We all have elements of give and take in us and the full force takers could do better at giving and the purest givers could reward themselves a little now and then in my mind and stop being such saints among us.
BUT there is a form of the taker you need to be aware of that does not show sincerity with their giving.
They are the User Personality.
It is a give to get. Use you or a situation up then discard you on the trash heap in climbing the ladder in life, in love, in work. A key thought of theirs is what do they get OUT of something, not realizing life does not truly work that way. What matters is what you put INTO life. The what you get out (as a sincere giver) is a byproduct, a result, a karma if you will of all you have put into something. Time invested in a loved one, practice on a skill, diligent study with education, etc. It ALL comes home to roost in the end. Users are exploitive in nature and have not found out that the road they are on leads nowhere and to emptiness.
Remind these people when you see them not to love things and use people, but to love people and use things.
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