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Real Estate Sales Representative with Sutton Group -West Coast Realty v52729

 

Hi welcome to this opinion of this day in my office

Being a single woman in my office, I have a few times had the men or women here compelled somehow to tell me about their marital or non marital woes. Of course I have only  5 words of advise, which is" get out and move on". 

We're here in this life to live and be happy, hopefully for most of you out there...If I look at my own life, I am quite content to be single. Having had my loves over the years, some still friends, others just a faded memory, I can honestly say I have no regrets or complaints. Didn't really want a family, so that issue never hit me as it has some of my single girlfriends. I really believe that you are in charge of your own happiness. If you find yourself in an unhappy situation, get out. It's complicated, you have children, animals, a house together, you don't want to be lonely. The reality is.... do you really want to wake up at 60 and be in your unhappy life. The answer in NO. The small amount of uncomfortable time you will spend getting yourself out of  an undesirable situation will be worth it's weight in gold in the long run. It's not selfish, it is just life and you and everyone in this world is entitled to a happy one.

Make your move...it's up to you

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Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Farm & Commercial Land Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
Farm & Commercial Property For Sale 308-627-3700

I enjoyed the advice in your blog...I have one word of advice for those unhappy or contemplating getting into an obvious bad relationship....RUN!

May 25, 2011 01:41 PM
David Spencer
Keller Williams Northland - Kansas City, MO
Show Me real estate in Kansas City

We all have individual comfort zones. I have been married for 45 years, in the fulltime real estate business for 35 and have no complaints. However, spreading the workload is simpler now.

May 25, 2011 02:01 PM
Yvonne Connor
Sutton Group -West Coast Realty - Vancouver, BC
Yvonne Connor

We are here for a short while, make it count especially for your own happiness. :)

May 25, 2011 02:01 PM
Yvonne Connor
Sutton Group -West Coast Realty - Vancouver, BC
Yvonne Connor

David did I mention that it's awesome you've together for 45 years...

May 25, 2011 02:07 PM
Mark Mansfield
RE/MAX Ocean Properties - Morehead City, NC
Broker - NC Beaches , Water & Golf Course Homes

Great advice! Hope they listen better than the people in my office. LOL

May 25, 2011 02:46 PM