Pay It Forward......DVD of a Loved One

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty Boise Idaho SP20114

A few weeks ago a beloved Realtor in our area passed away....

I wrote a blog on my special relationship with Bob...

Bob was a huge mentor to me in the days that we sold Real Estate....

We went on many 2 man jobs!  

Even when he was in the assisted living center in Nampa Idaho

I would pick him up and we would go to visit my listings to put out flyers or signs ....you name it.

Both of my grand fathers have been gone for a long time....

In some ways Bob was a surragate Grandfather to me...

He recited Cowboy poetry for many years.  

I talked him into letting us record him....took me nearly 3 years to talk him into it!  

We recorded and videoed it and then ran into technical difficulties in editing the video....

Finally we have it done!

I am not sure how to attach the video to this blog....haven't learned that yet!  LOL  

But here is the link  (password is bob)

Today was a small memorial to honor Bob....

I was able to present to the family DVD's of this recording ....they had it playing in the background.  

It was a beautiful day....we met at the cemetery....just a few of us...he didn't want anything at all

It was informal..I was able to share with the family some special memories of our times together ....

We had a lot of laughs....and some tears..

I met his middle son Rich whom I hadn't met yet as well as his ex-wife....whose maiden name is the same as my marriend name. 

What a blessing to share a different side of Bob with the family.......I am so happy that we got the recording of Bob reciting cowboy poetry when we did.   I know that the family will get a lot of mileage out of the DVD's in the future when they are missing their Dad/Grandpa!!! 

I will also be making copies of the Raw Video we have for the family....in this Bob talked about his family history of their early days In Idaho....their trucking and later their Bus Company.....it is all fascinating to me!!

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Deborah Byron Leffler   SFR, PMN "The BZYBEE REALTOR"

Keller Williams Realty Boise

Serving All of Boise, Nampa, Meridian, Eagle, Caldwell, Marsing, Wilder, Homedale and Middleton

Comments (11)

Mary Macy
Top Agents Atlanta Metro - Roswell, GA
Top Agents Atlanta Metro

What a bitter sweet blog, it is amazing to adopt someone as a part of your family and it is so difficult to lose them, thanks for sharing and may God be with you in your sorrow.

Oct 15, 2011 04:13 PM
Digital Digital
Alachua, FL
full service

Hi Deborah,
I'm sorry to hear that you lost a close friend and mentor.
The Dvd recordings is a good tribute.
Keep strong!

Oct 15, 2011 04:37 PM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Mary....he was an amazing man and I am glad that I got to be a part of him.....the DVD will help me with my great memories of him!!

Wandanna....thanks so much!!

Oct 16, 2011 02:55 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Deborah, it is sad when a very special friend passes!      What a great way to save memories of Bob! 

Oct 16, 2011 04:56 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Deb

You were blessed to have such a wonderful friend in Bob and he in you.

Best regards 

From the Q

Oct 16, 2011 05:57 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Deborah,

What a wonderful story and what a wonderful idea to share Bob with us and his family.  What a wonderful contribution you made to him and he made to you. A

Oct 16, 2011 07:11 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Thanks so much Joan...

Q....he was a wonderful mentor!!

A,,,,he sure was a special man.....one that we will miss so much!   We all can be so lucky to have a mentor like him! 

Oct 16, 2011 02:54 PM
Didi Doolittle
Slifer Smith & Frampton Real Estate, Eagle Office - Vail, CO
Vail, CO Realtor 970.232.8225

Deborah, you must be so happy to have made this video of your friend.  I'm sorry for your loss, and wish you peace as you remember his spirit.

Oct 19, 2011 01:35 PM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

THanks so much Didi....I am so pleased that we have it so we can really remember him!!! 

Oct 19, 2011 02:08 PM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Wonderful story. Everybody that has a child should record their personal history to pass on to the next generation.  So few of us actually take the time to do it and we leave all of those unanswered questions.

IMG_6010 Life is good!

The Dahlia Show at Brookside Gardens in Montgomery County, Maryland

Photographs by Roy Kelley.  Canon PowerShot G11 camera.

Roy and Dolores Kelley Photographs 

Oct 20, 2011 07:56 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Roy ....great idea....i wish I had recordings of my grandparents!!!   

Love the floral pictures!

Oct 20, 2011 09:25 AM

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