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So you're thinking about downsizing....

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So You're Thinking About Downsizing....

Are you getting tired of cutting the grass and shoveling snow?  Are you uncomfortable lugging laundry baskets and groceries up and down stairs?  Perhaps the thought of moving sounds good, but the thought of selling your home and and moving to a smaller space overwhelms you.  If so, you're not alone! 

Making the decision to move to a smaller space is extremely diffiuclt for many older adults. If you've lived in your home for several decades, then leaving it may feel like an enormous loss.  If your children have moved on, it may feel like your house is all you have left.  You may think that your house is keeping you connected to those happy memories of years past, BUT none of that matters if your house is no longer safe for you. 

Here's a checklist that might help you decide if it's time to move on.  Give careful consideration to the following questions:

Your Neighborhood

 

  • What is your neighborhood like? 
  • Do you feel safe?
  • Do you feel vulnerable to home invasions?
  • Can you get to places like the bank and supermarket easily?
  • Are the sidewalks in good repair?
  • Do you feel isolated?

 

 

Your Home

 

  • Can you keep up with basic household maintenance, repairs and yardwork?
  • Can you keep up with the housework?
  • Do you have to use a dangerously narrow or steep staircase to reach a bedroom, laundry room or bathroom?
  • Is your kitchen easy to navigate? 
  • Can you reach cupboards easily without posing a safety hazard?
  • Can you get in and out of the tub or shower easily? 
  • Can you keep up with the laundry?

 

Your Own Physical Limitations

 

  • Are your memory and vision still good? 
  • Would you or your spouse ever forget about a pot on the stove?
  • Have you ever left the water running and forgotten about it?
  • Can you remember to take your medications?
  • Can you pay your bills on time?
  • Are you able to prepare heathy nutritious meals for yourself?
  • Can you easily clean up a spill before it becomes a slipping hazzard?  
  • Has driving become difficult? 

A downsize move to an apartment or a retirement community could certainly be a good move. Perhaps your loved ones are putting pressure on you because they're concerned abou your safety. 

Very often the need to make a downsize move appears obvious to everyone but to the senior who has to make that move.   You MUST be emotionally ready! 

  • Take time to think through your decision.  This is not a process that can be rushed.
  • Talk to people who you may know that have made the move.  Ask them if they're happy with their decision. 
  • Perhaps those who have traveled this road before you can provide advice to help you through the process.
  • Do your research.  That condo or retirment village might not be as expensive as you thought. 
  • Talk to reputable real estate agents in your area.  It may not be as impossible to sell your home as you might think. 
  • Realize that there are many people and resources who you can call on for help when help is needed. I'll be more than happy to help you find a Senior Move Manager, a Professional Organizer, a Professional Real Estate Stager and/or a Realtor in your area who specializes in helping seniors with their real estate and/or downsize needs.  Feel free to give me a call! 

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Ready2Sellin30Days

Karen Bernetti is a Real Estate Stager, Former Realtor®, Author, Speaker, and Owner of Staging4Smooth Transitions - specializing in assisting seniors with their downsize moves and offering Home2Home Transitions seminars. Karen is also the Social Media Manager and Administrative Coordinator for Prudential CT Realty, in Madison, CT and Co-creator of the Ready2Sellin30Days System - an interactive multi-media program teaching do-it-yourself homeowners EVERYHTING they need to know about preparing a home for sale. Stay up to date on the latest staging and home decor trends by visiting Karen & Ann's Home Sale Success Blog.  

 

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Bruce Kunz
C21 Solid Gold Realty, Brick, NJ, 732-920-2100 - Howell, NJ
REALTOR®, Brick & Howell NJ Homes for Sale

Great post, Karen.  Downsizing is really just a part of growing up!  As some mentioned earlier, the tough part is deciding to then getting it done. Once relocated, most find it really is nice to get around easier and not be worried about maintenance things. They usually have lots more time to do more interesting things.
Bruce

 

Sep 19, 2011 07:06 AM
Karen Bernetti
Southington, CT

Thanks everyone for your thoughtful comments.   I'm so glad you found this post helpful.  

I'm not complaining but can someone please tell me how a post that's 5 months old gets featured?!  Just wondering!

