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Surviving Your Serengeti ... Turns Out, I'm An Elephant! Who Knew?

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Surviving Your Serengeti ... Turns Out, I'm An Elephant! Who Knew?

I have enjoyed reading the blogs written by the The Communicating Elephantfolks here who have accepted the ActiveRain Surviving Your Serengeti Challenge and wondered if I would find myself writing one too. After taking the quiz, most of the writers have indicated they were quite surprised at their alter ego animal counterparts, but after some thought, actually admitted they could find some resemblance in the ways they looked at life and at their business models. In order to follow this through and see if I would take the challenge too, I took the quiz and downloaded the first two chapters of Surviving Your Serengeti.

In his new book to be released on March 1st, Stefan Swanepoel describes a trip to the Serengeti by his main character Sean Spencer and Sean’s wife Ashley. Chapters 1 and 2 describe the couples arrival and folks they meet at camp including a colleague Sean knew from his college days at London School of Economics, some thirty years earlier.  Sean’s college friend, Zachariah, had returned to the Serengeti to help protect the land and native wildlife, and would serve as their guide and mentor, teaching them the secrets of life on the Serengeti. Swanepoel’s rich descriptive text, skillfully draws the reader into the heart of the “Endless Plains” and face-to-face with some of the wildlife inhabitants.

Through the teachings of Zachariah, Swanepoel draws a parallel between the survival techniques used by seven different animal species of the Serengeti, and the tools we humans can use to our advantage by understanding our own basic instincts.

Another Communicating ElephantSo I read the first two chapters, took the quiz and sent my wife the link so she could take the quiz as well. I mean, who doesn’t want to know what kind of African animal they are?

So, like most of the folks who took the challenge, I was taken by surprise by my African animal alter ego. Turned out, I was an ELEPHANT. Who knew? I mean, certainly there was no physical resemblance I could see, but as I read on, I learned the elephant exemplifies the “art of communication,” both in verbal and non-verbal skills. Additionally, the elephant excels at building relationships through the use of effective communication and has learned the true art of both listening and hearing the other side. I use these valuable skills every day with my clients and it has helped me immensely in my business.

Now that I was feeling better about being an elephant, Just Another ElephantI headed into our home office to offer this new realization to my wife, Chris. I told her my strength was in my ability to effectively communicate. I went on at length to demonstrate the point and even likened myself to Ronald Reagan, “The Great Communicator.”

Seizing the opportunity according to her true nature, she just stared at me unblinking for a split second, and with her crocodile grin, said I “was full of s**t.”

I could only reply, “An elephant never forgets.”

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John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Tim - Thanks for dropping by! I am sure that as a mongoose, both you and your son are very capable of handling yourselves in tough situations. I have really enjoyed reading these blog challenges.

Cindy - Out of the seven, the giraffe is certainly the most graceful. I'm so glad Mr. Stanepoel had only seven. I think I would have had real issues if it turned out I was a jellyfish or wombat or... Hope you have a great day!

Feb 25, 2011 11:42 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Just stopping by to wish you a fine weekend.

 There are always flowers to photograph at Longwood Gardens.

Feb 26, 2011 01:24 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Good Morning Roy,

Hope you and Dolores have a fine weekend as well!

Feb 26, 2011 03:57 AM
Yolanda Hoversten
Self Employed - O'Fallon, IL
Referrals for O’Fallon, IL & the Metro East

Hi, John.  I have not taken this challenge but your alter ego the elephant seems very appropriate.  Love the Reagan analogy and your wife's sense of humor!  Great to see you taking advantage of AR's benefits.

Feb 26, 2011 04:05 AM
Frances C. Rokicki
Fran Rokicki Realty, LLC - Bolton, CT
Broker-Mentor,CRS

John, I haven't checked on my animal status, yet.  Your post is an excellent explanation!  I enjoyed the read.

Feb 26, 2011 06:21 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Yolanda - Thanks for stopping by. I have had a great time reading everyone's Serengeti Challenge and would have enjoyed reading yours. Did you take the quiz to find out what animal you were?

Fran - Thank you for your comment! I had a great time writing this one as well.

Feb 26, 2011 10:03 AM
Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
Arlington Virginia Real Estate

John, you are funny! An elephant - a great animal to be on African plains - even lions would not bother you. I suppose, as a great communicator, you can talk your way out of any danger. I am a giraffe - not what I expected. Considering my stubborn nature (I'm not proud of it) I expected to be a wildebeest.

Feb 26, 2011 10:48 PM
Toni Weidman
Sailwinds Realty - Trinity, FL
20+ Years Selling Homes in New Port Richey, FL

John - I turned out to be a "graceful" giraffe which if you ask anyone who knows me-I'm a klutz but I digress. I didn't follow up on the challenge because I couldn't figure out how I became a giraffe. I like your analysis though.

Feb 26, 2011 11:25 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Elizabeth - Thank you. A little humor is a good thing. Did you write your SYS Challenge post before taking the quiz? You hadn't mentioned you were a giraffe - and a stubborn one at that. That combination is sure to serve you well in real estate.

Feb 26, 2011 11:39 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Toni - I could not imagine you being anything other than a graceful giraffe! Was there an animal you felt you resembled a bit more? Hope its warm and sunny for you today!

Feb 26, 2011 11:48 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Hi John ~ I'm glad you wrote this post.  I, too have enjoyed reading everyones SYS posts.  I liked your analogy with Ronald Reagan.  I thought I was an elephant, but, nope, a giraffe.  And looking back on my career, I do believe the quiz was correct!

Feb 27, 2011 09:08 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Dawn - I can see you as a giraffe as well. I've read enough of your posts to know how well you take care of your clients. Your clients become your friends. It doesn't get any better than that. Truthfully, my clients are my friends too. Its not about the transaction. Its about the relationships. Okay, I am an elephant!

Feb 27, 2011 11:17 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Have an outstanding week and be sure to have your camera in hand.

 Life is good when there are flowers to photograph!

Feb 28, 2011 12:04 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Roy - Its not exactly Longwood here, as I look out the window. We had another 6" of snow yesterday. I'm losing faith in the groundhog.

Feb 28, 2011 12:40 AM
Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
Arlington Virginia Real Estate

John, thank you for visiting my post again. The bookstores are a little slow getting the book - I went to Borders Bookstore in Arlington, Virginia today but "Surviving Your Serengeti" has not arrived yet. Fun book to read. I hope you will enjoy finishing it.

Mar 01, 2011 09:39 AM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Elizabeth - I guess it will have to be Amazon after all. Hope you have an awesome day!

Mar 01, 2011 09:22 PM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

John, I've had so much fun reading the AR posts about this book.  I haven't had a chance to look for it yet...by the way, I'm a croc, and smiling after reading your post!  Thanks.

Mar 01, 2011 10:18 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Laura - That was my Chris, lying in wait, unblinking eyes, just waiting for that opportunity. It really was a fun challenge!

Mar 02, 2011 12:41 AM
Brin Realty Associates Team At Bean Group
Bean Group | Brin Realty Associates - Amherst, NH
Amherst NH homes and Southern NH real estate

Great job John on your Serengeti challenge...and I like your last paragraph describing your wife's CROCODILE GRIN!

Mar 03, 2011 09:31 PM
John McCarthy
North Hampton, NH
Realtor - Seacoast NH

Rene - Thank you! This challenge was great fun and seems to have generated a lot of interest. Hope you have a great day!

Mar 03, 2011 11:10 PM