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Patience is a lost virtue, and I for one, miss it very much.

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Richard Weisser Realty

Patience is a lost virtue!I used to define my perfect retirement scenario as this: I’m sitting on a rocking chair on the front porch for hour after hour until some one asks:

“Richard, what are you staring at all day?”

“I’m waiting for the leaves to change color and fall”

“But it’s only March???”

“I’ll wait!”

We now live in a very impatient world and I don’t like it one bit. I find myself under more and more stress each and every day because everyone wants answers NOW and they expect me to drop what I am doing and respond within minutes.

It has become nearly impossible to perform any perfunctory act without interruption. And things only seem to be getting worse with each passing day.

The phrase “I’ll get back to you tomorrow” is no longer acceptable. As a result, the list of half-completed projects has grown exponentially. There is no possible way to set a schedule and adhere to it.

I look forward to the time that I can sit in that rocking chair and wait!

It sounds like paradise to me!

Dr. Stacey-Ann Baugh
Century 21 New Millennium - Upper Marlboro, MD
A doctor who makes house calls.

I agree.  My students indicate that they will get up in the middle of the night to answer a text message.  That's ridiculous.  Only rarely are things that urgent that they need to be addressed immediately.

Mar 26, 2011 02:23 AM
Mike Jaquish
Realty Arts - Cary, NC
919-880-2769 Cary, NC, Real Estate

Richard,

And a closed office door is no longer a sign of a closed office door....

Mar 26, 2011 02:27 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I must admit I am a HUGELY impatient person...just ask my husband!  Ha ha ha....that rocker sounds nice though...

Mar 26, 2011 02:32 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Aww the rocking chair sounds blissful!!!  I hear you though....seems I never get to call my clients...before I call them with updates they are calling me....I have been telling folks that I can't show property on Sunday....I work Saturdays and I need a time to rejuvenate!!!  Especially since I have been working til 7 or 8 many nights!!!

Mar 26, 2011 02:44 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

There is something to be said about the benefits of the good ole days.  But alas we are in the not so patient now-a-days.

Hurry up retirement!!!!

Mar 26, 2011 02:49 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I do agree with you.   Time goes by so fast I am patient to wait for the day to end so I can get all I can out of it.

I am also very patient when I am wiating for a jerk on the end of my line.  I am thinking of putting my rocking chair in my boat.  I already have one in my fish house!

Mar 26, 2011 02:52 AM
Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY - Babylon, NY
"Moving at The Speed of YOU!"

I can't remember the last time I said: "I'll get back to you tomorrow." Those days are over!

Mar 26, 2011 02:58 AM
Glenn Roberts
Retired - Seattle, WA

I'm looking forward to retirement myself for the same reason. I'd like to do a remodeling project on a rental home and spend a day driving nails without listening for the phone to interrupt me.

Mar 26, 2011 03:19 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Richard, I don't believe in retirement and the rocker, but what is worse than the impatience, "I need this by this afternoon," is people not coming through for you. Frustration is even worse than impatience. Maybe I ought to re-think the advantages of that retirement you so yearn for.

Mar 26, 2011 03:33 AM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

Ahhh. The lost art of patience. While I have plenty, I find that going in to the office is one of the biggest distractions for me these days. I get more work done in my home before 10AM then many of my colleagues get done in a whole day.

Mar 26, 2011 06:04 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Richard....I don't want to think about those rocking chairs.....maybe when I'm 90....maybe!!!

Mar 26, 2011 06:32 AM
Kim Inman
Mountains to Lakes Real Estate, Inc. - Harriman, TN
CRS, Broker/Owner

Richard...you've got to take a little time for yourself.  The world may be impatient but you have to think of yourself and your sanity. I work hard, when I work but I do take time off for me. I'm planning a three day backpacking trip in April. I'll take my phone with me but it probably won't have reception which is FINE with me!

Mar 26, 2011 07:04 AM
Gay E. Rosen
Julia B. Fee Sotheby's International Realty - Larchmont, NY
As Real as Real Estate Gets!

Hi Richard: I always said I would draw and paint when I retire... I think i will probably be drooling and pointing..... Oh well... retirement sounds nice at least.. best, Gay

Mar 26, 2011 11:56 AM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Richard, so true. I like the still photo...

Mar 26, 2011 02:57 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Well, I guess I'm one of the impatient.  Can't wait for the damn screen to re-load!!

Mar 27, 2011 02:06 AM
Kristi DeFazio
RE/MAX Advantage - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Rea lEstate 719-459-5468

Richard- this is a timely post for me. I had a day today with no business, no places to run my kids to, nothing. My only job was to relax. Guess what? I couldn't do it. I think we get use to a certain pace and it is hard to slow down. I do love the photo of the chairs, but not sure I am ready to sit in them.

Mar 27, 2011 02:31 PM
Leslie Ebersole
Swanepoel T3 Group - Saint Charles, IL
I help brokers build businesses they love.

I've been working on being more consistent. Early in a relationship I am eager to please and prove myself. But over time (a long time for some listings!) I can become less snappy and the client feels neglected. Better to have a consistent turn-around time for questions and getting things done.

Mar 28, 2011 03:32 AM
Sussie Sutton
David Tracy Real Estate - Houston, TX
David Tracy Real Estate for Buyers & Sellers

I look forward to a wonderful comfortable retirement. However, I don't think it will be too comfortable as we didn't plan early enough to make a difference. sad huh.

Mar 28, 2011 05:16 AM