People that go through Buyer's Remorse as a syndrome are an interesting bunch. But in reality,
Buyer's Remorse People Want to Kill Off The Mirage.
A mirage, a phenomenon on the desert floor due to an illusion with light and heat has something out in front of you that is NOT REAL. Buyers of anything, homes, buying into that new person in a relationship, buying a business, evaluating a new job or opportunity, we are constantly "checking it out."
It is essentially a "waiver" with our decision making.
Maybe a toe in the water, and then take the toe out. The water may be too cold for our taste. We signed the contract, but will we go through with it to closing? REAL? Or a MIRAGE??? Kind of committed to a point, based on the latest evidence, facts, figures, actions or words. Why are we like this???
Well all of us have been deceived, betrayed, bought some kind of lemon car or product or got bad service in some shape or form. Got our heart's broken as a buyer of a charmer who was a snake lying in hiding. Did we go back with the house and think about the long commute to work? What about that cell tower looming over our roof in the adjacent lot? What about the noisy neighbors or the traffic to home at rush hour or those power lines in the backyard? What about that zoning of commercial across the alleyway in our backyard. They might build a two story while the wife is out with the bikini subathing.
A MILLION reasons our previous right decision is WRONG!!! A mirage. Working with Buyer's Remorse people and that "waivering decision" we need to ALL know that no decision is perfect, but we have to hit that "good enough" point in buying a home. A good enough point that in this relationship this is the man of your dreams even if he can be a klutz some time and trip over his untied shoes but has a good heart. That the business is a going concern with positive cash flow with numerous years of steady growth and the future market looks good.
Always remember BUYER'S REMORSE is a waiver and a work in PROGRESS, and I truly mean that with the word progress. You are getting to REAL, as real as can be achieved and POOF that mirage goes away but in this part of your world it is a GOOD THING, not that your oasis of water is gone. You want to kill off any mirages in your life and get to clarity and TRUTH. Truth may hurt sometimes but it is most always good. It is light and we all need to live in the light!!
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