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Feel like you're heading into the wind? It's time to trim the sails.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner CalBRE# 01433049

Heading into the wind

 

I used to race sailboats. My favorite race by far is the Oakland -> Catalina Island race, about 640 kilometers. Getting there though, isn't exactly a straight shot, which can add even more distance to your race. At one point, we had sailed out to the shipping lanes 50 miles offshore in hopes of catching some much needed wind.

We were in a contingent of 21 boats and we came in 4th place, just behind "Fuzzy Duck". It took 2 days and 23 hours, about half of that time spent bobbing up and down in the water. It was against the rules to turn on your motor unless you needed to charge batteries for lights and/or navigation equipment. My jobs were helmsman and navigator. To this day, that race in 1988 is one of the high points of my life.

It is fascinating learning how sails work with the wind. The direction of the wind vs. the direction you want to go dictates how to "trim" your sails. The velocity of the wind will tell you how big of a sail to hoist. In foul weather, you sometimes don't need any sails at all, the mast is enough sail as it is, thank you very much!!

Today I was feeling a bit stressed because I felt like I was heading into the wind. I felt like something was pushing me back, and that I should lean forward to counter the push. That's when I visualized what I would need to do if I were to steer a sailboat into the wind. I would need to adjust. I would need to trim the sails and hold on tight.

The analogy of this post? Use your life experiences to get you through the difficult days. They are there inside you, you just need to trust them and let them guide you once in awhile. I'm off to trim my sails.

 

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Cynthia Larsen (707-332-2560) is an independent real estate referral broker in Sonoma County, California as well as a Certified Probate Real Estate Specialist.

CA Broker License #01433049

Comments(9)

Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Great analogy . . . sometimes the wind turns and then pushes use so much further.  And I'm so impressed you used to race sailboats.  What a rush!!

Oct 07, 2011 12:33 PM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

Ah yes, one time we were almost to the Golden Gate Bridge and the wind died. The tide was going out and so did we. Dinner at 11:00 at night was Dinty Moore stew and a bottle of straw basket Chianti. We finally made it in the Gate around 4:00AM. Again, this was a race where turning on the motor was against the rules. Racing was fun and yes, a rush!!

Oct 07, 2011 12:50 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

This is a great post and so very true.  We have all the tools we need to survive inside us.

Oct 07, 2011 01:00 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Love Love Love it!  You are so  so sos so featured in BananaTude!

Dig Deep - Sail ON - Trust yourself - It's all in there now


 

 

Oct 07, 2011 02:08 PM
John M. Scott
BRE # 01442690, Scott Keys Properties - San Francisco, CA
Broker / Owner San Francisco Bay Area

Good thing you how to trim your sails Cynthia. Wish I knew exactly how! This week started out so crazy - I honestly can't remember all that happened Monday, it's almost a blank. Way too much stress. Luckily by today, all has calmed. I survived.

Oct 07, 2011 02:33 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Girl that is great advice.  I need to do a bit of it myself right now.

Oct 07, 2011 02:35 PM
Donna Malone
Waterfront, Luxury, Family, Affordable, Cottage, Deals - Bridgewater, NS
Homes and Property for Sale Nova Scotia

Cynthia, I love a good sail, too! The picture of the kids leaning into the wind is too cute.

Oct 07, 2011 02:38 PM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

Chris Ann - I believe that too.

Anna Banana - especially the "trust yourself" part. We've done this before, we are repeating our own history. Dig deep and march on.

John - It has been a crazy weird week that flew by but I felt I was leaning forward the whole time. You live in SF, you should learn how to sail. The SF bay is spectacular and the Pacific even more so!

Tammy - trim on!

Donna - wow, I see that from where you are you have a great opportunity to do so. The kids are my niece and nephews along with my baby brother. They were on a Washington State Ferry in the Seattle area last month and this is one of my favs.

Oct 07, 2011 04:10 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

Monday is my Happiness Day.
I visit as many blog posts as I can throughout the day
and spread happiness, which means I probably didn’t read this post.
I just stopped by to spread some happiness.
Feel free to delete this comment if it doesn’t make you happy.

Happy Day!

Oct 10, 2011 04:30 AM