Sep 19, 2011 10:25 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Karen - What a super checklist.  There are a lot of people that are considering this, and what a wonderful reference you've proivded.  Congrats on the feature.

Sep 19, 2011 12:53 PM
Sharon Alters
ONE Sotheby's International Realty 904-673-2308 - Jacksonville, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Karen, this is a very comprehensive list for anyone contemplating downsizing. Neighborhoods go through transitions, and sometimes it's just time to move on.

Sharon

Sep 19, 2011 02:10 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Karen - You have given people who are considering down sizing a lot of food for thought and questions they should go through to help make their decision.

Sep 19, 2011 04:23 PM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Great post of considerations regardless of circumstances to downsizing.

Sep 20, 2011 12:34 AM
Dan Derito
Success! Real Estate - Brockton, MA

Karen - very timely and thoughtful post.  You are right that this type of move is obvious to everyone except for the person who needs to do it. 

Sep 20, 2011 01:49 AM
Lynn Donn
Royal Lepage Nanaimo Realty - Nanaimo, BC
Homes for Sale in Nanaimo BC

Hi, What an excellant post.  I work allot with downsizers.  I will be re-blogging your post as you have covered everything in great detail.  Thank you!

Sep 20, 2011 02:50 AM
Jim McCormack
Nashville Short Sale Specialist - Jim McCormack - Edge Advantage Realty, LLC - 615-796-6898 - Murfreesboro, TN
Nashville Short Sale REALTOR - Stop Foreclosure

Good info.

Sep 20, 2011 05:46 AM
Evelyn Kennedy
Alain Pinel Realtors - Alameda, CA
Alameda, Real Estate, Alameda, CA

Karen:

Having a two story home, I often think about downsizing.  Many of my friends are also thinking about buying a one level smaller home, even a condo with no back yard to deal with.  But the memories, the memories are sometimes more important than stairs. 

Sep 20, 2011 06:30 AM
Liane Thomas, Top Listing Agent
Professional Realty Services® - Corona, CA
Bringing you Home!

This is a really good list and is perfect for those thinking of downsizing. I love that you provide resources to help the sellers.

Sep 20, 2011 07:45 AM
Karen Bernetti
Southington, CT

Thank you all for stopping by!  So glad you found this information helpful

Downsizing is a huge decision that often takes years to make.  I see a lot of people are contemplating making a move like this.    

I wish I could get my mother out of the house she is in...it is downright dangerous for her.  We do have her thinking about it, I just wish she would think faster....but it's not something that can be rushed.   

Sep 20, 2011 11:02 AM
Roshan Quigley
Weichert Realtors - Manalapan/Marlboro, NJ - Manalapan, NJ

Hi Karen,

 

Thanks for the great post - well layed out and important for seniors to review before making the big move.

Sep 20, 2011 11:09 AM
Carrie Sampron
Home Smart Realty Group - Highlands Ranch, CO
ABR SFR & Kathy Sampron (303) 931-3629 Highlands R

Karen: Love how you've laid out the information. Our dad made the decision about 11 years ago and he continues to be thrilled with his decision today at the age of 80. Carrie

Sep 20, 2011 11:29 AM
Bill Reddington
Re/max By The Sea - Destin, FL
Destin Florida Real Estate

Lots of great questions to ask. All pretty much common sense. Thanks...

Sep 20, 2011 11:53 AM
Win Home Inspection
National Home Office - Madison, AL

Karen this is a great list for anyone who is thinking about downsizing but I also think it is a great list for homebuyers as well to keep in mind. Thanks!

Sep 20, 2011 12:20 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

This iis a really good post and I am going to reblog it as part of our Summerset Hyperlocal Post.

 

oops you don't allow reblog.

Sep 20, 2011 12:24 PM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Excellent advice and good questions to ask seniors on when is the right time to begin.

Sep 21, 2011 07:19 AM
Jayson Holland
Listings.com - Denver, CO
Jay Holland

So many buyers/sellers dont think about this when they make their decisions, and the good broker/Realtor will help their clients through the decision making process by providing them with ideas and information! Very good post, thanks!

 

Sep 22, 2011 07:44 AM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

I've had a number of clients downsize just to regret it later because they don't have enough room i ntheir home for their family get togethers with kids and grandkids.  There is a lot to consider! -Kasey

Oct 02, 2011 04:19 PM