Wearing rose colored glasses from the point of view of being a positive person and working toward a positive outcome is all well and good. But
Ignore Facts At Your Own Risk.
You see this #1 in real estate with overpricing of homes when "market facts" tell you otherwise. Price to sit or price to sell.
You see this in behavior with people if they are consistent with their words over and over again or there are "shades of the truth." Facts are truth and there is only ONE truth. It can turn into a wishful thinking or love is blind situation with people, not FOLLOWING what you see but "believing instead." I am not saying have faith in people with benefit of the doubt but practice that fool me once shame on you approach but not twice on me.
Ignoring facts is at your own peril cause it leads to lost time, hurt, pain, delusion on your part. The head in the sand, box on the head approach might feel comfortable for awhile but you are spinning your wheels. Have lots and lots of good communication with people and clear the air, get your head out of the sand, box off your head.
Don't be afraid of facts or TRUTH. Truth actually feels very good in the light of day and it is there, not darkness, where we are meant to live.
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