I'm a REALTOR®, not a miracle worker!

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Real Estate Agent with BlueCoast Realty Corporation

I'm a REALTOR®, not a miracle worker!

Ladies, how many times have you walked into your hairdresser's shop, showed them a picture and said, "I want to look like that", only to be told, "I'm a Hairdresser, not a miracle worker"?  I'd venture to guess we've all had that happen at least once.

Picture of fancy house

Unrealistic BuyerI want 4 bedrooms, 4.5 baths, completely updated with granite counters and stainless steel appliances on at least 2 acres.  And I'll spend up to $100K, but I'd really like to stay under $90K.

Picture of dilapidated houseUnrealistic SellerThe house down the street sold for $250K last month and ours is the exact same floorplan, except for the sunroom and extra bathroom they added.  No, we haven't updated the shag carpeting, avocado appliances, paneling and we only have the 1 bathroom, but we'd like to list at $20K over what they got for theirs.

I'm a REALTOR®, not a miracle worker!

It's a situation every REALTOR® has dealt with, and it's never fun.  I hate telling Buyers that the home they want, isn't the one they can afford.  I hate telling Sellers that unless they do all the work their neighbor did, they won't see the sales price they were hoping for.  But I'm not in the business of selling falsehoods, I'm in the business of selling homes.  And sometimes that means saying "No". Image of lady getting makeover

If a Buyer or Seller can't, or won't, be realistic, I can't help them.  Doesn't mean I won't attempt to find the best deal for them.  I will do everything in my power to help them maximize their buying power or their sales price.  But they've got to be realistic too. 

So, here's the deal:  You get "real"; I'll get to work helping you buy or sell a home in Wilmington NC!  Let's put this team together and get the job done!

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When you're ready to buy or sell a home in Wilmington, Wrightsville Beach, Carolina Beach or Kure Beach NC, give me a call.  Lets work together to achieve your goals!

Tish Lloyd, REALTOR®

Broker

NC Real Estate Lic. 269076

Realty World Cape Fear

1119-A Military Cutoff Road

Wilmington NC 28405

910.547.1446


 
  

 
 
 
 
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Comments (46)

Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

Call me when you get real..so we can deal!

Another great post Tish!

Actually my ex-wife did ask the hairdresser to make her look like a picture of Farrah Fawcett

The hairdresser wanted to charge me $3000! . .I said hell no!. . I just turn off the lights! 

mean woman!

Jun 14, 2011 10:38 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Tish....great post....what would real estate agents do without unrealistic buyers and sellers.....life would have no challenges!!

Jun 14, 2011 11:16 PM
Kim Gero
Verani Realty - Center Ossipee, NH
Associate Broker, REALTOR®

Tish, this job would be too easy if everybody was realistic! I've had more than my fair share of unrealistic buyers and seller lately. 

Jun 14, 2011 11:53 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Debbie ~  Oh, dear -- guess since I couldn't find it for them here, they decided to look up your way . . .

Chuck ~  Thank goodness -- it's time to put everything on it's realistic course.

Evelyn ~  Thanks, we know that Buying and Selling takes being on the same page with our Clients.

Praful ~  We try our best every day and unless we can get everyone to look at the real numbers, we're just not going to get the job done.  Now, about those public comments . . .

Tim ~  You are so right!

David ~  Can you hear me now?

Adam ~  Well?  Haven't you heard this more times than you want to count?  It's like they know a "secret" about "that" house . . . LOL!

Fernando ~  Okay, you got me laughing this morning!!!

Barbara ~  Keeps us on our toes, that's for certain.

Kim ~  It's like there's someone out there teaching a class . . .

 

 

Jun 15, 2011 12:33 AM
Jim Shaw
Premiere Plus Realty Co. - Naples, FL
Real Estate Sales Associate, Naples Luxury Real Estate

Hi Tish,

Good post.

I was on a listing prestation and after reviewing all the Closed Sales I asked the prospective seller what price he thought his property would sell at.

He told me $20,000 more than the others.

I asked why he though it would sell for $20,000 more.

He answered, "Because I'm including my computer!"

I ran like hell.

 

Jun 15, 2011 01:02 AM
Virginia Dean
Keller Williams Tulare County - Visalia, CA
Real Estate Done Your Way

Great post and I am sure most all Realtors have had a version of these buyers and sellers.

