Loosing the BEST!!!!!
Why does it always seem like we loose the best people from our lives. I woke up this morning about 4:45 
and got my day started. Business as usual. I then looked down at the wristband that I have around my right wrist. And I had the uneasy feeling, I was going to get an update. I did! I got the update this morning that a good friend of mine that has been battling stage 4 kidney cancer for the last 18 months lost her battle with Cancer.
It started bringing back the memories of my mother who I lost just over a year ago from brain cancer. I was extremely sad.....not for me, but for my friend Brian (Lost his wife, best friend and soul-mate) and their children. Emily and Easton. Watch her video that her children made for her. http://www.youtube.com/watch
I lost my parents, and that is hard. But it is expected.
Loosing the BEST!!!!!
Yes, Parents go first, and should, but not yet. But when you loose a beautiful soul who was just in her 30's, that is so hard to fathom. Why must we loose the people who make this world great. I am not saying that the bad people need to be removed....just can't figure out why loosing the best happens so much more often. Why must two great children have their mother taken from them? Why must BA have to sleep alone, without the person who help create an amazing life by his side?. Why must family and friends prepare for a funeral that should not have to be planned for decades? I 
just don't understand!
Loosing the BEST!!!!
Tina Adler was am amazing soul, who was a gift to all who knew her. Just being in her presence made you smile. So caring, giving, thoughtful and strong. I know that life isn't fair and there is a plan for us all,but it seems so un-natural to be taken so you. I just know how hard it was for me to loose my mom at 39. I can't even imaging loosing my mom when I was a teenager. I know what it felt like to loose my dad at 39, I can't even begin to understand what Brian is going through, loosing his wif, and best friend while she was in her 30's. Not getting to look into the eyes of the person, who helped you create the amazing life you have.
Loosing the BEST!!!
Not being able to kiss your best friend everyday and every night. Not being able to say "I Love You" and get
that reciprocated anymore! I don't get it! I guess that is the risk we take when we strive to achieve and obtain the BEST!!......and we achieve it. We then loose the best. My thoughts and prayers are with Brian and his family. I am praying for courage, strength, honor and passion. What an amazing person she was....and will always be!
Rest in Peace Tina!
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