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You want a better reputation? EARN IT!

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Real Estate Agent with BlueCoast Realty Corporation

You want a better reputation?  EARN IT!  

Image of face with zipper lipRecently I read a blog post touting a Broker's "gift of interrogation" and I was somewhat taken aback.  Maybe it's the use of the word interrogation which just sounds wrong to me.  Maybe I grew up watching too many cop shows, maybe it's the fact I worked in the court system for many years.  Whatever the reason, interrogate is a word I associate with criminal activity.  And you can bet if another Broker or Agent interrogated  my Seller, I'd have a little something to say about it.

If you are a REALTOR®, you have agreed to abide by the COE, and you would be wise to avoid substantive discussions with another Agent's Client. 

SOP 16-13:

All dealings concerning property exclusively listed, or with buyer/tenants who are subject to an exclusive agreement shall be carried on with the client's representative or broker, and not with the client, except with the consent of the client's representative.

But I'm just trying to help my Client in their negotiations --  I have to use whatever advantage I have.   

I think Agents are forgetting something.  Yes, you do work for your Client and you do have a responsibility to look out for their best interests -- But not when you choose to break the rules in order to do so.

At the very least, substantive conversations with another Agent's Client will burn bridges with that Agent, and probably all the Agents in their office.  Thereby, you have just made transactions with those Agents tougher on your Clients.  That's not really looking out for your Clients; is it?  Where's the "Trust Factor"?  When did it become okay to throw integrity out the window for the sake of ego?

Sure, sometimes Sellers are going to talk more than they should.  How about taking the high road and ending the conversation when it's clear they are giving you more information than they should?  Consumers don't think of you as the enemy when you are showing their home.  How about if you don't act like it?  Make a choice to be aboveboard in all your dealings. 

Another consideration?  Ultimately, you work for yourself.  And breaking theImage of man pondering rules could cost you your job.  Is interrogating another Agent's Client really worth placing your integrity in question?  Is showing off your interrogation prowess really worth facing the Real Estate Commission on an Ethic's Violation Charge, worth that 5 minutes of fame?

You want to know why REALTORS® have such a bad reputation with the general public?  It's because there are a few Agents out there behaving in a less than professional manner, and they're hurting all of us.  The onus is on each of us to stand up, speak up and call them on it!!!  You want change?  You'll have to make it happen . . .

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Tish Lloyd, REALTOR®

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Realty World Cape Fear

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Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Hi Tish~  This is the biggest reason why the seller should never be there and if they are or must be, they should step outside or learn not to give away any information to the prospective buyer or another agent!  Too many times the sellers volunteer information on their own that could hurt them! 

Mar 11, 2011 12:21 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Gay ~  Loose, smiling lips can really sink a ship!!!

Vickie ~  You hit the nail on the head -- they can so easily shoot themselves in the foot!

Mar 11, 2011 12:45 PM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Tish,

I was taken back by the post also.  The fact that a REALTOR would brag about it and then call a commenter a name that disagreed with them was another shock. 

The fact that the post was featured was a third strike..

If we don't take the high road, then public opinion and conflict between agents will not improve.

Mar 11, 2011 01:40 PM
Gwynn Carpenter
Gwynn Teal Carpenter-Broker: Home and Hearth Realty (Austin) - Austin, TX
: Broker, Home & Hearth Realty (512)467-6191

Tish: one of my agents just had a buyer terminate a contract because the seller showed up at the inspection and began running his mouth - didn't have enough sense to know he was doing harm.  Didn't take a buyer's agent to question him....he choose to open his mouth and insert "terminated contract".

Enjoyed reading your viewpoint!

Mar 11, 2011 01:41 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Judi ~  And then the rest of us who do take our profession seriously are left to "mend" our reputations.  Have to say I was disappointed to see her post featured -- good for press, but the wrong kind of press for me.

Gwynn ~  Sorry to hear that, but sometimes, even when we do our very best to educate our Clients and Customers, they "know better" than we.

Mar 11, 2011 02:58 PM
Vickie Slade
Colorado Landmark, Realtors - Boulder, CO
Service You Can Trust ~ Someone You Can Depend On

Tish, We do have an obligation to our clients and to a COE that we have promised to uphold.  To many agents  let their pride get in the way and they do stupid things without first thinking things through.  Great post.  The buck does stop with each of us to do the right thing for benefit of our own business as well as for our industry.

Mar 11, 2011 03:37 PM
John Michailidis
Real Property Management of Sarasota & Manatee - Sarasota, FL
Real Property Management of Sarasota & M

Great blog post! Thank you for sharing it with us!

Mar 11, 2011 04:25 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

This is very old fashioned.  Earning a reputation?  It just doesn't happen once you graduate?

And when you worked in that court system, did Mosby ever stop by for a visit?

Mar 11, 2011 11:24 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Vickie ~  I couldn't agree more -- we also have an obligation to ourselves and to our profession to "do the right thing" through each and every transaction.  Thank you so much for your input.

John ~  Thank you.

Jay ~   It's about those old fashioned values, gaining and maintaining trust.  As for Mosby, I can tell you there were a few trials where I'm pretty sure he rode in on his trusty steed with sword waving in disgust!

 

Mar 12, 2011 12:13 AM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

It's always those "few" out there that make it bad for everyone else............and we're not just talking real estate here my friend!  Well said and well deserving of the Feature.  I'd say you gently "spanked" a few people out there.

Mar 12, 2011 12:20 AM
Dick & Sandy Beals
Wilmington Real Estate 4U Wilmington, NC - Wilmington, NC

Hi Tish,

I also agree with you!  HOWEVER as you may know (and this is just the other side of the coin) there are instances where you HAVE to call the seller and set the appointment.  Some brokers have what is called a MLS listing only, wherein the buyer's agent does the work.  These sellers are always there, and most often make a nuisance of themselves, with their chatter, desperation, and overall non- professionalism.  You would think that their "listing agent" would better prepare them??

Dick Beals

Mar 12, 2011 01:26 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Sir Roger ~  You are always so in-tune; appreciate your comments.

Dick ~  Excellent point and I couldn't agree more -- appreciate the input.  As we both recognize -- some people get what they don't pay for --  just sayin' . . .

Mar 12, 2011 01:41 AM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Oh Tish, I'm with you.  Too harsh of a word to be using in real estate. 

And it is up to us ~ the golden rule RULES here. 

 Pamela

❣ Congrats on the feature!

Mar 12, 2011 02:16 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Pamela ~  Same page here -- the Golden Rules rule . . .  Thanks!

Mar 12, 2011 03:15 AM
Scott Hayes
(512) 786-8300 - Austin, TX
Realty Austin, Broker Associate

Tish,

You are right, that it is only a few agents out there, negatively affecting our reputation. But that few is doing a bang up job, and as you suggest, we have to call them out.

Mar 12, 2011 05:33 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

amen, Amen and AMEN! ☺

Mar 12, 2011 04:15 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Scott ~  It only takes one apple to spoil the whole bushel . . .

Joni ~  thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU!

Mar 12, 2011 11:45 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Tish, Roger Mucci posted this link this morning on his blog and since I missed it wanted to see what was up...great post and comments, and like Joni all I can say is AMEN!

Mar 21, 2011 12:23 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

HI, I had to stop by and say hello....Roger Mucci featured you today and said you are 'good peeps" :-)

Mar 21, 2011 02:00 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Rebecca ~  Many thanks -- so glad you stopped by -- gotta love Roger!!!!

Kristin ~  Thanks!  He's a real PIP!!!

Mar 21, 2011 03:22 AM