beautiful day to remember all of those who have lost their lives.

Nov 11, 2010 07:49 AM #15
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Richie Alan Naggar
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We are Never to forget anyone who gives service to or for another. When that person bets his life, I become his servant and staunch supporter even more. With all the mysteries in the world  and with so much to be grateful for, why man kills man...escapes me....Until all men feel that way, we fight to protect the American way. I am grateful.....thank you

Nov 11, 2010 07:57 AM #16
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Andy Brown
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Great Posting and very timely

kind of pulled at the heart strings.

Andy

Nov 11, 2010 08:15 AM #17
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Kristin Mason
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Always remember and what a lovely tribute!  As long as they are in our thoughts and hearts their scarifice will NEVER be forgotten!!!!!  God Bless All our soldiers, past, present and future!!!!!

 

Proud Army MOM

 

HOOAH!

Nov 11, 2010 09:09 AM #18
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Marian Goetzinger
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Thanks to all who commented.  We have been driving all day and I couldn't comment individually.  Thank God we no longer treat vets with anything other than respect and admiration.  Again.  God bless America.

Nov 11, 2010 09:45 AM #19
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The connection that I've read about between you and Tommy...and Michael as well is truly one that touched my heart. And, although I've not met any of you, I know why you're all so special to me. I will think of Tommy and you and Michael the next time I go to "The Wall" in DC.

Nov 11, 2010 09:57 AM #20
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Marian, My favorite cousin left a huge impact on me as a young child and then he left for Vietnam and didn't come back. I remember the sadness of loss in my family and I still carry that today for him. As long as I remember, he is remembered. Thank you for sharing your story, it is appreciated and my heart is touched as well.

Nov 11, 2010 10:33 AM #21
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My son came back; his best friend did not.  War leaves a hole in many hearts.

Nov 11, 2010 10:45 AM #22
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Marian.... that had to be one of the most touching stories that I have ever read... and I can't see right now... thanks for sharing this.. I feel somewhat guilty now... I didn't practice what I preached in my post today... the day got away from me and this is just another reminder... thanks and thanks for sharing and walking me down memory road that made me feel a part of this...

jeff belonger

 

Nov 11, 2010 12:19 PM #23
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Hi Marian: great posting.... It made me tear up! I love yuor photos also.... G-d Bless. Gay

Nov 12, 2010 06:55 AM #24
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