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Patience is a Virtue: Short Selling A House

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Real Estate Agent with West USA Realty, Inc.

Patience is definitely a virtue when representing a client who is short selling a house.  The homeowner is dealing with the loss and grief of what they feel is a death.  Shock, sadness, anger, and then feeling numb.  All of those feelings coming out at different times and they come to you, their trusted Realtor for help.  You become their life support.  It is not just a business transaction.  You have entered into their life as a confidant, cheerleader, and shoulder to cry on if need be.  You help push them along the way assuring them that they have done everything they can in trying to save the home and hope that the bank will be as nice as you have been to them. 

Short Sales are not easy.  We take the gamble, you win some you lose some, but you have tried your hardest to help your clients through one of the most difficult times of their lives.  They will not want to remember what they went through, but they will remember the one that stood by them till the bitter or bitttersweet end.  Yes, patience is a virtue.

 

There can be light at the end of the journey, or entryway.

 

 

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Michele Norris
Crystal Realty - Incline Village Nevada - Incline Village, NV
((( Buy or Sell, Call Michele ))) Lake Tahoe NV

Mary,

Patience. I never knew it is something which can be learned!

May 24, 2011 11:27 AM
Allan Sanchez
Roseville CA & Rocklin CA Short Sale Agent - Roseville, CA
Rocklin & Roseville, Short Sale Agent

Mary-

Short sales can be emotional for all involved.  I find the best way to handle short sales is constant updates.  I update whenever there is something new to say.  It makes both seller's and buyers feel more at ease.

Thanks!

 

May 24, 2011 11:35 AM
Mary Parkin
West USA Realty, Inc. - Peoria, AZ

Yes Allan, I definitely believe that constant updates are crucial in the short sale process.  Best to ALWAYS keep everyone in the loop.

May 24, 2011 12:21 PM
Anja Kerstens, 669.270.8034
Compass - Morgan Hill, CA
GRI, NHCB, CDPE, CHS. Silicon Valley Homes

Mary,

Patients is the keyword here whether you are dealing with sellers of buyers.  I am working with buyers who run in to multiple offers on a number of short sales.

May 25, 2011 10:48 AM