Unless listers are taking over priced listings,the numbers should be running the market, and some buyers will lose out on several houses if they are unrealistic.

 

Thanks for your sharing.

Jun 15, 2011 01:50 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

I guess this is the equivalent of my "I'm not a needle in the haystack finder" post.  I totally feel you on this on Tish.  Sometimes reality never sinks in.

Jun 15, 2011 02:02 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

hahaha....I get so many buyers like the ones you describe here that are SO unhappy when I tell them it just isn't going to happen! This is Planet Earth and then need to come on down to reality!

Jun 15, 2011 02:08 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

This business will make a man or a mouse out of you....sometimes the squeaking is deafening and other times it is not....I hate cheese....BTW

Jun 15, 2011 03:03 AM
Bryan Robertson
Los Altos, CA

I have to have this conversation all the time.  There are many buyers in particular in this area who still think that they can come in 10-20% off the asking price and I have to tell them, it's not going to happen.  They may not like it but I can't waste time if they're not realistic.

Jun 15, 2011 04:34 AM
Rich Gaasenbeek
IXACT Contact Real Estate CRM - Toronto, ON
Real Estate CRM & Marketing Made Easy!

Hey Tish, realtors have the tough but very important job of making buyers and sellers understand what is realistic and what's not. When you're talking with a buyer or seller, explain to them the market and how it works. Provide examples. Share some stories. These things help to make people realize what is realistic and what they can expect.

Jun 15, 2011 04:44 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

We can't say this enough and #15's comment is spot on, as is your post.  I think people watch too much TV, and their expectations are HGTV driven. 

Jun 15, 2011 06:05 AM
Ruthmarie Hicks
Keller Williams NY Realty - 120 Bloomingdale Road #101, White Plains NY 10605 - White Plains, NY

Buyers have always wanted more house then they could afford - but that issue is on steroids now because of the hype by the media.  Sellers area  bit more beaten up  and tend to be more realisitc.

Jun 15, 2011 06:18 AM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Access - Schertz, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

All I can say is Amen to that! 

Jun 15, 2011 08:51 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Jim ~  It's important to know when to fold 'em!

Virginia ~  So  . . . they've been visiting your area, too?

Charita ~  Oops, must have missed that one -- will boogie over!

Barbara-Jo ~  Sounds as though we could all get together and start our own Reality Show!

Richie ~  Sounds as though someone moved your cheese (spoken in my deep, manly voice!

Bryan ~  I'm totally with you on that!!!

Rich ~  For those who will take our advice, that works.  However, there are many who simply insist on doing it their way . . .  thanks for stopping by!

Carla ~  Couldn't agree more -- greatly appreciate your input; thanks.

Ruthmarie ~  Hate to see anyone beaten up, but certainly could stand a good dose of reality!

Brenda ~  Thanks and back at ya'!

Jun 15, 2011 11:49 AM
Eric Michael
Remerica Integrity, Realtors®, Northville, MI - Livonia, MI
Metro Detroit Real Estate Professional 734.564.1519

Tish, it's amazing how unrealistic buyers and sellers are these days. I wish I knew how to put them back into real life mode.

Jun 15, 2011 11:55 AM
Kathy Sheehan
Bay Equity, LLC 770-634-4021 - Atlanta, GA
Senior Loan Officer

If only we could be paid for spending our time working with these types of clients.

Thanks for sharing the stories.

Jun 15, 2011 12:12 PM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Eric ~  I hear ya' -- we just have to keep educating!

Kathy ~  That would mean changing our business model and working under the ACRE concept -- something we should all probably be re-thinking.

Jun 15, 2011 12:58 PM
Tom Arstingstall, General Contractor, Dry Rot, Water Damage Sacramento, El Dorado County - (916) 765-5366
Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com Mobile - 916-765-5366 - Placerville, CA
General Contractor, Dry Rot and Water Damage

"I'm not a miracle worker!" Too funny Tish.

I guess we tend to view things through a different set of glasses when it's our own home.

Great post.

Jun 15, 2011 06:55 PM
Debbie Atwood
Century 21 Real Estate Center Everett, WA - Everett, WA
Real Estate Broker

Tish - Great post and yes I have heard these same comments many times!

Jun 16, 2011 01:48 PM