How to Have a Great Day

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Real Estate Agent with San Diego Homes Guide CalBre#01428791

How to Have a Great Day

As a San Diego Realtor I work hard to communicate to people that my job is to help them, and yet I often receive either spoken or unspoken a response that is clearly suspicious. My best guess about human behavior is that people don’t trust or believe other people very easily.  In my quest to solve this communication problem I have searched for the “magic words” that will trigger acceptance. 

In other words, “what can I say to get you to respond to me?”  I’ve learned that there are two key factors -
1.  What you say - or the words you use.
2.  How you say it - tone, inflection, body language, etc...
The right combination of the two generates a very positive response. If you want to have a great day, then all you have to do is change the way you’re looking at the day.  The slightest shift in your approach or perspective can make a big difference. Is your glass half empty or is it half full?

Watch this short video about the power of words, and remember -
It’s a beautiful day but not if You can’t see it.

 

 

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Re-Blogged 4 times:

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  1. C. Lloyd McKenzie 04/19/2011 03:27 PM
  2. Mike Wong 04/19/2011 03:46 PM
  3. Gary Coles (International Referrals) 04/24/2011 02:17 PM
  4. Gloria Todor 04/26/2011 10:57 AM
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Rainer
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Kelly Wuthrich
Silvercreek Realty-Eagle, Meridian, Boise, Kuna, Star~IDAHO - Eagle, ID
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Powerful message and well delivered.  How influential our words can be!  Thank-you for the reminder and may you continue to be able to see the beauty in everyday. 

Apr 12, 2011 07:33 AM #1
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Barbara Hensley
RE/MAX Properties - Rockwall, TX
Homes for Sale in Rockwall County, Texas

Janet - this is a wonderful reminder that we are in control of having our days be nice.  Our thoughts lead the way that our days go - thinking positive makes it so!  Powerful!

Apr 13, 2011 03:53 AM #2
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Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
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Janet, I love this video...warm, touching and effective. Have a wonderful day!!

Apr 15, 2011 07:27 PM #3
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Elizabeth Byrne
Keller Williams Realty - Arlington, VA
Arlington Virginia Real Estate

Janet - this is an amazing video. The correct use of words can change the way we perceive the world.

Apr 18, 2011 04:40 PM #4
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C. Lloyd McKenzie
Albuquerque, NM
Living Albuquerque

Janet, that was awesome!  A must see for allActive Rain members 

Apr 19, 2011 03:16 PM #5
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Don Sabinske
Don Sabinske, Sabinske & Associates Inc. - Zimmerman, MN
Sabinske & Associates Inc.

Stephen Fells posted this very same video at 6:42 or 6:47 this morning.  Very strange that both of you found it. 

Apr 19, 2011 03:36 PM #6
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Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

We can change the world with the words that we use!  This is one of the most inspirational videos I have seen in a long time.

Apr 19, 2011 03:38 PM #7
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Mike Wong
Keller Williams Realty Southwest - Sugar Land, TX
Realtor: Commercial, Residential, Leasing, Invest
Great blog Janet. I was introduced to this video last year from another Active Rain member. Its amazing how changing our words can change the meaning significantly. I've always been conscious of what I say and how I express myself. Now Im even more aware of it.
Apr 19, 2011 03:42 PM #8
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Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Janet,  Your post is wonderful and the video you found is awesome.  I just re-blogged it with the hope that others will see what you created.  Have a Happy Easter -- it is a great day.

Apr 24, 2011 02:20 PM #9
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Janet McCarthy
San Diego Homes Guide - San Diego, CA
Broker Associate

Thanks for the reblog.  I think it's a very valuable message and every time I watch it helps me.  Happy Easter.

Apr 24, 2011 03:24 PM #10
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Gloria Todor
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services - Newtown Square, PA
& Doug Durren (484) 431-3686 in SE PA

Janet, Thanks for posting this so I could see it again.  Like you, each time I see it touches me.  Thanks to Gary for his re-blog that got me here.

Words are powerful: written and spoken.  I remember years ago being given the advise to reword my memory's experience of a tough time in my past and what a shift occurred inside of me when I did that!  It's the words we tell ourselves too that make the difference on our inner lives and outer actions.

Have a great week.
Gloria

Apr 26, 2011 10:53 AM #11
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Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

Wow, Janet - that was a moving and powerful video.  I stopped by because Gloria did a reblog and it was SO well worth it. 

Apr 26, 2011 12:58 PM #12
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