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A Resume of a Different Kind - A Must Read!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

A Resume of a Different Kind - A Must Read!A Resume of a Different Kind.  As far back as I can remember, I've always known I was a little different.  A bit of a rebel, I suppose.  My tenacious spirit came from watching my mother champion a debilitating disease, Multiple Sclerosis.  Perhaps growing up on the poor side of the tracks contributed a little too. 

At the age of six, I started my first non-profit business... a Pet Cemetery.  I lived in rural San Fernando Valley, where land was plentiful (in those days) and the clientele was abundant.  Walking home from school provided a variety of roadkill (mostly possums) that I would drag home by their tail.  I happily dug shallow graves and gave these poor unfortunate souls a nice resting place to call their own. 

Speaking of unfortunate... fast forward to age 11, my babysitting career ended the first night on the job when half the house went up in flames.  Three lovely (but mischievous) kids lit some candles and stuck them under a lamp, which ignited instantly and subsequently spread to the living room curtains and couch within seconds.  Fortunately, I maintained a sense of calm as I ushered each child out of the burning house.  To my horror, I had to view their charred home every day for several months each time I walked outside my front door, as they lived directly across the street.  Something etched in my memory forever. 

Shortly thereafter, I took up door to door sales.  Bottle collection was a new and budding vocation in the 70's.  I started recycling at an early age, before aluminum cans and plastic were fashionable (I'm dating myself here).  I used to take my rusty red wagon and knock on doors, asking anyone who would listen, if I could recycle their bottles.  Surprisingly, my door knocking days were a huge success and I managed to bank enough money to buy many hot school lunches.

I won't bore you with the rest of my story... but suffice to say that I developed a good work ethic at a very young age.  I never graduated from college, but I've held several positions with Fortune 500 companies that only graduates should hold.  How did I land those $100K+ jobs without a polished resume?  I entered through the back door while others entered through the front door.  I was creative.  I was tenacious.  I never took 'no' for an answer, and I never let anyone tell me I couldn't do something.  I kept knocking on doors until they opened.

The moral of the story is... if you find yourself in a position of feeling helpless, homeless, or simply discouraged... just remember that hope resides inside the next door you haven't knocked on yet.  Don't let fear paralyze you from knocking on that door.  Don't let rejection intimidate you from knocking on that door.  Stay focused and keep telling yourself.... that door is ready to open... I just know it.  Perhaps it's time for you to create resume of a different kind and look for new doors of opportunity.  It's not over until YOU say it is!  So, get out there and keep knocking... there are a variety of doors just waiting to be opened! 

Posted by

Mel Peterson

 Melinda Peterson, ABR, CRS

 Oregon Principal Broker

 Real Estate Cafe LLC

 541-659-1620

 TheOregonDream.com

 

 

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Comments(113)

Robert Courtney
Lihue, HI
Century 21 All Islands, RA, CDPE, MCRE, CIAS

Love it!  What we do has ALOT of rejection.  You sure offer some sound advice.  What drives it home to me is your willingness to talk about life's lessons.  I printed this and hung it on my bulletin board by my desk.  Thank you.

Mar 28, 2011 05:35 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Randall and Melinda:  Yes, I can see Kyra Sedgwick playing the part of Melinda... but Ms Sedgwick is nowhere near as pretty as Melinda is.  So, now what ?

I have been watching The Closer for years, and love Kyra Sedgwick.  Also... Kyra gives a great performance in the movie Phenomenon as John Travoltas girlfriend.

Mar 28, 2011 06:11 PM
Dennis Neal
RE/MAX, Big Bear - Big Bear Lake, CA
Your Home Sold in 21 Days or We Sell It For Free

I love your perspective!

Mar 28, 2011 08:47 PM
Steven Pahl
Keller Williams Tampa Properties - Tampa, FL
Real Estate Consultant Tampa, FL 813-319-6423

We all have our stories, imagine how many doors had to open and close to get you where you are today.  Any one choice at a given moment would have taken you down a completely different path!

Mar 29, 2011 01:26 AM
Christine DeLay
Bransom Real Estate, Azle, Tarrant County, TX - Azle, TX

Melinda, very inspiring post. I love it.

Mar 29, 2011 04:58 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Nice post.  I am one of those people that have always done my best when working on my own.

