The American Flag should have a little more repect... don't ya think?

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 GREC# 169695

Some things just break my heart.  Disrespect for the flag of my country is one of those things.  There's a code.  The flag should be treated with utmost care and respect.  A flag should NEVER be used for advertising, never touch anything beneath it, never be on or part of clothing, never be part of an athletic uniform (including at the Olympics).   When worn and tattered it should be disposed of properly, preferably burned.

In the past I have found myself sitting silent when I am really totally offended by the inappropriate treatment of the American flag.  But you know what?  No longer.  I am going to be heard and people are going to know how I feel about it.  Of course I'll be poliet.  I'm actually just betting most people don't even know it's against the code to drap themselves in the American flag.  Flag day is 12 days away.  Could you pass this information along and let's see how many people in this country we can teach we actually hav a flag code before flag day.

I often wonder when did we, as a nation, loose respect for our flag?  The United States flag was adopted on June 14, 1777 and is the fourth oldest national flag in the world.  June 14th was proclaimed Flad Day by President Woodrow Wilson in 1916 although it didn't get its official Congressional designation until 1949. 

"The flag stands for all that we hold dear- Freedom, Democracy, Government of the people, By the people , And for the the people"- Henry Cabot Lodge, 1915

The flag may be displayed every day. On the days listed below it is particularly appropriate to display the flag.

  • New Year's Day- January 1st
  • Martin Luther King Day- Third Monday in January
  • Inauguration Day- January 20th
  • Lincoln's Birthday- February 12th
  • Washington's Birthday- Third Monday in February
  • Easter Sunday
  • Mother's Day- Second Sunday in May
  • Armed Forces Day- Third Saturday in May
  • Memorial Day- half staffed until noon- May 30th and last Monday in may
  • Flag Day- June 14th
  • Father's Day- Third Sunday in June
  • Independence Day- Juth 4th
  • National Korean War Veterans Armistice Day- July (added in 2009)
  • Labor Day- First Monday in September
  • Patriot Day (half-staff)- September 11th
  • Constitution Day- September 17th
  • Gold Start Mother's Day- Sunday on or before October 9th
  • Firefighter's Memorial Day (half-staff) Sunday on or before October 9th
  • Columbus Day- Second Monday in October
  • Navy Day- October 27th
  • Election Day- First Tuesday in November
  • Thanksgiving Day- Fourth Thursday in November
  • Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day (half-staff) December 7th
  • Christmas Day- December 25th
  • State Birthdays

    (and other days as may be proclaimed by the President of the United States.)
    The flag should be displayed daily on or near the main administration building of every public institution.

 

Comments (27)

Donne Knudsen
Los Angeles & Ventura Counties in CA - Simi Valley, CA
CalState Realty Services

Tammy - WOW!!!  Very informative!  I knew some of the flag rules but had never read the flag code - thx for the link.  Heck, there are even codes for wearing flag pins people!

Jun 02, 2011 09:04 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Donne- Yup, left lapel close to your heart. :)  Each state also has its own flag code.

Jun 02, 2011 09:31 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Tammy-I too didn't know about the code. I think it is down right disgraceful when anyone is disrespectful of our flag. I too speak my mind more now than I used to. Must be the gray hair as you said. Have yourself a great evening.

Jun 02, 2011 11:53 AM
June Tassillo
Owner/Broker RE/MAX Elite Realty - Franklin, NC
Let me help you with the next phase of your life!

Tammy ~  It is a too bad most people do not know the true etiquette for our flag.  Recently my brother (retired Navy) burned his flag and his son had a tizzy fit.  It is the proper way to retire a torn or worn out flag.  

Jun 02, 2011 02:43 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Sharon- :)  Getting older has its advantages.

June- I saw one Memorial Day ceremony that had a fire just for that reason for people to come and place their worn flags to be be burned.  I thought it very fitting. 

Jun 02, 2011 03:48 PM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi Tammy, I can remember going to camp as a young girl and every morning there was the ceremony of raising the flag and evening lowering it. I can still picture them folding it in that proper way and with respect while we said the pledge. Very timely and informative!

