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How Much Networking is Too Much?

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Education & Training with Weisman Success Resources, Inc.

I believe you can't do too much networking.  You just never know who you will meet that needs your services.

Tonight, a colleague, friend and client called me about 4:55pm and asked me if I was going to our local Chamber's Holiday Business After Hours event fro 5-7pm.  Fortunately, the event was about 5 minutes from my office, so I closed down for the day and headed over to meet him.

About halfway through the event a woman came up to me who I hadn't seen in about 5 years since I left my old position before I started my own consulting, training and coaching practice.  She is now CEO of a local insurance agency with 4 locations and 35 employees.  We reconnected for a few minutes, I told her what I was doing now and she told me that I should give her a call and send her my stuff. 

I'm going to call her and set up an appointment for next week and see where it goes.  This is the second time in 7 days that two people, whom I haven't spoken to in a long time, have invited me to meet with them to see how I can help.

This tells me I'm not doing enough marketing to my database.  I do cull my database and call contacts I haven't spoken to in awhile and it always generates opportunities.  Obviously, with these two contacts I made value judgements that they weren't prospects. Boy, was I wrong.

The only thing that brought me back in contact with each of them was a networking event, one directly and one indirectly. 

Two lessons, 1) you can't do too much networking, and 2) you can never do enough re-connecting with the people who you know and who know you and see how you can help.

Who haven't you spoken to in a while that the holiday season would make a perfect excuse to reconnect and see where it goes?  I'd challenge you to make a list of at least 12 of these contacts and commit to getting in touch within the next two weeks prior to the Christmas/New Year's Holiday week and see what happens.

Who's going to take me up on the challenge and report back to me on their results?

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Jeff Turner
RealSatisfied - Santa Clarita, CA
Skip, the holiday season is a great excuse to call up old friends to rekindle relationships. The primary motivation, however, has to be to truly rekindle the relationship. People can sense when you're just doing to fish for business. When it's real, the opportunity to assist will arise at the right moment. Good post.
Dec 06, 2006 05:21 PM
Skip Weisman
Weisman Success Resources, Inc. - Poughkeepsie, NY

Jeff,
Thanks for the comment.  You make a very important point which relates back to some of my other posts regarding the networking philosophy of Giver's Gain.  Keep up the good work!

Dec 07, 2006 12:08 AM
Tom Burris
NMLS# 335055 - Baton Rouge, LA
Texas/Louisiana Mortgage Pro - 13 YRS Experience
database, database, database
Dec 07, 2006 01:21 AM
John Klassen
M & T Bank - Kingston, NY

You speak the truth. Networking is building relationships. Successful peolle do this all day long. NIce people will finish first.

People do business with people they like and trust. If you network in a way that builds like and trust you will be successful. If you are a card collector, people will see through it and you won't be as successful.

Excellent post.

Dec 07, 2006 01:40 AM
Harper Team
J Rockcliff Realtors - San Ramon, CA

Can you breathe too much air?

Basic drives = survival, sex, social. 

The best networkers are genuinely interested in people first.

Good post 

Dec 07, 2006 11:14 AM
Thomas J. Quick
Sunflower Financial LLC. - Olathe, KS
sending out cards to all your old friends even if all you have is their e-mail address that is all it takes. I have had 3 people that i haven't spoke to in awhile call me up and tell my they need my help buying a house. That is always good. I went out the other weekend and seemed to meet 5 more people that have wanted a card or some sort of contact info. even if they don't keep the card oh well. I speak to everyone, let everyone what i do ...the lady that cuts my hair is passing out my cards all she does is cut hair and talk all day. Great person to have on your side...
Dec 07, 2006 12:52 PM