Are you smiling???

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Mortgage and Lending with US Mortgages - David Shamansky NMLS#392126

Are you smiling???

It's a simple question maybe a much more difficult answer.

Are you smiling? Who cares right? Does it matter? problems are circling around you like sharks for the kill, life is tough and your kids are driving you crazy with issues drama, your boss could be the dumbest person on the planet and is killing you, or you have the worst clients ever... just name it but whatever the answer is YOU BETTER BE SMILING!

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Let me ask you one easy question... which of these two photos makes you smile and attracts you?

I know the answer its the first picture of the two smiling. So why is this so important?

That's easy, no one else but YOU knows whats going on in your life (to the extent you do anyway) but everyone sees you and your look image appearance and attitude reflects. Successful people always represent themselves as positive and happy people and generally that is accurate. However, that is not the case everyday but the difference is they never show you anything other than a smile, confidence and make you feel warm and happy. That attitude is what garners sales and endears confidence and trust from those they meet and do business with. It also attracts others to them to form partnerships and clients.

People want to be and feel special and EVERYONE, I mean EVERYONE has problems but adding your list of grips, worrys and concerns to their already stacked pile will not gain you anything.

Stay positive, be a force to be reckoned with and help others. That is the way to success and it all starts with a SMILE...

If you aren't smiling start NOW!!!

It will change you mood, attitude and those of others around you!

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araward

Colorado 1st Time buyers, if you are ready to stop renting, get the many benefits from home ownership, or maybe your a current homeowner looking to move up or maybe looking into what it takes to become an investor in this incredible market, that WILL create millionaires, and you are looking for a strategy, answers and direction, please feel free to call or email me. My 22yrs in mortgage lending and 30+ years in finance gives me an in depth knowledge, critical to helping others and making their dreams go from dream to reality!

David Shamansky
"Positive reinforcer, promoter, success coach, entrepreneur, team builder, wealth builder, blessed individual, business leader and professional lender"

US Mortgages
6855 S Havana St Ste 520
Centennial CO 80112
720-524-8020
NMLS#392126
Equal Housing Lender

*photos used may come from my personal pictures or www.freedigitalphotos.net

 

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Rainmaker
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Richie Alan Naggar
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I am in agreement and want to sign up to the David Shamansky smiling school course...fast track course if you haave one please....

Jun 30, 2011 08:13 AM #1
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Larry Bettag
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Dave....smiling always....can't worry about the mission so much that you quit smiling through the day!  Good words!

Jun 30, 2011 08:17 AM #2
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Donnie McKinney
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Donnie McKinney CCIM, Purchase Realty Group

Here's an ancillary habit to add to your great smiling plan. Whenever anyone ask how you are, simply reply, "Fantastic!"

Or, "Wonderful!," or "Great!," or "Absolutely terrific!"

Most people never learn that we are in control of our own emotions. It's also a proven fact that simply stating that you are a certain way will cause you to become that way. Besides, everybody likes being around someone who is "Fantastic" ;)

Jun 30, 2011 08:22 AM #3
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It's hard to keep smiling with the million annoyances that each day brings. It gets easier if you blow them off and focus on what you're thankful for.

Jun 30, 2011 08:25 AM #4
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Brandon M. Rearick
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Dave,

Always smiling and not letting the things get to out of control.  True, there is frustration and worry, but I believe we all have a good life and there are so many others out there that have a REAL difficult life.  I am thankful eveyday that I have a great career, and two amazing sons.  How can I not smile!  Thanks for the post!

Jun 30, 2011 09:35 AM #5
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David Shamansky
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Thanks to all who commented and remember be positive our attitudes are critical. They lift us up, carry us through when times are tough and help define our path and success. One of the best ways to stay positive, take the good out of anything you can and be thankful for the blessings keep the attitude of half full not half empty and always... Smile :)

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