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Real Estate Agent with Prudential Verani Realty

OK, so what do I know about volunteering? Well, I do know that volunteering is not a mandatory thing, it is a giving of one self in service to a cause greater than oneself.Extreme Makeover Home Edition Anna Mantica c

We all volunteer in one way or another.

Well, I got the opportunity to volunteer on a project to build a home for a family that was up against it recently. I didn't work on building the house, I helped the actual builder in his office so his staff would be free to do what they do best. Extreme Makeover, Home Edition, came to New Hampshire and a lot of people got to help one family rebuild their home.

I am told there was a record turnout for this project. Volunteers from all over New England came to help this family. At first I thought it was because of the TV show but soon found out otherwise. Once you get elbow to elbow with a group of people with one purpose the show becomes secondary.

crowd at home makeover Anna Mantica c

There was a camaraderie and sense of purpose among the volunteers on-site and off. Volunteering is a way to connect with people you may never have the opportunity to meet otherwise.

Helping someone else has rewards difficult to measure. There is the immediate gratification one feels when actually giving their time then there is the sense of accomplishment upon completion. But the effects don't end there.

Suddenly, in a slow market, this week we have more appointments than we've had in months. So much so that business threatens to invade time we have set aside to volunteer. I believe this is the direct result of giving and receiving, sowing and reaping, karma or whatever you choose to call it.

My better half and I are members of a vocal ensemble "Vox Jubilante" and we have been asked to sing Saturday at a celebration to welcome home soldiers from Iraq. We feel so honored to go to this celebration much less entertain men and women who volunteered to put their lives on the line for our precious freedoms and for a people they didn't even know.

You see how it works.....we volunteer to help others who volunteered and so on.

A special Thank You to Anna Mantica for providing these images of the project.

Judy T

Judy Tuscano, REALTOR, ABR

Team Tuscano

Prudential Verani Realty

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Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Linda - We are so looking forward to tomorrow and this event. Our accompaniest has been asked to sing the National Anthem for the event also. Thanks for your comments.

Neal - Thank you for your comments. I think I am getting hooked on two things at once - AR and volunteering.

Nov 02, 2007 12:03 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Danielle - Thanks for stopping by. Yes the builders people were very appreciative of our help - 23 agents from our company gave time to cover their phones for the week. They knew their customers and clients were in good hands so they could put their minds, hearts and bodies into the work they needed to get done.

Nov 02, 2007 12:21 AM
Al Maxwell
Keller Williams - Marietta, GA
Real Estate Agent
It does seem like there has been a surge in activity recently. I could have several additional closings for the year.
Nov 02, 2007 12:52 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Al - Are you a volunteer? I'm hoping that we will be having a great fall season this year because the spring did not spring. Thanks for stopping by.

Judy T

Nov 02, 2007 02:06 AM
Jay McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Exeter, NH
Real Estate Broker

I heard it was a zoo inside the house as workers were coming and going like crazy. I heard 4 people were working on the staircase bannister and there was 6 people walking and running up and down the stairs constantly all the time they were there. Our friends son worked on the inside and he said it was unbelievable in there.

Glad to hear you took part in it as it must have been very rewarding.

Nov 02, 2007 04:55 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Jay - I can't speak to the interior of the house as I volunteered off site at the builders office. I did however go to the site to view the exterior and there were volunteers working like bees and as many if not more spectators gazing. "Imagine" if all the spectators would volunteer 4 hours of their time what could be accomplished. Reminds me of that song by John Lennon. We can have a better world if we could just help our fellow man and allow others to "Lean on Me" remember that song?

Thanks for your input.

