How To Ask For Recipricol Link Exchanges

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Services for Real Estate Pros with PaperclipCMS
If you are real estate webmaster already, you already know how many link exchange requests you get in your inbox. They have become apart of the quasi spam landscape and more often then not they get deleted long before they see the light of day. If you are not a real estate webmaster, or have just recently become one, the real estate link exchange email is a coming of age rite of passage. Once you start getting these emails you know you have something to offer the internet.

Why are these emails so annoying? Why do they end up in the trash without a second glance? Aren’t link exchanges important, how else am I going to reach out if not by email?

All good and valid questions. The first is simple, the majority of these link exchange emails are from automated emailers. They are not personal, are often rife with mistakes and very rarely have anything worthwhile to offer.

A classic example goes a little something like this:

Hello Webmaster,
I have looked at your website, http://www.myrealestatesite.com/html?em&e=95e5db7dede and really liked what I saw. I think my site, http://www.somekindofmaleenhancement.com would benefit with yours. As you know, link exchanges are a great way to boost your search engine results…

And so on…
There is nothing personal or sincere about this and there is absolutely no relevancy between the two sites. As you become more familiar with this particular type of email, you will develop a sixth sense about them, you wont even have to read the whole subject line before you can pick one out. Hence the reason that they end up in the trash so fast. There are two lessons here: 1. Automated link software does not work well, and more often then not creates food for email trash cans. 2. Manual linking, while time consuming, boring, labor intensive and at times mind numbing, generates powerful results that soundly trounce any automated program.

So the burning question is how to request a link exchange in such a manner that does not get your email deleted instantly. If nothing else, you want the recipient to open the email and take a look. So, the first step becomes putting something real into the subject line. Now, to do this effectively, think about the emails you like to get. They need to be genuine, friendly and to the point.

The next very important element of the email is the body. Your body text needs to be clean, to the point and it must convey a fair amount of information. Some pointers:
*Stick with “hello” for the salutation. It works well and it saves you trying to find out who the webmaster is and any mistakes that may go along with that.

*Be sincere and be honest. State your claim and your linking information and wrap it up. Don’t waste anybodies time with excess verbiage.

An example may look like this:

Hello,

We have recently come across your site by searching through link directories relating to real estate. I took the time to visit your website to determine if you had a resource page for links. I too have a real estate related product and I would like to exchange links you. I could put your link on a PR 3 page or if your interested in a more substantial link exchange (you can get on 25 of my pages),
just let me know.

My linking information is…

Title: Real Estate Company
Desc: Selling Real Estate Is What We Do
URL: http://www.myrealestatesite.com

I look forward to the prospect of establishing a business partnership
with you!

Thank you,
Rob

Again, the idea is not to write a glamorous literary marvel, but instead to impart critical information, quickly. How well does this work? Well, the best I have seen is about 20% or about 1 out of 5. Not bad considering the typical webmasters predisposition to trash anything link related. The thing is, there is no sure fire way of doing this, you need to be able to test and augment your request email until you start to see results.Setting up a test bed is the most effective way to do this.

Step 1. Collect a batch of 100 email addresses. To do this, do a search for a keyword that is similar but not directly competing with you. For example, if you deal with New York Cottages, try searching for Vermont Cottages or Quebec Cottages. Then go through each site, making note of the url, the quality of the site and of course the email address or contact page.

Step 2. Once you have 100 or so email addresses, compose your first draft, complete with subject line and body text.

Step 3. Send out 10 emails. It is key here to actually send out ten emails. Do not list multiple addresses in the address bar, do not use the BCC field. These elements will be displayed and once seen will hasten your email to the trash. Send out ten emails to ten addresses. And then change it up. Try altering your subject line. Send out the next batch. Keep a record of your trials and keep going until you have sent out all 100 emails.

Step 4. Wait for a 24-48 hours.

Step 5. Check your results. See which batch of emails prompted the most responses. It is safe to say that your results will be slightly skewed as the test bed is small, but at least you will be pointed in the right direction. Further refinement will enable better results.

Step 6. Repeat until you are comfortable with your results. Then go out and harvest as many email addresses as possible and send them out with your newly crafted email.


Comments (11)

Rob Farrelly
PaperclipCMS - Toronto, ON

I thought this might spark some debate...

Thank you for your input.   

Oct 16, 2007 05:17 AM
Darla Vanderlip
Santa Clarita, CA
All incoming recip link requests go right to the trash bin. Any webmaster that knows anything about SEO will agree. recips between agents are a bad idea. Optimize for the visitor not the robots.
Oct 16, 2007 06:45 AM
Rob Farrelly
PaperclipCMS - Toronto, ON

Some really great feedback here. Thank you both for your perspectives.  If anyone else wants to weigh in on this, feel free.  

 

 

Oct 17, 2007 03:53 AM
Peg Gilliland
Charlottesville Solutions - Charlottesville, VA
Broker, GRI, CDPE
I thought that link requests go the way of the trash bin pronto. Just curious why you bring this up as I thought SEOs were fading from view. Not my area of expertise, though!
Oct 17, 2007 03:27 PM
Jack Pearce
RE/MAX Valley Real Estate - Boardman, OH
Broker - ABR, ASP, CSP, ePRO, GRI

I had a discussion with a Google representative (a 26 yr. old genious veep of something or another) last year at the RE/MAX National Convention shortly after he delivered an extremely informative seminar. He said it's not so much that Google will downgrade reciprocal links per se, but they take a arduous look at the way in which they're obtained. They look for and reward a slow steady progression of both incoming and out-going links with a watchful eye on the importance of the sites to which and from which they're coming and going. In other words they are watchful for folks gaming the system. In fact ALL of their algorithms are directed against folks trying to game the system while at the same time rewarding or at least maintaining a laissez faire attitude for sites that play within their rules (undisclosed rules at that).