Jun 02, 2011 04:32 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Cindy- I recently replaced my flag as it was beginning to show wear and I'd been meaning to write about this.  Today I found the time.  We actually always said the pledge and played the national anthem when I was in school... but not in public schools anymore.

Jun 02, 2011 04:52 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

I think one of the things that bothers me most, is when I see a flag waving that is tattered or fadded.  It's better to not fly one at all, rather than fly one in poor condition!

Jun 02, 2011 05:46 PM
Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

Tammy,  I agree with you!  The flag deserves more respect!!!!  I know that those that fought and died for it earned it that much!!  I also agree that if you're going to fly it, take it down at night unless there is a light shining on it, and maintain it. Bring it in out of the storm when possible and when it gets tattered and torn, retire it with respect and replace it!

Jun 02, 2011 08:04 PM
William (Bill) Zoller
U.S. Inspect, LLC - Loveland, CO

Good job Tammy! As a Vietnam Veteran, I've always been sensitive to the misuse of our Flag. Who knows when it began. Blame it on some country western singer that had a shirt made to look like the Flag, or maybe a hippie protester hanging one upside down in his van. Respect for so many things seems to have waned over time. As I read thru all the comments, I'm encouraged by the awareness.  Thank you for taking the time.

Jun 03, 2011 03:25 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Myrl- that chaps my behind too.

Tony & Darcy- I just don't get it when folks put it out and then leave it forever until it's shreds on stick. 

Bill- I don't know when it started either, but it bothers me to my very core.  I want to smack 'em the head like Gibbs does Denozo on NCIS.

Jun 03, 2011 03:59 AM
Lee & Carol Barbour, REALTORS
Murphy and Hayesville, NC; Hiawassee, Blairsville, Blue Ridge GA - Murphy, NC
Mountain Living Team in Murphy NC and North GA

Very informative information Tammy. We were so impressed that our local Marine Corps League placed a Red Box at the Memorial Park in downtown Murphy where you can place your worn, torn or faded flags for the proper retirement - which is very interesting and respectful.

Jun 03, 2011 03:33 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Carol- that was a great post, I'd never heard of it, but it gave me a really great idea... so thanks.

Jun 03, 2011 03:52 PM
Karen Hawkins, MBA - Langley & Surrey, BC
Royal Pro Real Estate Network - Langley, BC

Hi Tammy - such a great post - and with the US Flag Day approaching it's so very important to be cognizant of the protocols that this national symbol deserves. I do make allowances,though, for the exuberance of some (typically sports fans) and I admit I have a number of items of clothes with the Canadian flag on them (full disclosure, I am Canadian!).  But the flag has incredibly deep meaning and thank you so very much for highlighting the Code!  (this one deserves a big re-blog to continue to pass the info along!)

Jun 03, 2011 11:28 PM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

Well written post Tammy...disrespect for any symbol of the nation you reside in is shameful (IMO) and should not be tolerated.

Jun 04, 2011 01:08 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Karen- I used to own and wear things with the American flag, but after 9-11 I made a choice to change that.  The clothing hanging in our closet now with the American flag is my husband's uniforms.

Anita- I agree 100% and I won't be quiet about it anymore.

Jun 04, 2011 03:01 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Realtor Top 1%
RE/MAX Gold - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

I didn't know the flag needs to come down at night until last week. When we were in Ione, CA, last weekend, lots of red, white and blue banners were hung from homes but very few flags. My husband said it's so they don't have to take the banners inside at night like they would the flag.

Jun 04, 2011 07:06 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Elizabeth, also a flag can stay at night if it is lit. But I'm a take it in kind of person.

Jun 04, 2011 08:15 AM
Aida Pinto
Independent Real Estate Broker - Los Angeles, CA
Real Estate Broker (562) 884-6196

Hi Tammy....I totally agree....I get bugged when I see Americans disrespect it....but when I see a foreigner .....burning it......that really gets to me.....If we were to do the same with their flag....how would the feel.

Jun 05, 2011 04:21 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Aida- I'm just the opposite, I am not nearly as offended by foreigners burning the American flag.  I don't care if they have no respect for it.  Now Americans... I just want to smack.

Jun 05, 2011 04:34 PM

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