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Catch a wave and you're sitting on top of the world.

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796

Mid boom guy here. I was born in 1950's although I look much younger I know. I grew up listening to the Beach Boys. You may recall one of their hits that said 'catch a wave and you're sitting on top of the world'.

Well it happened this morning. I was on the sofa, coffee on the left, laptop in lap, plate on the right with toasted homemade bread, organic cherry jam on top. This is the good life I'm living after all. I was of course looking over blogs. That is when the wave hit as it does somewhere along the way every Holiday season. I always know when it hits. It comes over me from the top of my head, down into my heart and soul through to the tips of my toes. It is the Holiday Spirit like a wave. It will carry me a long way, way past January 1, 2011 well into the new year heart over flowing.

I'm a kind and caring person yet I think unusual thoughts when the wave hits me. Thoughts like, thanks for the great ride, this is a great life!  Thoughts like, 'I'm sure glad that bout with appendicitis in 1962 didn't take my Dad like it threatened to'. The Salvation Army brought us gifts that year. I was not yet five years old, next to the youngest of six kids. We had little except each other and we learned the meaning of family there and then. I get thankful all over again that I have all my siblings still with me in this life and how much I love them. My older sister now widowed, the member of a club she did not want to join. She smiles and triumphs in her way. My brother that survived cancer in his early twenties will be 55 in the summer, now a grandfather. My own daughters now 24 were born prematurely in 1986, both well and happy. There are so many more miracles. Miracles still happen. Have you celebrated in gratitude those miracles unique to your family and friends? Have you caught the wave?

I see things differently too because of the wave. It's as though there is a lens of compassion over my glasses. I take a little more time to listen to the needs of others and act. Take heart. Help the struggling, ease some else's burden. I see that those that need me are not here by coincidence. It's a wave of gratitude and a wave of opportunity.

Catch a wave and you'll be sitting on top of the world.

Happy Holidays friends.

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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Charles, we have been blessed to be in this industry and so nice to give back!    YES, saw you in person, and you DO look younger!    Happy Thanksgiving Charles to you and your family!

Nov 25, 2010 02:52 AM
Todd & Devona Garrigus
Garrigus Real Estate - Beaumont, CA
Broker / REALTORS®
Charles. Your blog here today set me straight for my Thanksgiving Day- Thank you. I had appendicitis when I was a teenager and it was something I will never forget. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours! May it be happy and warm!
Nov 25, 2010 05:24 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Charles, there are so many things for us to be thankful for through the years, we are thankful for everything we still have while the others have lost and our family is still with us.  Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!

Nov 25, 2010 05:35 AM
Joetta Fort
The DiGiorgio Group - Arvada, CO
Independent Broker, Homes Denver to Boulder

'The wave' - what a great way to put it. CS Lewis called that feeling Joy. Whatever it's called, I'm so happy for you that you get it!

Nov 25, 2010 05:42 AM
Jen Edwards
RE/MAX Unlimited - Ponte Vedra Beach, FL
Broker Associate

How appropriate, this was the theme one of the Macy's Day Parade acts.  Catch the wave!

Nov 25, 2010 05:45 AM
Rene Fabre
ARFCO Media - Renton, WA
Practicing Philosophical Eclectic of the Arts

Charles: I never coined it 'the wave', but it certainly explains what I too feel at this time of the year. I seem to reconnect and get off it. It's an interesting mix of looking within and reaching out. If anyone asks me is there a God, I answer with a resounding yes! I've witnessed so many miracles as you have that are so truly profound. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday with your family and friends... Well said my friend.

Nov 25, 2010 06:39 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Rene, It is a wave.

Jen, Not a fan of the parade but a fan of the wave of gratitude. Enjoy the Holidays.

Joetta, Love C.S.Lewis.  have an extensive clooection of his writings. Thanks for the kind words and thoughts.

Rita, All the best to you fellow Arkie, fellow blogger.

Joan, Thanks. Raincamp was a BLAST. Hope to see you again in Anaheim. Happy Holidays.

