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Surviving My Serengeti . . . as a Giraffe

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Live in Laramie Real Estate, Laramie, Wyoming WY #12296

Surviving My Serengeti . . .as a giraffe.

In "Surviving the Serengeti: 7 Skills to Master in Business and in Life,
author Stefan Swanepoel offers a fascinating fable of life on the Serengeti plains of Africa and the lessons it holds for a struggling economy and the folks who make up that economy."  Or so I was told in the introduction to
Surviving your Serengeti: An Active Rain Challenge
                                                      Giraffe
Though, I was going to let this challenge pass, I couldn't resist taking the quiz.  I answered the questions as honestly as possible - but all the while hoping NOT to be a crocodile, lion or anything with sharp teeth.  Quiz One - Yay!  I was a giraffe!  But just to make sure I hadn't subconsciously skewed the results, I took the quiz again, nervously pressed the last button and lo, and behold - I was, indeed, a giraffe

Yippee!  Then I read the attributes of a giraffe - compassion, generosity, appreciative of what we have, kindness, doing the right thing even when it is not required....  Hmmm, even though I'd realized long ago I was more easy going by nature than others, I didn't necessarily regard this as a positive thing.  If fact,  I always thought that this and my other giraffe attributes were the very ones that hindered my ability to move ahead in real estate world. 

The way I figured it was that my ability to make others feel important made them regard me as of no use.  Deep down I'd worried that my firm stand on not taking away from someone else to get ahead meant that I wasn't competitive enough.  I'd even decided that my ability to quickly adapt and re-frame after adversity only meant that I didn't have that fire in my belly. 

Even though, I have always regarded these things as my weakness in the business world I knew I had no plans to change.  This is who I am and I've always just wanted to find a way to make who I am work for me.

Today, I found out that there might just be a way...maybe I'm surviving my personal Serengeti better than I thought!

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Brenda Whitman, Broker/Co-owner                                                Office Phone: 307.460.3298

Live in Laramie Real Estate                                                                Cell Phone: 307.399.5477

302 S 2nd Street, Suite 206                                                      E-mail: brenda@liveinlaramie.com

Laramie, Wyoming  82070                                                       Office Website:  www.liveinlaramie.com

Comments (8)

Joe Kenny
Realty Executive Midwest - Darien, IL
Better Than Your Average Joe

Brenda, I am a giraffe as well and I wasn't that excited when I realized the same as you.  Oh, well at least people have to look up yo us.

Feb 24, 2011 03:48 PM
Sarasota & Manatee Counties FL
SaraMana Properties - QuickFreeMLS.com - Bradenton, FL
QuickFreeMLS.com - Listings In Paradise

I'm a mongoose! Thank you for sharing with all of us Brenda! Great post!

 

 

Feb 24, 2011 04:35 PM
Emily Medvec
eXp Realty LLC - Santa Fe, NM
Broker | Realtor | Serving Santa Fe & Northern NM

Gosh, just imagine all the things you can see in your great state of Wyoming with this new perspective!

Feb 24, 2011 11:37 PM
Brenda Whitman, Live in Laramie Real Estate
Live in Laramie Real Estate, Laramie, Wyoming - Laramie, WY
Broker/Co-Owner, Laramie, Wyoming

Joe- There you go, again, reframing it in a positive light - you're such a giraffe! ;-)

J.A. -Oh, boy, a rarely spotted mongoose!  Thanks for stopping by.....

Emily - I love the visual image I got in my head when I read your comment!

Feb 25, 2011 12:35 AM
Donne Knudsen
Los Angeles & Ventura Counties in CA - Simi Valley, CA
CalState Realty Services

Brenda - It was an interesting quiz!  Personally, I think we all have a set of survival skills but there is definitely one dominant skill that runs throughout all of our challenges and obstacles. 

Feb 25, 2011 06:18 AM
Susan Jackson
America's Network Realty Group, Inc - Sandy Springs, GA

Great post. I see you got a lot out of it, and  you have not even finished the book yet.l

Feb 25, 2011 11:21 AM
Tim Bradley
Contour Investment Properties - Jackson Hole, WY
Commercial Real Estate Expert in Jackson Hole, WY

I'm a wildebeest, but I'm too swamped at work to write the blog post, and too tired by the time I get home to even think about it.

Feb 25, 2011 02:58 PM
Brenda Whitman, Live in Laramie Real Estate
Live in Laramie Real Estate, Laramie, Wyoming - Laramie, WY
Broker/Co-Owner, Laramie, Wyoming

Donne - I guess so, I find it interesting that my husband and I have completely different dominant traits - which I guess is a good balance!

Hi Susan - I have the whole book.  But I think the summary we get when we take the quiz is even better than the book.;-)

Hey, Tim - Well, I suppose family and work take priority of Active Rain posting - even for the ever enduring wildebeest!

Feb 26, 2011 01:16 PM