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In Memory of Tom Smith and All Canadian Soldiers Who Risked, and Often Lost, Their Lives For Us - Remembrance Day 2010

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Today is Remembrance Day in Canada. It is a day set aside for all of us to remember and honour all of our soldiers who have risked, and often lost, their lives to protect not only us, but also the citizens of many countries around the world.

Today in Oakville we will honour those brave men and women at 10:15 am, at the Cenotaph at George's Square, corner of Church and Navy Streets. The Oakville Legion Branch 114 will be hosting the ceremony.


I wrote the following in honour of my Great-great Uncle, Tom Smith, who sacrificed his life in 1917 when he was only 27 years old so that we could all enjoy the freedoms we have today.

In Memory of Tom Smith 1891-1917, Battle for Passchendaele, Belgium~Your Hope Is Strong In Us

 Thomas Smith and Granny-da and family

The thousands of miles that separated Thomas Smith from his family and home in the North Bay area of Ontario, Canada, disappeared in his final hours as he recalled his rocky Canadian shield home and the barren landscape of felled forests and clear lakes.
What he would give for one more day to be back home cutting trees as a lumberman rather than dying here in the waste deep mud and wet cold in the battle for Passchendaele, Belgium. The end was so close, on Tom's last day, so close and yet so far.

Tom, my Grannyda's Uncle, died in that mud, better known as the 'slough of despond', on October 26th, 1917. Barely 11 days later the battle was won. 'If only he could have hung on a bit longer', we voice our thoughts as we shake our heads sadly.

He left behind no children; only the families of his siblings and his closest brother, Blakeney Smith, my Great-Grandfather. Today, as we remember, our hearts are sad for you and the thousands of your compatriots who died for the same cause, Tom.

We keep your memory safe with us and have not forgotten you, nor the sacrifice you made so that we, your descendants, might live in peace and security.

If you are able to look down upon us now and hear the conversations of the family who still feels a heavy heart over your death, you will have seen the narrowing of my Father's and my eyes this morning, as we sat remembering in a quiet kitchen while drinking tea and gazing upon all that we have left of you.

You would have seen our heads downcast in sorrow as we talked of your height of 5'11 1/2" and how you were tall and strong and had the blue eyes of your family who came before you.

 Tom Smith British War Medal and Victory MedalYou would have heard my Father exclaim once more, while holding old documents in hand, 'such a tragedy and loss of so many young men and all so far from home.' You would have heard us discuss your grave in Flander's Fields and the memorial there with your name on it. Still so far from home.

You will know, that we who hold your memory strong, hold your medals up to the light and read your name finely engraved on the outside edges, as a feeling of sorrowful pride envelops our hearts and we remember once more, that these were earned , by you.

British War Medal

Victory Medal

We know so little about you.
Of course, we have all of your particulars in government issued, official looking documents, duly stamped and signed, that describe your appearance down to the finest detail and where you were stationed and when you arrived and when of course, you died.

The 'human' element is missing though. What made you, you.
What made you smile, what songs you enjoyed on Sunday evenings after dinner with the rest of the Smith clan in those northern woods you called home.

We know not of your dreams that you held close to your heart or if there was someone back home that you held a candle for in the depths of your being.
Those stories were not recorded by government issued documents. It was only your body and mind they wanted, and this was evidenced in the line of one document where you were 'taken for strength' to fight the next mission as your military history moved forward in fine penmanship on a frail, old paper that we keep safe.

We sit in kitchens and surmise as we gaze upon the seriousness Tom Smith -Passaschendaele and determination of your handsome young face, and in our hearts we know, that not only did you do good, you did good for all of us. We will remember you Thomas Smith, always.

If, in your final hours, the old phrase of your Irish ancestors, 'my hope is strong in thee', crossed your mind while you lay in the cold and mud so far from home, know that your final thoughts sent on a trajectory of time, were received by us and they will live on.
What you fought and gave your life for, your hope for peace and the security of future generations that was etched upon your soul, is strong in us, Tom Smith.
Your unspoken thoughts in your final hours, your hope, will live on through us and the successes you died for, will always remain.
We will remember you , Thomas Smith, we will always remember.

In Memory of Private T SMITH

648824, 58th Bn., Canadian Infantry
(Central Ontario Regiment)
Who died age 27
on 26 October 1917
Son of William Smith, of Teeswater, Ontario.
Remembered with honour

YPRES (MENIN GATE) MEMORIAL

Commemorated in perpetuity by the Commonwealth War Graves Commission










©JoSmith

 

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Comments(22)

Malcolm Johnston
Century 21 Lanthorn Real Estate LTD., Trenton, Ontario - Trenton, ON
Trenton Real Estate

Jo, what a touching tribute to your great Uncle. It was such a tragedy, so many young men from across the country who never came home. We should never forget.

