Paying it forward- for their families... for our country!

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

As has become my tradition for Memorial Day to "decorate" the resting place of those who for some reason have no other to place flowers for them on Memorial Day yesterday I did so again.  Today I Googled both and found nothing.  So I have no story, nothing to tell, just my imagination. Just the markers with no story... just dates

I was particularly drawn to the first site.  Perhaps because I just lost my 18 year old nephew last month my heart just aches for the mother of the young man.  Makes me want to hold on to my daughter just a little bit tighter.  I just tried to call her, but she was working the past 24 hours and is likely still sleeping.  I'll try again later today.

 

The second grave I left flowers on did have a flag, but it appeared to have been left some months ago, not yesterday.  I said a prayer for their families and will continue to remember their families in my prayers.  I will also go back in a few months and move the arrangements once they are faded. 

I wish I had started this tradition much earlier.  I wish I could say that I used to take my daughter to the Veterans' cemetery every year to help her learn about freedom and price that had to be paid to find it.  I did not.  I can't change the past, but I can vow that if I am blessed with grandchildren some day... this will be something I will do.  I saw lots of folks on the news over the past few days that were talking about getting back to "decoration day" as it was intended and not so much about car and furniture sales and cook outs.  On the 4th of July I will celebrate the freedom I have in this country.  Yesterday, I paid respect to those who helped earn it for me.

 

Comments (15)

Ken and Leslye Huebsch
3x Individual Agent of the Year, Luxury Homes, First-Time Buyers, Residential Resales, New Construction - Harrisburg, PA
Realtors - Harrisburg Homes for Sale 717.514.1793

I love that you are not afraid to admit shortfalls of when we were younger, and dreams of how to make things better when we are older. Lovely story and even lovlier sentiment.

May 31, 2011 11:58 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Ken and Leslye- Young people need to know more about the history of our country.  And it's NOT like they will learn it in school.

May 31, 2011 12:03 PM
Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

I just learned about www.uso.org.  There are a lot of little things that we can all do.

May 31, 2011 12:28 PM
Bridget "Mortgage Mama" McGee
SWBC Mortgage 410-960-2061 - Baltimore, MD
Maryland Mortgage Mama NMLS#196068

Tammy, Many blessings for you and the family of your nephew.  We are so blessed to live in a country where men and women volunteer to protect our freedoms.  Thank you for remembering!

Maryland Mortgage Mama

May 31, 2011 12:33 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Thanks Chris, I'll check that out.

Bridget- Thanks you.  Our family is forever changed. 

 

May 31, 2011 12:52 PM
Lee & Carol Barbour, REALTORS
Murphy and Hayesville, NC; Hiawassee, Blairsville, Blue Ridge GA - Murphy, NC
Mountain Living Team in Murphy NC and North GA

What a wonderful idea and tradition to start and pass down to family and your friends at ActiveRain.

May 31, 2011 01:58 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Tammy,

I love this tradition. It doesn't matter when you started it..it's here to stay!

May 31, 2011 02:06 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Carol- It's what feels right to me.

Dorie- it's never too late

May 31, 2011 02:58 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Tammy- this is one of the best traditions I've heard of and you should be applauded for this.  This is a very kind and thoughtful act.  I am very sorry for the loss of your nephew.  Hold on to your traditions, Tammy.... they're good ones.

May 31, 2011 03:00 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Kathy- Thank you.  And I plan to continue this tradition as long as I am able to do so.  And hopefully by the time I'm too feeble I will have instilled it deeply into my future generations.

May 31, 2011 03:07 PM
Donne Knudsen
Los Angeles & Ventura Counties in CA - Simi Valley, CA
CalState Realty Services

Tammy - What an absolute sweetie you are for recognizing fallen veterans. That doesn't surprise me about you.  Hubby and I went to the cemetary to visit with our Papa Jack (my FIL) who was a retired navy veteran.  He's buried in the veterans section of the cemetary and there was a Memorial Day tribute at the cemetary when we went.  This is one of the largest cemetaries in the area so it's a rather busy cemetary.

May 31, 2011 03:14 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Donne- You know I didn't even think about it, but I was there completely alone.  It's not really large, but seems odd, now that I think about it that no one else was there on Memorial Day.

May 31, 2011 03:19 PM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Chesterfield, MO
SelectAnn.com

Tammy,

You are a special person. 

Ann Hayden in Wildwood, MO

May 31, 2011 03:52 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Tammy, this is a great pay it forward post and love this idea of recognizing our veterans.

Jun 01, 2011 04:57 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Thanks Ann.

Rebecca-  I just feel it's the least I can do.

Jun 01, 2011 05:24 PM

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