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The Masters Golf Tourney and Me

By
Real Estate Sales Representative with Realty Executive Midwest

 

In a couple of short weeks the golf fans of the world will have their eyes focused on Augusta, Georgia home of the 2011 Master’s Golf Tournament.  The Master’s is the World Series of golf and many a golfer has be raised to glory or lowered to a devastating defeat.  

The mental anguish is what separates the have’s from the have not’s. Predetermined game plans and the analyzing of every blade of grass, stroke, and weather condition in order to achieve the ultimate prize, the coveted green jacket that will be presented by last years champion. Let’s not forget the $1,350,000 of the other type of greeen.

The men that will be a part of this tournament and I have some things in common.  For starters we both earn a living doing something that we love and are good at. Most of us over think different situations
and are all scatch golfers.  Hey, I scratch the top of my head every time the ball leaves my club.

Where was I? Oh, yes over thinking.  This past week I had a listing appointment where the seller never once asked me a question.  Nothing, zip, nada, zero not even what was my fee.  I started questioning myself.  What did I do wrong? How come she didn’t say anything?  Why didn’t she ask about my fee? I’ll bet she has a Realtor and was only interviewing me as a formality.

I decided to contact Barbara Todaro and bounce the scenario off of her.  She told me not to over think the situation and just give them my best when I went back to meet with them.......yes, I broke down and did a two step no comment on this please.

When I met with the seller I asked her if she had already made her decision because I had never had an appointment where I wasn’t asked any questions.  She said no with a puzzled look on her face.  She then asked me what kind of questions I was expecting?  I explained she never asked about my fee and she responded back “ doesn't everybody charge the same?”  I gave her my answer and then asked what I apparently forgot to ask at our first meeting.  “Have you ever sold a home before?”  She answered this was her first time and wasn’t really sure what she should be asking.

Looks like I three putted this one by over thinking.  I hope the ball my sign still falls in the hole.

 

Don’t over think your next Hinsdale real estate purchase, let me do the thinking for you.

 

Rebekah Radice
Imagine WOW! Digital Marketing Agency - Burbank, CA
Social Media Marketing, Coaching & Training

Great post Joe.  You are right about the mental anguish part!

Mar 31, 2011 10:04 AM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

Every client encounter is a learning experience...good story and reminder that we have to be prepared for just about everything, even silence. 

Mar 31, 2011 10:07 AM
Joe Kenny
Realty Executive Midwest - Darien, IL
Better Than Your Average Joe

Rebekah- Thank you

Anita- Well imagine that second one to respond to something related to your back yard ;)  I'm learning that sometimes silence is golden.

Mar 31, 2011 10:18 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hi Joe....that two step presentation has many advantages, doesn't it???  gives you time to regroup!!  If she hasn't decided yet, make sure you follow up and ask for the business....maybe she doesn't know what the next step is....but I bet you can tell her!!!

Mar 31, 2011 10:48 AM
Melissa McKinney
Everything Pines Partners Fayetteville - Fayetteville, NC
Realtor, www.LivingFayetteville.com

Joe~Plating golf is one of my FAVORITE things to do!! I think sometimes (with me more than not) we way over think the what ifs and she just didn't know....I would have been just like you!

Mar 31, 2011 01:21 PM
Navona Hart
Century 21 Realty @ Home - Farmville, VA
Selling the Best Properties in Central Virginia

Go get them JoeKenny!  I have never had a silent across the table listing presentation.  Good for you for contacting Barbara.  I personally do not play golf...no time here for me.

Mar 31, 2011 03:27 PM
Joe Kenny
Realty Executive Midwest - Darien, IL
Better Than Your Average Joe

Barbara- No comment on the Texas system but you're right I will be on the phone tomorrow afternoon.

Melissa- You and are alike in a lot of ways. 

Navona- Golf is a great way to clear your head, give it a shot.

Mar 31, 2011 03:36 PM
Suzanne Taylor
Ultima Real Estate - Corpus Christi - Corpus Christi, TX
Home Sales In Corpus Christi, TX

Joe,

Not a golfer buy enjoyed your post anyway.  It's hard not to over think a situation, I always try to anticipate the meeting prior to it so I would be scratching my head too.

Mar 31, 2011 04:49 PM
Joe Kenny
Realty Executive Midwest - Darien, IL
Better Than Your Average Joe

Suzanne- I'm still scrathing my head, maybe I need head and shoulders.

Apr 01, 2011 03:49 AM
Brenda Whitman, Live in Laramie Real Estate
Live in Laramie Real Estate, Laramie, Wyoming - Laramie, WY
Broker/Co-Owner, Laramie, Wyoming

She sounds like a sweet lady!  She was lucky to have you to overthink and educate her on some of the process.  (That came out right didn't it....should I have added a smily face?  I hope I spelled everything right, not saying that you don't...of course, I wonder if this comment is too long - or is it too short?  Sure glad I don't overthink things....)

Apr 05, 2011 04:46 PM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

Joe, I like the golf/over-thinking analogy. Loved watching the Masters! As for the listing appt, I know what you mean. If they're not asking questions, you totally feel like you're doing something wrong.

Apr 15, 2011 02:19 PM
Joe Kenny
Realty Executive Midwest - Darien, IL
Better Than Your Average Joe

Brenda- You got me, I thought you were losing it.  Nice, you know that is something I would do to you.

Eric-  Apparently I did, I'm not getting the listing.

Apr 15, 2011 03:36 PM