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Sell yourself, not against your competition

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Title Insurance with First American Title

Last week I had a day in which three client appointments in a row told me nightmare stories about my competition.  When I bumped into a client at the end of the day, the stories were still ringing in my ear.  The client then made a comment about a particular competitor and then it happened, it just came out, in reference to the competitor I said, "Lipstick on a Pig". 

 

Immediately upon saying it I knew I had crossed the line.  My job is to listen, not provoke the conversation.  I should know better.  This is no way to win customers.  I tried to soften the blow I had just given, I tried to take it back, but I knew it was too late.  The damage had been done, and probably more to my detriment than to the competitors.

 

As I thought about my comment over the weekend I considered my formal sales training and what I've been trained to do in such situations.  Regardless of the temptation to join in, a professional sales person must hold back.

 

We all have to be careful of comparison selling as anything we say negative about a competitor will have little credibility with the client.  Our focus should be on our strengths, not their weaknesses.  We should talk about our products and services, not their lack of products or poor services.

 

Slamming a competitor is simply bad business, regardless of the service they offer or offense they may have caused us.  The best salespeople speak of their competition as good people and say little about the things they don't do well.  They let their actions speak for themselves.  When you're tempted as I was, DON'T SPEAK.  My mom's counsel is ringing in my ears, "If you can't say something nice don't say anything at all".  Negative comments are likely to do more harm than good.

 

Selling is about giving people a positive reason to do business with you.  Build a case for youself and let the competition make you look good by comparison.

 

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 Max VanNatter

                                                                                                                                                      

Pat Champion
John Roberts Realty - Eustis, FL
Call the "CHAMPION" for all your real estate needs

This is so true we must always try to remember this I know you will next time you have learned from your mistake and that is all you can do at this point.

Oct 03, 2011 03:47 AM
Linda Edelwich
William Raveis Real Estate - Glastonbury, CT
Serving Glastonbury & Beyond | 218 New London Trnk

I totally agree - you cant say anything bad and you just have to be silent and listen.  Its a good lesson to repeat as a reminder to all who may read this post

Oct 03, 2011 03:50 AM
Brenda Noffert
Realty world Alliance - Wichita, KS

Awesome post!   Our world of real estate is small, no matter how big the city you live in.  Negative comments will always come back and bite you. 

Thank youfor the reminder.

Oct 03, 2011 03:54 AM
Max VanNatter
First American Title - Kingwood, TX

As this economy continues to tigthen on us the temptation to say whatever we can to win business only increases.  The high road always wins the day.  I'm glad I could be the one to falter for yall!  Thanks for your comments

Oct 03, 2011 04:00 AM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

Good morning Max,

 I do listen to such client stories, but try my best not to add to them. Instead I make some comment about helping their experience from this point forward be positive.

Oct 03, 2011 04:54 AM