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Happy ThanksgivingWhat If ...

 

As I ponder all the reasons why I am thankful today, I cannot help but recall an experience I had last week.  You see … last week ... I met Matthew.  Matthew is 3 years and is the only child born to his parents.  On the surface, Matthew seems like a normal 3 year old.  He is vibrate and beautiful and with the exception of the brace around his neck, he seems like a regular kid. 

 

But in actuality, little Matthew is not exactly what we would consider normal.  You see, Matthew cannot speak.  He will be 4 years old in January and has not uttered a word since birth.  For his parents, it is heart wrenching!  For Matthew, it is extremely frustrating because he is unable to communicate his wants and desires to his parents.  He tries to speak but is yet unable to do.  What is even more frustrating for Matthew is his lack of understanding.  He is only 3 years old.  Therefore, he cannot fully understand his limitations. 

 

What If ... 

 

... you lived in a world where your voice was silenced … or your only child's voice was silenced … would you still be thankful today? 

 

As you spend time with family and friends on this Thanksgiving Day, let us not forget the Matthews of the world.  And ... if you could find a moment to say a small prayer for little Matthew in this story, I would greatly appreciate it.

 

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Lisa Dunham, MBA
Associate Broker
Keller Williams Realty Alexandria-Kingstowne
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Hello Lisa and a wonderful post with some wonderful words ... your post has been featured at one of my favorite groups ... EXPRESS WITH WORDS AT ACTIVERAIN ... VB...;o)

Nov 24, 2011 02:02 AM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thanks VB!  Love the photo! :-)  Happy Thanksgiving to you as well! 

Nov 24, 2011 02:08 AM
Adrian Willanger
206 909-7536 AdrianWillanger-broker.com - Seattle, WA
Profit from my two decades of experience

Lisa- Yes young Matthew will be remembered today! Thanks for sharing this story.

 

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Nov 24, 2011 02:08 AM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thank you Adrian!  Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 2011 02:53 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Lisa, We pray that Matthew finds his voice soon, and if not, we know somehow he will overcome and be a lesson to all of us.

Nov 24, 2011 03:12 AM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thank you Bliz!  Your prayers are greatly appreciated!  Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 2011 03:41 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Lisa, I will be praying that little Matthew will be able to find his voice soon. It terrible not being able to communicate. Many children have learned to overcome this disability, and I am praying that he will too.

Happy Thanksgiving to You and Your Family!

Nov 24, 2011 03:54 AM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thank you Jerry!  I am hopeful that he will overcome this as well.  Have a Safe and Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 2011 04:09 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Consider it done.  My Grand Daughter had heart surgery yesterday and is doing well.  But we were all in amazement how some parents deal with this stuff everyday. 

True Hero's in this world!

Nov 24, 2011 01:31 PM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

William, Thank you so much!  I really appreciate you prayers for Matthew.  I am also thrilled to hear that your Grand Daughter is doing well.  I will definitely keep her and your entire family in my prayers also!  Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 2011 01:37 PM
Cindy Westfall
Premiere Property Group,LLC Portland Metro & Suburbs Oregon - Tualatin, OR
ABR,GRI Your Tualatin & Portland Metro Real Estate

Hi Lisa, what a beautiful post! A special prayer for Matthew and his family and well as all the Matthews out there will indeed be said. Happy Thanksgiving!

Nov 24, 2011 02:57 PM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Thank you Cindy!  On behalf of all the Matthews out there, I greatly appreciate your prayers.

Nov 25, 2011 01:20 AM
Dave Roberts
Healdsburg Sotheby's International Realty - Healdsburg, CA

Lisa, you always capture the heart and soul with your posts. Your story about Matthew uses only a few words, but illustrates beautifully how much all of us have to be thankful for in our own lives. Thanks for causing those of us who read this post to stop and say a prayer for Matthew and reflect on our own situations.

Nov 25, 2011 03:02 AM
Lisa Dunham
Alexandria, VA
Associate Broker, Alexandria Virginia Real Estate

Dave, Thank you!  You are very kind.  I have a 2 year old and everyday I get to watch and listen as her vocabulary increases.  It is truly one of my greatest joys!  I just wish the same for Matthew and his parents.  Thank you for your prayers.

Nov 25, 2011 03:44 AM