The Death of a Dream

I really don't like to sound morbid, but today was not how I envisioned my Christmas Eve. I saw myself doing last minute shopping, searching for stocking stuffers and preparing tomorrow's sumptuous meal for my family.

Instead I found myself going through the home of a young couple with a small child needing to short sale their home because of financial difficulties. They had fallen on hard times. First came the loss of his job. Then, just when they were getting back on their feet, the loss of her job.

As she took me through each room, I witnessed unfulfilled and unfinished projects: a paint job that ruined beautiful hardwood floors, carpeting that was removed, only to reveal awful green vinyl tiles, many of which were missing. It appeared that everything was original. In the living room there was a meager Christmas tree, perhaps their attempt at keeping some vestige of Christmas cheer in spite of their dire circumstances. Every room in the home needed repairs or upgrades, but through all that I saw some gorgeous solid wood moldings, closet doors and flooring in this mid-century home.

I continued through room after room, seeing their life packed up in boxes and listening to this young woman tell of the plans they had for improvements - improvements that never materialized. As she spoke, all I could think of that she was describing the death of their dreams. She tried to be cheerful and upbeat, but I was almost in tears when I left, realizing their dream of home ownership was dying, at least for the time being.

I tried to be encouraging, offering hope that the New Year would be more promising and that this short sale was not the end of the world. I left with a feeling of gratitude over my own situation. Even though this was not a great year financially, I was blessed with a comfortable home equipped with many creature comforts. It gives me opportunity to pause and give thanks for the blessings I sometimes take for granted.

Well, its back to preparing Christmas dinner, but I'll say a prayer for this couple. Even though this dream my have died, the future is still bright with opportunity and possibilities. Merry Christmas to all and enjoy your holiday with family and friends.

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