Perhaps the greatest quality in a leader and the most valuable skill in building relationships is the ability to think before you speak. If you have a tendency to speak hastily in anger and regret your actions at leisure, the childhood admonition to count to ten before speaking will still serve you well. When you pause -- if only for a moment -- to consider the consequences, you may think better of what you were about to say. And if you must speak strongly, it's a good idea to sugarcoat the words -- just in case you have to eat them later.
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RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677
This is a great post. Listening is such a skill that we all need to have. You are right, think before you speak!
Mar 10, 2011 12:19 PM
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired
Between stimulus and response, man has the power to choose. Give pause to think it over before you speak. You can avoid speaking again to apologize that way!
Mar 11, 2011 12:32 AM
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