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This is my youngest daughter Sierra.  

We traveled half the way around the world to find her in the  "small" farming community of Yueyang, Hun'an, China. Left in a small basket, on the morning she was born,  at the doorstep of the town cinder block factory, her mother knew there would be half the town arriving soon to find her.  

She was well cared for in a foster home for the first 10 months of her life. During that time we were told she spent most of her days with the father of her foster mom.  We have had a special bond since the first day we met. When given to my wife and I, she would let only me hold, feed and bathe her for the first week. This was quite the opposite from my experience with my first daughter who was from a Vietnamese orphanage. For the first few months of HER life, she had NEVER seen a man before.  Sierra cried whenever my wife entered the room and only I could calm her. This broke my wife's heart a bit,  as she was the one who spearheaded the whole "let's get a sister" for Madison plan.

About that..... Initially, I was all, why would we want to do that? Things are just perfect the way they are now. There was no need for a change. One is enough. Could I have been more WRONG???? The answer to that rhetorical question is no I could not have been more wrong. I cannot imagine a day in my life without her,  either of them for that matter. I honestly do not recall the time before we became parents to these two .

Without my girls, my life would be spent on shameless self indulgence. I've had more than enough time to do that years ago. Nothing grounds a person like the responsibility of parenthood.

There are few things in this life more important to me than the peaceful safety of my children.

ActiveRainPhotoBloggerContest Sleeping Beauty Safe and Peaceful

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Fireplace in WiltonPeter Schattenfield
Managing Partner
Turning Point Estate Services LLC
Wilton, CT 06897
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(203) 550-2199 (cell)

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Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Margie, Thank you. It is truly from the heart. Tell you sister and her husband to get started. It can be a long red tape filled process. But, there is never a  question at the end,  if it was worth the effort.

May 09, 2011 02:13 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

She is an angel Peter and I admire you and your wife for giving her all the love in the world she deserves. I am going to be a first time grandma...and the I'll get to experience grandparent hood :)

May 09, 2011 05:26 AM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Good evening, Peter. Great story and photo. Very heart warming and yes, our children are so precious...

May 09, 2011 11:29 AM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Sally, Thank you for looking in. Great news about your Grandparenthood. I am sure you will be the best grandparent you can be..

 

May 09, 2011 02:44 PM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Michael,  Thanks for looking in. Yes  our children are very important to all of us.

 

May 09, 2011 02:47 PM
Margie Kopp Sorrell
Coldwell Banker Lake Oconee Realty and Lake Country - Greensboro, GA
Lake Oconee Real Estate

Peter-I'm supposed to go visit her in Florida soon so I'll have to show her this blog. They're looking to have kids in about a year or two so perhaps they should go ahead and start looking into it.

May 10, 2011 04:12 AM
Melanie Hedrick
Elite Texas Properties, the best homes from McKinney to Dallas! - McKinney, TX
972-816-7205

What a blessing to have two precious daughters!  Lovely photo and story!

May 11, 2011 05:55 AM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Margie, I am sorry I missed you message here. Please encourage them to begin ASAP. It will take longer than they think.

 

Melanie, They are indeed my pride and joy. Thanks. 

May 11, 2011 07:35 AM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

What a beautiful story! And yes, having children and being a parent is the most beautiful ecperience in the world. You have a beuatiful daughter and both will certainly make you proud in the long run! But also, I am proud of you for adopting these kids. There are so many children in the world without parents to look after them. And there are half the number of adults - couples who can adopt. Kudos to you being one of them. 

May 11, 2011 09:50 PM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Will, Thank you. Truly a win-win situation.

May 11, 2011 11:41 PM
Gabrielle Kamahele Rhind
KGC Properties LLC, Tucson Property Management & Real Estate - Tucson, AZ
Broker/Owner

GOOD MORNING PETER!  Wow.  You and your wife are amazing people and children are what I believe we should shamelessly indulge in!

May 12, 2011 01:57 AM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Gabrielle, Thank you very much. Wo do indulge them shamelessly.

May 12, 2011 02:17 AM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Peter...It is wonderful how our hearts can expand.  Our capacity to love must be endless.  I wish you daughters peace and happiness.

Kate

May 12, 2011 01:58 PM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Kate, Thank you very much from my entire family.

May 12, 2011 02:04 PM
Al & Peggy Cunningham, Brokers
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage - Brampton, ON
Our Family Wants To Help Your Family!

Nice story Peter, you and wife have saved two girls from lives that probably would not have had the love you give the girls.  Good Luck!

May 14, 2011 02:50 AM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Al & Peggy, These two girls have given us a life with an immense amount of love as well. Thanks for reading.

May 14, 2011 07:45 AM
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Peter~

One of the most beautiful and honoring of sweet-angelic girlhood I can imagine. I spent several minutes just smiling at the photo before I read your wonderful story. Thank you!

May 15, 2011 03:21 AM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

JaneAnne, Thank you so much for reading. I smile alot at this photo myself.

May 15, 2011 11:54 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Peter,

Sierra is a BEAUTIFUL little girl and I happy to know that she has you for a father. I can tell she's very special to you and that you will have many great stories to tell. As the years go by, she'll tug at your heart more and more. She already tugged at mine! That's a lovely photo and one of the best stories I read on the photoblogging contest.

No matter what the outcome is, you have a winning daughter and the best story in the world!

Patricia

May 17, 2011 05:03 PM
Peter Schattenfield
Turning Point Estate Services LLC - Wilton, CT
Estate Dissolution and Preparation (203)388-8092 CT.

Patricia, Thank you for reading. It is a story I never tire of telling.

May 17, 2011 11:51 PM