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Trust is the foundation of any relationship, especially in real estate

By
Real Estate Agent with Compass

The relationship you will form with your agent is a close one.  Agents also often get pretty close to their clients too.  Choosing where to live or selling ones' home is a very personal, emotional process.   For most people, it's the biggest purchase they will ever make and if it's a listing, chances are that the sellers are going through a major life change.   You've been planning a move, job change, relocation, perhaps a death in the family or new birth - any number of major life events usually cause a move.  Times are stressful.  It is absolutely essential that you trust the agent you have chosen to help you buy or sell your home during these events.   You will need to listen to their advice, even if you may not agree with them, if they tell you the paint color on your walls will keep your house from selling, you need to believe them.  If they tell you you need to list at a certain time of year to get the best price, they probably are doing so to help you get the best price.  Again, you need to trust them.

 If they tell you your home is not worth as much as you think, it is critically important that you trust their advice and not second guess their motives.

If you find yourself unable to take your agent's advice, or constantly questioning what they tell you, you should end the relationship or perhaps  the agent will do it first.

Sometimes it's not a good fit, circumstances are just not conducive to a productive working relationship and neither party is to blame.  

And it goes both ways, if an agent doesn't feel their client trusts them and thinks the agent doesn't have their best interests at heart, then the agent needs to move on and cut the client loose.  Communication can be tricky and sometimes good relationships can go bad.  It happens, but when it does, it is best to move on.

Trust is essential in any real estate agent/client relationship.   Agents put a lot of faith in their clients, and trust that they are going to keep their word, follow their advice and sell their home according to plan and signed listing agreement.  If we did not trust our clients, we could not put thousands of dollars up front into marketing and countless hours without making a penny.   That trust needs to be reciprocal in order to succeed in buying or selling your home.

Adrian Willanger
206 909-7536 AdrianWillanger-broker.com - Seattle, WA
Profit from my two decades of experience

Coral-this is huge, without trust the task of exchanging real estate is tough at best, with it the deed becomes a lot more manageable. Nice photo!

 

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Sep 14, 2011 05:00 AM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Thanks Adrian. It is essential, you are right, tough at best, but I think more like impossible!  Marriages fail over trust issues all the time, so do real estate relationships.

Sep 14, 2011 05:05 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Trust is impossible to do without in a real estate client relationship, or a transaction between the cooperating agents.

Sep 14, 2011 07:21 AM
Coral Gundlach
Compass - Arlington, VA
Real Lives. Not Just Real Estate.

Good point Chris Ann.  There's a lot of trust that needs to go around or it is really hard to make forward progress.  Paranoia has no place in real estate.

Sep 14, 2011 07:24 AM
Moneycorp USA
The Trusted Industry Leader in Foreign Exchange - Orlando, FL

I so agree with you. Trust is the foundation to move forward and succeed in real estate business. 

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Sep 14, 2011 02:24 PM