My Heroes of Joplin

By
Title Insurance with First American Title

I’m really not quite sure how to even begin this little story. It certainly isn’t a plea for sympathy nor is it the seizing of an opportunity for a hot blog topic. If it were, I’m a little late. As some of my friends here on Activerain know my oldest daughter lives in Joplin, Missouri with my three grand kids.

Tawnya is a single mom working two jobs to make ends meet like many of us in this recession. She works for the Joplin Globe Newspaper (need I say more) which has severely scaled back this last year. She got a second job at Walmart. Normally she would have been working last Sunday but by chance (as you might call it) she had the day off and was home with the boys, Jakob and Tannyr. Tyffanie was across town at the mall when all hell broke loose and the Tornado hit. Walmart was a total loss.

We weren’t able to reach them for a few days with all the chaos that ensued and because most communications were down. Thank God for social media. The first little bits of info about them started coming over Facebook.

S. Florida Ave in their neighborhood after the storm.

People were making signs out of anything they could find and putting them at intersections. With all the familiar landmarks gone, you had no idea what street you were on. It all looked the same.

Fortunately the entire house wasn't blown away like so many around them.

Bless my grandson Jake. They ran for the bathroom to ride out the storm. He told me a horrendous story about trying to get the door shut but everything was moving and stuff was flying all over the place. After several attempts he wrestled it closed when a large section of the roof came off and debris was crashing into the hallway.

 

On the left, the roof is gone. Tawnya said in an email how thankful she was that the neighbor’s car stayed in the garage and didn’t land on their house.

Although the home is a total loss they did get some of their belongings out and into storage. Jake took a car load of clothes to the emergency shelter for the less fortunate and has been volunteering all week searching homes for survivors and helping out where ever he can.

Jake out front trying to comprehend what just happened.

I am so profoundly grateful my family is okay, safe, and staying with friends. What a powerless feeling to be so far away. I’ve survived some pretty amazing things in my life, but I can’t begin to fathom what this must of been like.

Via email - May 27th... "I am counting my blessings everyday that me and the kids are alive. It was by the grace of God! His hand was over us for sure and I believe because he has bigger and better things for all of us to do."

Love you all,
Tawnya

Amen daughter of mine. Amen... 

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Comments (14)

Rose King
David Tracy Real Estate - Friendswood, TX
Friendswood / Pearland / Houston Bay Area

Rene - Thank the Lord your family is okay! Your grandson Jake sounds like a fine young man!

May 28, 2011 09:17 AM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Thanks Rose... I think at the mere age of 17 he became a very couragious man in an instant. I am so very proud of what he did during that horrendous storm and what he felt compelled to do after.

May 28, 2011 09:26 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Rene...

Tears are streaming down my face. It's every parent and grandparent's nightmare. Thank God everyone is OK.

What courage and what compassion! You SHOULD be very proud.

Featured in the Group "Whacked" and hoping that this makes the front page.

May 28, 2011 10:02 AM
Craig Daniels
Tech Training for You! - Staten Island, NY
Technology Instructor/Project Consultant

wow am I very glad to hear that report, I can not even imagine your fear in waiting to hear

May 28, 2011 10:10 AM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Thanks Richard... It's the most weirdest mix of emotions a person can have... You're scared, you're worried, the unknown haunts you, and you're grateful all at the same time (knowing you really don't even comprehend what happened). You always think of yourself as Dad... "Don't you worry, I'll be there!" Then you're not...

May 28, 2011 10:12 AM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Thanks Craig... tis the unknown that is the worst.

 

May 28, 2011 10:32 AM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Thanks for sharing that Rene. I am so glad that your family is able to tell the story. I will join the chorus and say very, very sincerely,  thank God for whatever good there is to come out of this horrific event.

 I'll be in Joplin Tuesday to serve food and clear debris.

May 28, 2011 12:06 PM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Charles: Thanks... and thanks for going to Joplin to help. I think one of the powerful things that people witnessed was each others humanity. I've heard many heartfelt stories of rescue.

May 29, 2011 05:20 AM
Susan Goulding
Crown Key Realty, Tracy & Mountain House Real Estate - Tracy, CA
Northern CA - Tracy & Mountain House Real Estate

Wow- how can we help?

May 30, 2011 04:15 PM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Susan: Thanks! Sending some good karma and a few prayers to Joplin would be awesome.

May 30, 2011 08:07 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Rene, as i started reading your post I was getting more and more aprehensive and was afraid of a very bad outcome. Thank God your Daughter & Your Grandson are fine. Materials can be replaced, lives can not.....BTW Charles is a good man....too bad we do not have more of them.

May 31, 2011 08:09 AM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Endre: I got even more grayhair than I have worrying about them for a couple of days because communication was so bad... then my grandson Jakob had his laptop and swung by a wifi hotspot and posted a few things on Facebook! That was our first word that my daughter Tawn, Jakob, Tyffanie, and Tannyr were okay. Yet, we didn't know much more than that and that their house was trashed.

Thank goodness for social media! They are now staying with friends and are coming to terms with what happened. As you stay, belongings are just that, stuff. My family is alright. I am so happy Charles headed up to Joplin. He had to drive @ 100 miles today to volunteer. What a stellar guy and much appreciated. Everything is moving so fast, I wish I could have put him in touch with my family. That would have been a plus for morale for sure.

Even in the face of a disaster like this, I am so very thankful! Tyffanie and Jakob are headed up here to the Northwest in a couple of weeks to stay for awhile. One day at a time! I am so proud and grateful for Jakob, I know he'd probably be embarassed that I mention his awesome sense of community and caring. He's been out helping every day where ever he can. Speaks volumes for anyone, yet he's just 17.

May 31, 2011 03:52 PM
Kim Carnes
Licensed - Certified Home Inspectors (317) 753-7098 - Indianapolis, IN
Carnes Home Inspections - Indianapolis Metro Area and beyond -

Prayers to all who are hurting and thanks to all the heros who are answers to prayers...

Jun 03, 2011 09:18 AM
Rene Fabre
First American Title - Seattle, WA
Marketing in the Digital Age

Thanks Kim... and yes, "thanks to all heroes who are answers to prayers!"

Jun 03, 2011 09:33 AM

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