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Honoring My First ActiveRain Friendship !

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Industry Observer with Retired

When I was a newbie on ActiveRain 4 years ago this March 30th, I received a comment from a newer member in Hawaii. With each post she would comment and I went to her blog and was simply amazed at the photos she had taken of Hawaii and suggested that she could easily work for Department of Tourism. She also had a great sense of humor and we had fun with the our comments.

Months would pass of just commenting on each other's posts and that October, the area where I lived would have major wild fires and I had to evacuate my home. After moving the puppies to what I think was the last available hotel room I could find some 20 miles away, that evening I would receive a call checking to see if I was OK. 

What was so remarkable were the numbers of friends I had made on ActiveRain that called me from early in the morning when the news of the fires had spread. I even received a call from ActiveRain itself ( Bob Stewart ) checking in on me. Having forgotten to pack a few things, I made my way to the drug store to pick up a few things and my cell phone rang. It was Celeste "Sally"Cheeseman. We had such a great time on the phone on what would be the first of many many phone calls as we just hit it off and a real friendship was born.Celeste " Sally" Chesseman

Last night as I was watching a news, there was an News Alert that Hawaii was going to be hit with a Tsunami after the horrific Earthquake and Tsunami that hit Japan. It was time to call Sally and make sure that she and her family were OK and that they knew about what was heading there way in Hawaii. They were fine and live in the higher elevations thankfully and while I was on the phone, she let me listen to the alarms going off advising people to the ensuing Tsunami expected within 5 hours. As I was about to hang up, I realized that it was with in a few days coming up on the four years that we have been friends here in the rain. I stopped saying good-bye long enough to say it was deja vu from 4 years earlier as we check on each other to be sure we are safe.

About the photo: A few years ago Sally and I exchanged gifts at Christmas. It was not intended that we do this but that first year I had recalled she collected Faeries and I found one that was perfect for her collection. Now whenever I see them, I associate them with her and wherever I travel I am always on the lookout and even if I don't find any, thinking about them keeps her and her family in my thoughts. By the way, this Faerie actually looks a bit like Sally.

Friendship comes in many degrees in our lives but the important thing is that we have them in our lives to share the many treasures of our own lives and grow fonder of each other through the years. And for me, Sally and Gary are those special kinds of friends that always seem to make our lives richer for having them in it and they are certainly treasured by me. So here is a toast to you,  Sally and Gary and may your lives always be blessed with great happiness and may our friendship endure for all of our lives.

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Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

What a lovely, lovely post.  So glad to hear that your friend is safe and sound in spite of all of this crazy and damaging weather. 

Mar 13, 2011 09:48 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Such a sweet post...I saw Sally's post that she was fine and was very grateful for that.

Mar 13, 2011 10:10 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

William, that was like a pay it forward back checking on Sally in Hawaii after she checked on you years earlier. Good thing you two have that great connection going.

Mar 13, 2011 10:35 AM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

That is so fabulous.  I have made sme friends on AR, but none to that extent.  Good for you and Sally!

Mar 13, 2011 10:55 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Great story. There is an untold story about the social networking benefits available on ActiveRain. Many of us communicate on a regular basis with people we have never met. The knowledge that some are willing to share is humbling.

 Life is better when there are flowers in the garden!

Mar 13, 2011 11:43 AM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

I too thought of Sally when I heard about the tsuami.  It really made me think about how Active Rain has also helped me to get to know folks all over our country....

Mar 13, 2011 11:56 AM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

What an amazing story and so beautifully written. It makes me want to get on the phone with the people I've met here at AR.

Mar 13, 2011 12:44 PM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

William - we all see Sally's posts, and like her, love her, and now commiserate with her.. nice post.. great friend.. Best, Gay

Mar 13, 2011 01:38 PM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer

When I think of Hawaii I think of Sally - all the time!  She is one of the most impressionable members here on AR!

Mar 13, 2011 01:59 PM
Ellen Kippel
Weichert Realtors - Suffern, NY
Licensed NY and NJ realtor 914-588-2365

I have only been on AR for 7 months, but I look forward to making friends here, too.  I love this real estate blogging system and I enjoyed your article.

Mar 13, 2011 03:27 PM
Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Hi William~  You couldn't have picked two finer people to become friends with in here!  Looks like you are like the company you keep! 

Mar 13, 2011 03:48 PM
Don Hintz
2D-enterprises / HAUS Design, LLC - Anderson, IN

William,

What a great post.  It really is amazing how quickly information can pass these days, even more amazing how quickly relationships can be created and maintained on a platform like AR.

Mar 13, 2011 04:14 PM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

AR is an amazing journey.  I am so blessed to have made so many friends and with every post and every comment, the bonds get stronger and stronger.  William here is to you... and to Sally and Gary... and here a toast to AR!  Talk about unintended consequences!

Mar 13, 2011 04:35 PM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

William:

What an inspiring story.  I can understand the connections created on ActiveRain.  One feels so close to those people one comments on.  They start to feel like friends and family.

Mar 13, 2011 05:18 PM
Rick Thomas
Fort Myers, FL

Many seem to discount friendships made in social media, but, over the years I too have found several good friends well worth having!

Mar 13, 2011 07:49 PM
Janice Roosevelt
Keller Williams Brandywine Valley - West Chester, PA
OICP ABR, ePRO,Ecobroker

William, lovely post and truly, Sally and the fairy bear a resemblence to each other.

Mar 14, 2011 01:01 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

William, anybody who has spent any time here on ActiveRain knows exactly where you're coming from. It is amazing how many people connect here on the rain and when the opportunity comes to meet face to face, like at a RainCamp, there are no awkward hellos. It's like seeing a long lost family member. Nice post.

Mar 14, 2011 01:18 AM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

William, this is a great story about the wonderful friendships we make in the Rain. 

Mar 14, 2011 01:56 AM
Ken Spencer
Buckeye, AZ
for Verrado, Buckeye, Sundance

What a great post William.  To gain such a great friend and show the same compassion for her during a time like this is fantastic.  Heart warming.

Mar 14, 2011 07:25 AM
Kimo Stowell
HI Pro Realty LLC RB-21531 - Honolulu, HI
REALTOR®, GREEN - Honolulu Hawai'i

Aloha William,

Mahalo for sharing this. AR offers us the ability to engage and befriend people from areas we might never even see in our lifetime, all do to our mutual interests in Real Estate. 

Peace,

Mar 14, 2011 07:51 AM