Nov 11, 2010 06:15 AM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Jo - a very touching, thoughtful and thought provoking tribute to your Great Uncle, Tom Smith. So many put their lives in harms way for the generations that  followed

Nov 11, 2010 11:02 AM
Brian Madigan
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage (Toronto) - Toronto, ON
LL.B., Broker

Jo,

That was such a wonderful tribute. There was a movie about that battle. This tribute reminds me that I want to see it.

Brian

Nov 11, 2010 01:11 PM
Rick Sergison
EXP Realty of Canada Inc., Brokerage - Pickering, ON
Durham Region Real Estate Blog

The son-in-law of a dear friend of mine (and a fellow REALTOR®) was honoured to be in Ypres yesterday to represent his fellow Canadian Forces brothers and sisters at the Rememberance Day ceremonies.  Thanks for sharing a great tribute to those who deserve so much more than we can ever repay.

Nov 11, 2010 04:52 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Dena,

Thanks Dena!

Valerie mentioned (see above) the reason behind our remembrance day being the same as yours.....I hadn't known the reason why until I read her comment.

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 12:58 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Valerie,

I being one of those people. Thank you very much for stopping by with your nice comment and the history lesson.

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 01:01 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Malcolm,

It was a war fought in the trenches and hence the very high loss of young soldiers. I had tears in my eyes for most of the day yesterday; for all of those brave men and women who gave the ultimate sacrifice for us.

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 01:04 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Thanks Kathy.

Perhaps some day we will all live in peace and there will be no more wars. I dream and hope....

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 01:06 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Brian,

Thank you.

The movie was excellent. It brought out the human side of the war. There is also a very good book written about the battle.....I gave my Dad and one of my brothers each a copy one year for Christmas and inserted my memorial to Tom Smith inside of it.

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 01:07 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Rick,

It's admirable that he was there to represent our forces at the memorial.  Some day I want to visit Ypres and see my Great-great Uncle's plaque and the place where he lost his life.

Jo

Nov 12, 2010 01:19 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Hi Jo, I marvel at your beautiful tribute to your great uncle, and your thoughtful and heartfelt musings of what his life might have held had he not died in the mud of Flanders.  I find it very touching that his family members still remember and honor him.  I do hope you get to visit the battlefield someday.

Nov 12, 2010 11:51 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Jo, the sacrifices, the warm stories are now being recognized and honoured and proof of that is the record attendance of the public at cenotaphs across the country.

Attendance has been increasing over the last 4 years!

Ty

Nov 12, 2010 10:35 PM
Brian Schulman
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage, Lancaster PA - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster County PA RealEstate Expert 717-951-5552

Jo, I hope that somehow Tom is able to know the appreciation and reverence that you and your family still hold for his ultimate sacrifice.   (BTW, what did you use to label each person in the photograph?)

Nov 21, 2010 12:51 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

hi Bruce,

Thank you for stopping by and for taking the time to read and leave such a lovely comment.  ((-:

Jo

Nov 21, 2010 06:05 AM
Dean Bergstrom
Bergstrom Realty Inc., Brokerage - Stoney Creek, ON
Broker of Record

Jo-Anne

Your great uncle would be very honoured that you and your family continue to pay respects for his efforts.

Dean

Nov 22, 2010 01:27 AM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Hi Jo

Tom Smith sounds likean amazing man; it would be very proud of you.

Nov 30, 2010 01:24 PM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Hi Jo

Tom Smith sounds likean amazing man; it would be very proud of you.

Nov 30, 2010 01:24 PM
Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Hi Jo

Tom Smith sounds likean amazing man; it would be very proud of you.

Nov 30, 2010 01:24 PM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Jo .....

From our House to Yours
We wish You all the Blessings of Christmas
and
A Super New Year

At this beautiful season let us all remember that the greatest gift of all is love. May you have a loving Christmas, surrounded by family and friends.

Dec 24, 2010 03:52 AM
Fred Cope
Reliant Realty in Nashville, TN - Nashville, TN
Looking For Homes With A Smile

Jo Anne,

As I was reviewing names of ActiveRain members who have commented on my blogs, I came upon your post in memorial of your Great-great uncle Tom Smith.  Today is January 25, 2011 and I am free because of young men like your great-great uncle.  Thank you for putting a name and face to my freedom.  I live in Nashville, Tennessee, USA, and we share more than a border--we share liberty and a gratitude for those who paid the high price of that liberty.

Thank you for your contributions to ActiveRain, to the professionalism of REALTORS®, and making me better for having passed this way. 

Jan 25, 2011 01:39 PM