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You Decide: Furniture that's Cheap and Trendy, or Expensive and Permanent?

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Furniture: Cheap and Trendy, or Expensive and Permanent?

Couples who have lived together for 40 years have had nearly every conversation possible.  O.K., I'm exaggerating. A little.  Here's the customary conversation I have with my wife prior to any major furniture purchase.  Names have been omitted to prevent bias one way or another.  It goes like this:

Spouse #1: "Let's buy a high quality [insert name of piece of furniture] that will last forever.  Sure, it'll be more expensive in the short run, but we'll never need to buy another one, ever."

Other Spouse: "Why would you want to look at the same [insert name of piece of furniture] for the rest of your life?  Styles change.  I like 'Cheap and Trendy.'  We can buy a new one when it wears out."

Spouse #1: "If we recognize a classic design in a high quality piece, it'll be attractive forever.  We won't get tired of it.  It'll have timeless appeal and may even increase in value."

Other Spouse: "Do you really think Travis (that's our only child, now an adult) will want that after we're gone?"

Both Spouses: "No, he won't."

We've had this same conversation several times over 40 years.  It's not an argument, but neither spouse changes the other's mind.  This time, I think I'd rather have the conversation with you Rainers.  At least I don't know how that'll come out.  I suggested to her that we leave the final decision up to the enlightened consensus of AR, but she just stared at me neither agreeing nor disagreeing.

What do you think; Cheap and Trendy, or Expensive and Permanent?

 

Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lloyd- I have pieces that I've had for years but nothing that is 30 or 40 years old.  The last time my husband and I moved we got rid of a lot of our furniture we'd had for years (we were going from Florida to VA... different lifestyle).  I'd rather have pieces that won't cost me so much that if I get tired of it, I won't feel guilty about donating it or giving it away.

Jun 21, 2011 08:34 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Lloyd - I vote for quality. We have an awesome sofa that we've recovered 3 times in 25 years, an armoire that I bought 40 years ago (my 1st piece not from Goodwill), and a bunch of other stuff that all cost a small fortune but was worth it. A crap piece we bought two years ago that looked very nice is already coming apart. And the kids are fighting over who get the good stuff.

Jun 21, 2011 08:43 AM
Tatyana Permanova
Highlight Realty - Fort Lauderdale, FL
561-756-6962 - Miami, Fort Lauderdale | Boca Raton RE

Lloyd - I vote for quality too!!!

15 years ago we bought the Living room set (Holland).

It survived 4 movings, 2 kids and 4 pets!!! Nothing happened!!!

It looks like new!!! And style is ageless!

My daugthers (23 and 24) would be happy to have it!!!

Jun 21, 2011 09:22 AM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

Kathy, thanks for your opinion which is the same as my wife's. I don't plan to move, but our son will not want any furniture we have.

Dick, Hi.  I'm in your camp.  I don't like Medium Density Fiber board furniture that I need to assemble.  It looks good for a few years, but falls apart. 

Incidentally, Dick, I forwarded your post about the Hawk that knocked itself silly by crashing into your sliding glass door trying to get your cat sleeping on the inside of your house.  Remember?  I thought it was an interesting story that she'd enjoy since she's a serious Birder.  My Birder friend is in the Audubon Society and she counts birds and leads teenager birders on bird outings.  She's totally into Birding and she says your bird was a Falcon, not a Hawk.  Either a Peregrine Falcon or some other variety she mentioned but I had never heard of.  Just thought I'd mention it.

 

Jun 21, 2011 09:33 AM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

Tatyana, Thanks. That's my thinking also.  It makes sense to me, but not to my wife who likes trendy styles more than permanence.  We'll see.

Jun 21, 2011 10:00 AM
Peggy Hughes/pha logistix, inc.
pha logistix inc - San Francisco, CA
SF NYC LA

I'm completely in the middle.  I like good quality, timeless pieces mixed in with some trendy pieces to keep the look updated and fresh.  BTW, my children have already gotten whatever piece of furniture they wanted as I was ready to live a more simple life.  I still have my art deco dresser though... that'll go to my granddaughter when I'm gone as she loves it!

Jun 21, 2011 01:47 PM
Karen Hawkins, MBA - Langley & Surrey, BC
Royal Pro Real Estate Network - Langley, BC

Hi Lloyd - I'm with Peggy (#6).  We have some timeless pieces and a nice mix of "trendy" (although it's only my word that they are, in fact, trendy!).  I tend to go for more expensive, permanent pieces for the large stuff, tho (bed, livingroom sofa....).  Luckily, the hubby pretty much runs with my decisions on decor...so not too many "discussions"!  :-)

Jun 21, 2011 02:07 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Hi Lloyd, One of the more fun things to do when we moved, was to throw out the old and get brand new. Didn't care if they were quality pieces or not, we just had to both agree on the look. BTW, just like Travis, no matter how old the "kids" are, they mostly have their own taste and really don't want your "stuff" ~

Jun 21, 2011 11:52 PM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

Peggy, thanks.  I guess that's an "eclectic" look and I like that also, I think.

Hi Karen,  Yes, that's nice when one spouse gives the other a free rein to decorate however they want.  My wife can get...shall I say...creative?  She painted our hall shades of darkening orange/rust color when I wasn't watching.  From light rust at one end of the hall to dark rust at the other end.

Larry and Sheila,  That does sound like fun, especially cleaning out all the old stuff.

Jun 22, 2011 01:29 PM
Karen Hawkins, MBA - Langley & Surrey, BC
Royal Pro Real Estate Network - Langley, BC

Hi Lloyd - you know, I think I'd really like your wife...well, I like orange/rust paint, anyways! :-) and they say that you don't really experience autumn in California... you have it in your hallway, lucky guy!

Jun 24, 2011 03:23 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Lloyd, definitely go for quality. Trendy and cheap often time wears out before you may be done with it.

Jul 07, 2011 06:46 PM