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Relationship Building vs Business Building - AR provides both

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Education & Training with J29 Project

I had the good fortune of traveling to California this week.  While I was there I had the opportunity to meet with two amazing women whom I admire greatly ... Cathy Lee and Lori Kim Polk.  It was wonderful to meet them in person and get to know them even more than we had on the web.  For as much as I enjoy the social media relationships I have forged, there is nothing that can beat a face to face conversation and really connecting.

As a stager it was interesting to me to hear about their staging businesses and the real estate climate in their areas.  It is so different from my experience.  That is one of the reasons I loved getting to see them - it gave me an opportunity to define the market and climate in my area.  Something that has seemed rather muddy at times to me, suddenly became much more clear. 

There is a natural inclination to compare business practices and real estate markets.  What I realized though is that it is pointless to do that.  While sharing ideas and exchanging business practices are really worthwhile, I realized that what works in California may not work in Kentucky and vice versa.  The desire to create what works for stagers in other areas, may just not be feasible or desired in my own.  The encouragement to keep achieving however cannot be underestimated.

This is another reason why I love AR.  Not only would I have never been introduced to these wonderful women, but I have access to all kinds of people, tools  and ideas.  The point is not to judge what you do based on other people's success or failures, but to utilize and possibly incorporatenthe experiences of those willing to share.  I enjoy learning what others are doing and love to share things that have worked for me.  While one business model does not fit all, it is nice to be exposed to so many of them.  The exposure to all them is like going to a convention and re-energizing everytime I log in.

The relationship building that blogging provides is so unique.  Never in a million years would I have imagined that I would make friends all over the world.  I just happened to have finally met in person two of the more fabulous women I know, but there are many other people I have "met" only online.  It was empowering to hear about Cathy and Lori Kim's successes, to learn from them and really get to know them.

What a blessing AR has been - not just as a business builder, but a relationship builder! 

Posted by

Sheila Kennedy

Owner of Staged SO Right

Creator of J29 Project, Draw the Line, Eye on the Prize and Hear My Voice Programs

www.j29project.com

Staging you AMAZING!

Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Awww!  I'm so happy for all three of you.  What a fabulous meeting of the minds that must have been.  Next time your in New Hampshire...

Mar 25, 2011 09:12 AM
Janet Jones
Just Your Style Interiors, LLC - Kihei, HI
Home Staging, Interior Redesign Kihei, Maui, Hawaii

Hi Sheila--Well, that must have been a great experience.  You are so right that what works in one area won't work in another, but I love the on-going exchange of ideas and who we do get to "meet" in the rain. 

Mar 25, 2011 10:04 AM
Cathy Lee
CL Design Services Home Staging - Danville, CA
ASP, IAHSP, RESA Danville, CA

I miss you so much! I loved that you sent a few text messages to me today~I felt like I was traveling home with you!!! I am so glad I weathered that horrible storm to meet with you and Lori Kim, it truly was so inspiring to sit in person and just talk as I have always admired your posts and knew you had a heart full of kindness! May this year be full of joy and of God's best for you!!!  

Mar 25, 2011 05:15 PM
Sheila Kennedy
J29 Project - Rochester, NY

Sharon - I would love to meet you in person!  Another person on my wish list for sure!  I will let you know if I am close enough to meet up and if you are ever in KY ... I would love to see you!

Janet - Yes mam - you are absolutely right!  Glad to meet another AR fan!

Cathy - Oh my friend - I miss you too! It was so wonderful to meet you in person even though I felt like I have known you forever.  You are a blessing sweet lady and I know great things are in your future.  God bless!

Mar 26, 2011 04:03 PM
Lori Donegan
Ready 2 Stage - Cleveland, TN

One day Ms. Sheila.....you are a true inspiration and we will meet!  Thank you for sharing with us all....

Mar 28, 2011 04:13 AM
Sheila Kennedy
J29 Project - Rochester, NY

Yes my dear friend - we will meet someday soon!  I can't wait!  Thank you just for being you Lori!

Mar 29, 2011 12:27 PM