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It's not always about winning.

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Real Estate Agent with Compass

Big news today from the Big 10 in college football.  Jim Tressell, the incredibly talented and successful Ohio State football coach today resigned under pressure from a scandal that started last winter about his players committing various NCAA offenses, namely accepting freebies from local businesses and trading team memorabilia for services like tattoos.  Tressel was tipped off to it far before it became public, and he was not the one to announce it.  Accusations of a cover up ensued, and now here they stand with a firing labled as a resignation.

DISCLAIMER:  My husband went to University of Michigan, and there is no love lost for Ohio State in this household.  Especially after these players were allowed to play in the Sugar Bowl and beat my alma mater's Razorbacks in that game.

That said, although I am just a little bit happy to see this massive chink in the mighty Ohio State's armour, I think it's sad that such a great coach had to resign heading a hugely successful program, and it makes me think there's a lesson here for all of us, not just those in college sports.   

It's not only about winning.

I heard a news analyst say on the radio that Tressel kept it quiet because he wanted to just focus on the team and winning and not let it get in the way.

But sometimes things DO get in the way, and sometimes there's a price to pay if we keep quiet.  He would still have his job right now if he had of not been focused not only on winning, but on doing what is right.

This makes me think of the ethics questions we face as Realtors often.    We have to disclose material defects we know about a house, even if it impedes the sale (ie, keeps us from winning).  We need to tell our buyers if we think a house is not worth buying if a home inspection proves too much work for them (again, we don't win that game).  We have to be honest with prospective sellers about value and tell them what we think their house is really worth, even if it might mean we don't get to list it.

Real estate is made up of a series of games (potential transactions) that we can sometimes lose, but in doing so, keep our ethics intact and build our business for the long run.  Our focus is not on the sale, but on the fiduciary duty to our clients and for making sure they make the best choices for their goals.  That is how I run my business.  I have talked buyers out of buying houses and talked sellers out of listing.  Did I get paid for that?  Not that particular game, but I built trust, confidence and loyalty - at that's what will keep me here for the long haul.  

Nor Yeretsian
Envoy Capitol Realty Inc. - Toronto, ON
Envoy Capitol Realty Inc., Brokerage Toronto

Coral , interest perspective at the end - almost seems natural and certainly ethical.

If only more realtors were in it for the long haul like you.

cheers

Nor

May 30, 2011 02:33 PM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Thanks Nor.  It is natural to me to do what's right.  It is though an inherent conflict we face as commission based salespeople.  It's a tough line to follow for some, especially if times are tough and you need to pay the bills.  

May 30, 2011 02:52 PM
John Howard
Century 21 LeMac Realty - Mountain Home, AR
GRI, Mountain Home, Arkansas 870-404-3614

Coral,  A real shame that Coach Tressel let "Greed" get in the way of his integrity.  Class of '81  THE University of Arkansas....Go Hogs!

May 30, 2011 02:56 PM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Woo pig sooie, John!  He sure did.  It's got to be tough to balance winning with doing the right thing, but it must be done.  There will always be a price to pay if not.

May 30, 2011 03:11 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I went to a college with no football...  :(  But I hope you are right and some lessons are learned.  You don't always win.... and somethings are more important than winning.

May 30, 2011 04:16 PM
Tracie Cope
Granville, Newark, Heath, Buckeye Lake & all of Central Ohio - Granville, OH
ReMax 360 - www.LCountyHomes.com

I live in Ohio, as do many of my Facebook friends and I'm seeing a lot of mourning.  Many people here are sickened that it has come to this, and defend the players selling/bartering with their own possessions.  But, it doesn't matter if you disagree with the rules - the rules are the rules and they are in place for a reason. 

May 30, 2011 10:39 PM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Tammy - Yes it is hard to swallow that we can't put winning ahead of everything sometimes.

Tracie - I'll bet the state is in turmoil.  It is sad, and yes, the offenses seemed minor, and it is kind of a silly rule I suppose.  But it's happened so many times and the coach should know better than to hide it.   Hard to believe such a brilliant man would make such a critical mistake. 

May 30, 2011 11:48 PM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

Whether involved or not, he is acting like a big boy in taking responsibility.  There should be more of that maturity, in all aspects of society.

May 31, 2011 12:14 AM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Yes, but Jay, he's taking it a bit too late.  

May 31, 2011 12:27 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

I haven't followed one minute of it.  I saw a quickie news item earlier this morning.  But, at least he is taking it.

May 31, 2011 12:40 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Great analogy, Coral. Even though I know nothing of the football story, it's still very relevant to what we, as agents, could be sweeping under the rug that just isn't legal, ethical and could cost us our job..

May 31, 2011 03:05 AM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Thanks Chris Ann.  Sometimes you do have to lose a battle to win the war as they say.

May 31, 2011 03:29 AM
Brandon Jordan
ERA American Real Estate - Crestview, FL

I was searching now that there has been some time to write posts on the topic of coach Tressel. I thought this was a great post, it is best to get the real story from someone that has first hand accounts being a player on the team. This post was from a fellow ActiveRain member that posted a players letter that was made public.

 

A hurting Buckeye fan from Indiana on Jim Tressel

Jul 03, 2011 06:54 AM