Judy, It's people first, always. Thanks for reading and commenting.

Alex, I always read and enjoy your posts as well. Happy Holidays to you and yours.

Joni, Either you catch it or it catches you, however it works ENJOY.

Tish, Thanks for being here and reading and commenting.

Marilyn, I knew you were riding a wave of gratitude. Happy Holidays.

Cindy, Life is really great. We are not without challenges however, we know we are blessed.

Roger, I have more than I would have known to ask for. Thanks for being a friend.

Nov 25, 2010 11:05 AM
TODD PICCONI INLANDEMPIRE & SOUTH ORANGE COUNTY, CA
TODD PICCONI REAL ESTATE - Dana Point, CA
Personal Engagement,Precision, and Professionalism

Charles,

Got me choked up thinking about life, what we experience and all of the blessings that come out of those experiences.  Now I'm officially in the "spirit" and riding also.

GREAT POST & THANKFUL you posted, too...HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

Nov 25, 2010 12:54 PM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Thank you, two wonderful words that mean everything.

Happy Holiday to you and your family.

Patricia/Seacoast NH & ME

Nov 25, 2010 01:27 PM
Claudette Millette
The Buyers' Counsel - Ashland, MA
Buyer, Broker - Metrowest Mass

Charles:

The Beach Boys expressed a wonderful sentiment when they wrote that song and you have cleverly used it here to express another.  Well done.

 

Nov 25, 2010 11:32 PM
Irene Kennedy Realtor® in Northwestern NJ
Weichert - Lopatcong, NJ

Charles,

You DO look much, much younger! I'm celebrating due to a wave. On Labor Day my brother broke his neck surfing. While prognosis was wonderful, I only relaxed on Wednesday when the neck brace was removed.  If I have any say (which I don't!), Brian's future waves will only be of the gratitude kind you mention...

Nov 26, 2010 12:38 AM
Cheryl Ritchie
RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com - Huntingtown, MD
Southern Maryland 301-980-7566

Cool Post. I love the Beach Boys. Their music  defines Summer at the first note.

Nov 26, 2010 12:52 AM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

. .and a great way to extend its crest.. .by sharing it with us.

Awesome post!

Nov 26, 2010 12:53 AM
Joshua Zargari
MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating - Lynbrook, NY
MJ Decorators Workshop

Hi Charles!

Those were beautiful words with special meaning.

At this stage of our life, after achieving most of our dreams we are open to help others...

Happy holiday!

Nov 26, 2010 05:55 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Joahua, Thank you sir. We are blessed if we can help others.

Fernando, You're pretty awesome too. I always enjoy your posts.

Cheryl, Love the Beach Boys music still. My fav? 'In My Room'.

Irene, WOW that's wild. I'm so happy your brother is here to tell the story. I'm wishing him a complete ans speedy recovery.

Claudette, Thank you.

Patricia, Thank you...small statement, big meaning.

Todd, Let the wave do it's work friend.

Nov 26, 2010 06:02 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Charles,

 

WHAT? Born in the mid-50's? I'm tossing the challenge flad! No WAY! mid to late 30's at best man. Just unreal. wow.

Nov 26, 2010 12:52 PM
Tammy Pearce
Haute Realty 214-994-6474 - Dallas, TX
Tammy Pearce

I love the WAVE!  I wait for it beginning in July....it doesn't usually hit till mid-November though :)

Nov 29, 2010 02:42 AM
Scott Hayes
(512) 786-8300 - Austin, TX
Realty Austin, Broker Associate

Charles

 

What a well written, thoughtful post. 

I've always been a Pet Sounds guy, but I'll have to check out catch a wave

Dec 03, 2010 05:23 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor
Charles - you do have a wonderful way with words - your posts show us who you are and that person is most caring!
Jan 03, 2011 11:21 AM
Michael Wilson
Branford, CT

Yes Pet Sounds was a great album and this is a great post.

Catching the wave is something that happens whe  we try to add some value to the world around us. have a good one

May 27, 2014 12:49 AM