Mar 29, 2011 05:54 AM
Dawnita Griffith
Meadow Lake Real Estate, LLC - Pinedale, WY
It does matter who you hire.

I see from your post creativity, work and determination. Traits I respect and strive to have.  Post was funny and helpful.  Made my day.

Mar 29, 2011 07:26 AM
DeeDee Riley
Lyon Real Estate - El Dorado Hills CA - El Dorado Hills, CA
Realtor - El Dorado Hills & the Surrounding Areas

Melinda - I really enjoyed reading your post!  Thanks so much for the encouragement and the chuckles!

Mar 29, 2011 05:19 PM
Mark Boyd
MarQeteer - Lancaster, PA

Melinda, thank you so much for directing me toward your page and this post in particular.  I took your quote "I never let anyone tell me I couldn't do something.  I kept knocking on doors until they opened." for my daily Twitter/Facebook/LinkedIn post for this Friday and am including your name (of course) and a link to your post for my readers.  I love quotes like that from people in the here and now...please let me know if you don't want me to quote you for any reason.  I just loved this post!  Cheers

Mar 30, 2011 08:13 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Mark ~ I would be honored... quote away!  Thanks for stopping by!

Mar 31, 2011 05:29 AM
Jeff Hollister
Native Californian with 20 years serving OC Buyers & Sellers - San Clemente, CA
Real Estate Broker, Serving Orange County, CA

I think you should be writing for a profession. Or is it just that you have such a great story to tell? You be the one to decide. I love what you said, though. Awesome post.

Onward and upward!

Mar 31, 2011 06:56 AM
Tricia DeSouza
HomeSmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Selling Scottsdale Luxury

Sounds like you are a go-getter! Very insprational. Thanks for the reminder to not let anything or anyone get us down.

Mar 31, 2011 07:27 AM
Dawn Brenengen
Dawn Brenengen - Trailwood Realty - Raleigh, NC
Sales and Management

My babysitting career was over at the age of 13 when the kid threw some bacon in a pan with oil already in it.  It started spattering and he dropped the pan on the floor.  It caught fire, but I was able to put it out with just the kitchen floor being a bit burned. 

I think I was too busy flirting with the kid's older brother when it happened.  I was fired, and I shamefully had to see the mother all the time too.

Mar 31, 2011 12:17 PM
Ed Vogt
Midwest Properties of Michigan - Grandville, MI
Grandville, MI Midwest Properties

Very inspiring story and motivational.  Thank you for sharing!

Apr 05, 2011 05:18 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Mel, I was a newbie when you wrote this and missed it the first time. Girl, I LOVE people like you. Write a book someday, inspire other women AND MEN that fear has no place in our souls and it's just wasted energy.

Aug 15, 2011 03:28 PM
Margie Kopp Sorrell
Coldwell Banker Lake Oconee Realty and Lake Country - Greensboro, GA
Lake Oconee Real Estate

Your butter on a pancake blog led me to your back story. Very entertaining! Was there ever a doubt that you'd be a success!?

Aug 21, 2011 11:29 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Life is what we make of it and so is success. If we're not successful there's no one to blame but ourselves.

Aug 27, 2011 01:24 PM
Nick Smith
Jpar Live Local - Boise, ID
Boise Idaho Real Estate, We Love Boise

Good stuff. I have a meeting with a builder and he wanted to see a copy of my resume. I have been in real Estate for over 9 years and never had anyone ask to see my resume. Thanks for the help.

Sep 12, 2011 10:47 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Well Miss birthday girl this is an incredible post. I am glad I clinked on the link on your post today otherwise I would have missed this and what a loss that would have been. You my dear are an inspiration and an amazing woman. I was a little older( 10 yrs old) when I started working in my parents family business making sandwiches, salads, donuts, etc. That work ethic is still with me today.

Sep 29, 2012 10:27 AM
MaryBeth Mills Muldowney
TradeWinds Realty Group LLC - Braintree, MA
Massachusetts Broker Owner

My Grandmother who I grew up with used to say "Mary, when one door closes another door always opens".  I used to say, "Ma, I don't even see a window never mind a door!" but you know She was always right...that door did open! and all for the better than before!

Dec 26, 2015 05:21 AM