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Wrestiling - My Love/Hate Relationship!

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty 442805 Ohio

My son has been wrestling for his entire high school career and I've had a real Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling!

What I Hate About Wrestling in My Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling

1.)  Watching my son drop weight over the years!  I've been in shouting matches with my husband over it! 

2.)  The many staph (including MRSA), impetigo and other various skin infections from this sport!  YUCK - YUCK - YUCK!!!

3.)  Watching my son during the matches  -  I literally shake from head to toe when he hits that mat!

  What I Love About Wrestling in My Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling

Through the years of my son wrestling, I have come to really respect this sport!  

 1.)  The discipline my son has learned and executed.  

 2.)  The confidence it has given to my son - especially in the early years when he was really small.  

 3.)  Watching him encourage his team mates and work together to grow.  

 4.)  The work ethic this sport is teaching him.      

         Another thing I  Love About Wrestling  in my  Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling  is the lasting network.  My husband was a wrestler and he is constantly running into old wrestling buddies, when they hear that our son is wrestling  they all offer to help.  My son has been blessed to have past State and National champions guide him and a few have done clinics for the teams in the area.  

 My son is also very social and he has made a lot of friends from other teams all throughout the area - that is a really cool thing to see.  I talk to him all the time about the importance of his connections he is making through his wrestling, how his wrestling connections will last throughout his lifetime and they will come into play during his work life.  That's a real plus in  My Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling  

 He's been working really hard including during the off season and it is paying off for him -  2 weeks ago he took 4th place in a tournament and this past weekend he took 2nd place.  

Here he is accepting the 2nd place plaque    

  Michael 2nd place wrestling 

 Michael is 2nd from right to left in the blue and yellow hoodie  

 My Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling  continues!  I am thankful that there is more to love about wrestling in My Love/Hate Relationship with Wrestling and I truly believe my son will look upon these years with fond memories when he is grown.    

Comments(11)

Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Christine- I can understand the love/hate relationship you have, but what a great way to teach a young person discipline and commitment.  FYI, wasn't able to see the photo!

Dec 23, 2010 03:15 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Christine, my son (9 years old) has shown no interest in sports to this point but if he does I'd be happy if he chose wrestling. I loved wresting but hated my coach. I think it was mutual. I was undefeated but my coach made me miserable because I used my intuition and not his prescribed moves. I quit just before State because I couldn't handle his haranguing.

Dec 23, 2010 03:23 AM
Christine Pappas - REALTOR®
eXp Realty - Willoughby, OH
When You’re Ready To Move, I’m Ready To Help

Thanks Kathy - hopefully I fixed the picture.

Ohhhhhhh Bob that is horrible!  What a shame you did not have a more positive role model to continue on!  Sounds like you were awesome.  And really, once you learn the moves - you have to be able to think on your feet - it is just you on that mat. 

 

Dec 23, 2010 03:29 AM
Cindy Marchant
Keller Williams Indy NE 317-290-7775 www.marchantteam.com - Carmel, IN
"Cindy in Indy" , Realtor, Fishers Real Estate

I can understand both the love and hate of that...I have all girls but I think watching kids in sports is always a love/hate between what they gain from the programs and the intensity they have to exert to excel....

Cindy in Indy

Dec 23, 2010 04:47 AM
Christine Pappas - REALTOR®
eXp Realty - Willoughby, OH
When You’re Ready To Move, I’m Ready To Help

I didn't recognize you Cindy in Indy without that cute dress on!  We get so nervous for our kids.

I am so proud of him Val for all that he has accomplished.

Dec 23, 2010 11:25 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

I can understand the love/hate relationship and why too Christine.............I think I'd probably feel the same way.  Merry Christmas to you and yours.

Dec 24, 2010 12:01 AM
Michele Miller ~ REALTOR®, LMC, HSE, CHS, SRES, CMRS
ERA Key Realty~Worcester County Realty Group - Worcester, MA
'Helping You Make the Best Move"

Christine,

My son did karate for about 7 years and I hated to even watch him compete at his first tournament, so I know where you are coming from!

Congratulations to your son! You must be so proud!

Dec 24, 2010 02:37 PM
Christine Pappas - REALTOR®
eXp Realty - Willoughby, OH
When You’re Ready To Move, I’m Ready To Help

Thanks Roger!  Same to you! 

Thank you Michele - physical contact sports are nerve racking!

Dec 25, 2010 02:37 AM
Katerina Gasset
The Gasset Group & Get It Done For Me Virtual Services - Provo, UT
Amplify Your Real Estate & Life Dreams!

Hi Christine,I understand your love/hate relationship .As a mother I would definitely feel the same way.Thanks for this wonderful share.We're definitely learning so much about you.Best of luck to your career and Stay an amazing Willoughby Oh Short Sale Agent.

 

May 28, 2012 11:05 PM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

Hello Christine,this is a cute article.Thanks for sharing this with us.Good luck on your business and continue being top Willoughby OH Short Sale Agent. 

Jul 24, 2012 03:35 AM