The mistake that a lot of webmasters make is thinking that they're dealing only with headless computer robots. This rep said that if you have ever come up in the top 10 for a particular search you can be dead sure that your site has been or will be reviewed by a human. True? Who knows, but Google is dead serious about maintaining ranking equality and they don't care who you are. Last year Google reduced BMW's page rank to zero after a "human" discovered that BMW was using robot unreadable javascript and text pages loaded with key words for "used-cars" to gain a top ranking in the index; then redirected users who clicked on the link to a regular BMW site, which contained no info about used cars at all. I'm sure it was hi-fives and promotions all around for the Google investigators involved.

My opinion? There's little to be gained from reciprocal link programs. Use all that time and energy to fight the IRS. At least they publish their rules.

Oct 17, 2007 11:10 PM
Chris Casmirri
Sunny Sands Rentals, Inc. - Bonita Springs, FL
Bonita
Thanks for the info.  Very informative.  It would be nice to know Google Rules.  I think the change them as they go along.
Oct 18, 2007 12:48 AM
Thomas McGiveron
Long Island Real Estate Market: Douglas Elliman - Medford, NY
Thomas McGiveron Lic. R.E. Broker Associate

i still think meta tags work.

keywords

contents

and title matched with verbage on your home page

also a good site map.

the keyword issue is what matters also.  coming up with relevant but UNIQUE keywords is an artform that i believe can pay off.  i'm not good at it, but i know people who are and they do well for themselves...

 

Oct 18, 2007 04:09 AM
Joe Salcedo
Chase International Real Estate - Reno, NV
Reno Real Estate

Rob,

    This will help me boost my confidence in asking for one. Appreciate it 

Oct 18, 2007 04:10 AM
M A
Boston, MA

Content, content, content.  Proper keywords in the appropriate places.  Links from reputable sites. 

"I link to you if you link to me" is no longer worth the effort.

Oct 18, 2007 05:51 AM
Rene Galvan
RGV Realty - McAllen, TX
Rob, why would you recommend asking for link exchanges? A more effective use of time is to be active in the forums. By "exchanging" links you can damage your own website with too many outbound links. By writing quality blogs, you will create one-way links to you from a reputable source like Active Rain. 
Oct 20, 2007 05:14 AM
Jim Johnson
Century 21 Smith & Associates - San Antonio, TX

Take a lot of what you are told in forums with a grain of salt, but stop worrying about your requests for link exchanges not getting responses.

Here's the straight skivvy on links. Links have value, even link exchange (reciprocal) links. The problem with reciprocal links in this business is that most of the sites use directory style free-for-all links. In the SEO world, these are known as link farms. These are the least valuable inbound links. They do not hurt your rank, but only the first inbound link you receive from a link farm has any real value. It will be found by the search engine crawlers, and get your site indexed.

The next level of value are links exchanged with sites that restrict their reciprocal links to sites with the same context. Each one of these will be counted as a vote, but they also have very limited value. The search engines recognize them as reciprocal links.

The next level of value are one-way links from within blogs and articles. The value of these varies however relative to the rating of the site. In example, there are "articles" sites that were created to circumvent the algorithms that assigned little or no value to links coming in from link farms. They are little more than link farms in fact, and I suspect that the search engines rate inbound links from these accordingly.

On the other hand, links from legitimate zines and blogs carry significant weight. Inbound links from the blogs on AR are likely to have that premium attached to them. AR is the first site of its kind to show up in the hits for a Google search for "real estate blogs." Albeit, AR's position is the 19th ranked site, it is contextual and 19th is not a bad position to be in.

If you do not link to your blog on AR, you could even write a glowing review of your own site. The general link to AR on your site should not be relevant. Use contextual links, and be sure to link to other contextually relevant, authoritative sites within the article that help validate or explain the points you are making. Doing so will add to the value of the outbound links from the article.

There are other real estate blog sites similar to AR, and getting an account on them will provide you with the ability to write another glowing review of your site. Search Google for "real estate blogs," and start looking after AR (#19) to see what you find. Bookmark the top ranked blogs on the first page of hits too, and scour them for relevant posts that you can use in your article to help establish its context and validate it for the search engines.

The problem with this is that many of the forum/blog sites require a large number of posts to their forums before you can link to your site, and restrict the use of any link until you have reached their required number of posts.

Now, to address your question. I don't know the answer, but I suspect that they just don't want to be bothered by small-fry panhandlers like us. Like I mentioned, most have free-for-all directories that provide the means for you to input your link, and the process is all but entirely automated. The reviews to keep porno sites and the like from using their directories are also likely done by SEO pros as well.

They likely also know that there is no value in your reciprocal link, and those who respond will tell you to go to their link submission form and do all the work related to establishing a reciprocal link.

I get very little response to requests to partner in a contextual reciprocal link strategy, likely because of the work involved or a lack of understanding of the value in doing so. I'm open to solicitation from anyone who takes their SEO seriously though.

BTW--You also need real content on your site, and the more unique it is (differentiable), the better.

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