You Will Not Lose Money When You Sell Your House

By
Industry Observer

There are a lot of fence sitting homeowners who want to move to another home.  They may want to upsize, downsize across town or across country-size, but they are worried that they will lose money in the transaction.  The fear of financial loss is keeping them from making a decision that they feel would be of significant personal benefit to them and their families.  I understand the anxiety and hesitation, but don't feel that hesitation and indecision is of any benefit. 

My investments include a position in a business development company, and the stock is down over 20% since I bought it.  I'm sitting on it partly because the dividend is double digit, and partly because I think it has a chance of going up in value.  The stock actually has a fair chance to post significant gains in the next few months.  The reality is that I have already lost over 20% on that investment, and whether I realize the loss by selling is only relevant for tax reasons.  If there's something I decide is better, it's gone in a heartbeat.

If your home has lost 20% or 30% or more in value, you can continue to pretend it hasn't really happened and stay there forever. If you want to live there until you die, there's nothing wrong with staying.  However, if you have an opportunity and desire to improve your life and your family's comfort, there is no reason to wait.  There's nothing that waiting will do but make you older.

Fear of losing money is holding many potential sellers out of the housing market.  It has put lives and lifestyles on hold, and it is not good for anyone.  The fact is that you already lost the money, and pretending that you haven't is not going to change reality.   Let's all decide to move forward with our lives.

Posted by

 Mike Carlier  Lakeville, MN

 

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Comments (5)

Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

EJ...and the fact is that they will realize a similar gain when they buy that new house at the same or greater discounted basis.

Jun 21, 2011 03:47 AM
Ginger Foust
Certified Staging Professional - Oakhurst, CA
Home Stager Oakhurst CA, Dream Interior Redesign & Staging

I like this Mike.  I remember floundering at selling a stock that I kept HOPING would "come back" but as you say, I'd already lost the money and once that we sold the "issue" was gone (with remorse, I must add).  MOVE forward folks!

Jun 21, 2011 05:11 AM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Larry, there's plenty of opportunity for a gain if you're a move up buyer.  The problem a lot of folks have is that they get emotional about the 2005 gain that they know is somewhere -- they just can't remember where they put it.  They don't want to leave because it might return.  So, they live in their not-so-great home and tie yellow ribbons around everything in sight.  All they need is a sign that says, welcome back lost equity gain

Ginger, upon further thought, holding dead stock is not as bad as holding and living in a house/place you don't like.  Both are losers, but one cheats you and your family out of the comfort and enjoyment that could be a reality.

Jun 21, 2011 07:28 AM
Jerry Murphy, CRS, SRES
Long Realty West Valley - Anthem, AZ
Anthem, Phoenix, and Scottsdale AZ Real Estate

It's funny you mention securities as an example Mike.  In the stock market many people hold on to that losing stock, following it to the bottom, forever in the hopes that maybe someday the stock will return to it's original purchase price and beyond.  But more often than not they end up selling it for MORE of a loss than they could have had they had the guts to cut their losses early on.  If explained to homeowners correctly, that at historical rates of appreciation it would probably take 12-15 years to recover their losses, maybe then they would get off the fence and make the proper decision.  Great post Mike and best of luck to you.

Jun 22, 2011 02:07 PM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Jerry, Thank you for reading and commenting.  My advice to all is sell the Enron stock and sell the house that no longer fits.

 

Jun 23, 2011 02:50 AM

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