Moving can be one of the most stressful things one can go through. Moving with children can be even more stressful. Moving with children over the holidays…is there even a word that can accurately describes what that is like? But it does happen sometimes. There are just some things that you can’t plan for, even when you have been planning for months. Here are some great tips that help make a holiday move easier on everyone:

1. Remember monkey see, monkey do when it comes to kids. If you act disappointed about moving over the holidays, or are moping because you won’t be celebrating with the extended family, your children will pick up on that and follow your lead. Be positive and excited. Tell them about their cool new room that they can paint whatever color they choose, or all about the park and mall nearby. Show your excitement and your children’s excitement will follow.

2. Don’t forget the decorations. Whether you decide to decorate at the old house and once again at the new house or at the new house only; bring the decorations in the car with you so you can set them up the minute you arrive, or buy all new ones when you get there. However you choose to do it, decorate. Things need to stay as normal as possible and as festive as possible.

3. start a new tradition in your new home. We all have family traditions at the holidays, but since you are starting a new beginning, why not add a new tradition? Maybe during the trip ( if it is long distance) you can buy a new ornament or present from the location you stop at each night..That way, each year when you are putting up the decorations, you will remember your journey to your new home.

4. Listen to holiday music while you’re driving. Stock up on CD’s or tune satellite radio to a station where holiday cheer can be found. It is a great way to feel connected to the familiar holiday spirit when things are feeling anything but familiar.

5. Make the trip memorable. We all remember those “fun” family vacations in the car. Why not give your children some of those memories? If you can, plan your route around fun attractions, cities family members live in, historical sites, and famous landmarks. Consider staying the night in a nice hotel and make sure it has an indoor pool for the kids!