Judy T

Nov 02, 2007 05:31 AM
Daniel Sundberg
Crystal Springs Real Estate - Kentwood, MI
That is a great reminder Judy!  I've been refereeing hockey for years, and it tends to yield some sort of business each year.  It is not truly volunteering, but I know I could get paid better doing something else.
Nov 02, 2007 07:52 AM
K C
Independent Leadership & Financial Fitness Consultant - Pleasant Grove, UT
Love that show...Wouldn't it be great to be one of the cast members on that show.
Nov 02, 2007 08:38 AM
Gregory "NNN" Garver
NNN Brokers USA Commercial Real Estate - San Francisco, CA
(323) 696 1031, Net Lease Broker

Brittney Spears does't volunteer more than 500 a month =]

 

http://www.gregorygarver.com

Nov 02, 2007 09:07 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Dan - Isn't it great to do something you love even if it doesn't pay great? I know we are looking so forward to singing for those vets and we will not be compensated in dollars but if it heals one heart or gives hope to someone who thinks there is nothing left for them. It is worth more to me than anything.

Linda - Thanks for your enthusiasm. I think this medium AR helps me think of things to say that might go unheard otherwise.

Karl - I don't know how great it would be - they have 3 -4 projects going at one time and fly from one to the other filming. It must be draining but you're right it is probably a lot of fun too.

Gregory - Brittney who????

Nov 02, 2007 10:30 AM
Jim Lee, REALTOR, CRS
RE/MAX Shoreline - Portsmouth, NH
Buying or Selling? Ann & Jim are the local experts

There are also lots of volunteer opportunities at your local, state, and national associations of Realtors.

Most of the work in all our Realtor associations is done by member/volunteers.

Volunteering and being elected to leadership positions also give you an opportunity to carry out or change policy.

Nov 02, 2007 10:32 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area
Judy...Congrats on your very first featured post!!! Excellent job and that "gold star" looks great on you!!!!
Nov 02, 2007 10:42 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

Oh yeah...as for volunteering as you know Jay and I do so all the time. It's  great feeling to give back.

Where will you and Mr. T be signing tomorrow???  

Nov 02, 2007 10:44 AM
Ronald Gillis
Southwest Florida Notaries (Mortgage Notary Signing Agent) - Port Charlotte, FL
CNSA Southwest Florida. Notaries, Port Charlotte, 941-7-NOTARY

Like BNI states, Giver's Gain, which is so true in so many ways!!

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Nov 02, 2007 10:50 AM
Nancy Pav
CENTURY 21 Redwood Realty - Ashburn, VA
You "gotta have Pav"!

That sounds wonderful.  One of the agents in our office always says, you get by giving...so when she wants to sell more ...she gives more. 

I believe that you are opening yourself up to all the good things that are waiting for you.

Nov 02, 2007 11:04 AM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional

Jim - You are right about that and I know I appreciate the hard work put in by those who serve in our association like Moni & Jay. Thank you

Monika - My mentor, my friend this gold star is for you. We sing at the VA Hospital in Manchester tomorrow morning at the welcome home for the guys from Iraq. I'm pumped for it and nervous at the same time.

Ron - I think that is true. Thanks for stopping by.

Nancy - Your friend is right, it is the law of sowing and reaping. Thanks for stopping in, pplease come back again.

 

Nov 02, 2007 01:53 PM
Lance Zepeda
1-800-Got-Junk? - Anaheim, CA
Making time to make a difference is very admirable.  We all get so busy and caught up with our own lives, we forgot about those in need.  Awesome post. 
Nov 02, 2007 05:07 PM
Judy Tuscano
Prudential Verani Realty - Nottingham, NH
NH Real Estate Professional
Brent - Thanks so much for your comments. Time does have a a way of slipping past us and we tend to forget so I am making it a point to schedule volunteer time and make it priority. I have an event today that is volunteer and I had an opportunity to get customers after I'd committed and I referred them out rather than cancelling. It was a hard choice but we only go around one time in this life so we might as well make it count.
Nov 03, 2007 12:32 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area
Thanks Judy for the kind words. i am very proud of you....keep on blogging.  Check out Jays anniversary post...I bet we'll see a picture of you doing the same thing next summer :)
Nov 03, 2007 04:37 AM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes
Likely in most eveyone's life we can all find some time to volunteer each month - even if it's for only a little while.
Nov 03, 2007 09:24 AM