"No one can see you making decisions, but they will almost always see the results of your decisions. The person who fails to develope the ability to make decisions is doomed...." Bob Proctor
So go forward and practice your decision making today, now. How do you do this? You need to look at what you've been doing, and ask your self what is working and what is not. Second make a decision to eliminate that which is not working and replace it with somthing new.
So go forward and get speeding tickets not parking tickets. Parking tickets are the price you'll pay for not going forward and trying somthing different. Speeding tickets are when you go forward and try somthing nwe and it doesn't work.