Being a professional of the real estate industry can be hazardous for your mental health. Maniac depressive even comes to mind.... You think I am exaggerating? Let me elaborate with an example and then tell me I am wrong...
One day you get a call from another agent who is sending you an offer on one of your listings (you are happy). The moment you receive it, you realize the offer is not going anywhere; it's just too low (now you are depressed). You present it to the seller and to your surprise, he isn't insulted and he counters, so there is a shed of light at the end of the tunnel and this may actually happen (you are happy again). The buyers meet the seller's terms and the contract is signed (still happy).
A day later, the buyer's agent calls you and says the buyers have changed their minds and want to back out of the deal, apparently they want to do a 1031 exchange on another one of their properties and their accountant said to not buy this one yet until they get the proceeds from the previous one (go to my 1031 blog and read the whole story)(depressed again, or more like in disbelief). With all your knowledge on 1031 exchanges, you explain to the buyer's agent that they can do a reverse exchange and buy this property. She goes back to the buyers, they get it and want to proceed (happy again). Inspections check, appraisals check, all is good to go to closing (still happy). You follow up with the other agent, mortgage broker and title company and make sure everyhting is fine, and it is (according to them). The day before closing, you ask for a copy of the HUD and guess what, there is a delay with the condo questionnaire and after they get it in two days there is a 48 hour turnaround. Your client is going out of town tomorrow (panic). You figure out how to have him sign the seller's docs before he leaves and fax over the HUD to wherever he'll be and have him send it back or give you POA to sign it (going insane, but happy because at some point it will close). Two days later, the bank gets the condo questionnaire and 48rs later it closes (not smoothly, but it does). Now you are happy and it is done... until the next deal.
I don't know if it is that I get too involved in every deal, that I am so insanely organized that when thinks don't happen the way they are scheduled to happen I start making lists in my head of things to do to fix it, or what it is, but these extreme changes in emotion can really drive a person insane... I am now working to close four deals next week, out of which three should have closed this week and for one reason or another there is a delay. After that, I am going on a very well deserved vacation to a place where... delays are just fine...
I know this happens to you too (unless it is a local thing?). My questions is: why does it happen? maybe some of the mortgage brokers around here can explain what is it with your side of the deal. Why does the bank wait for the last minute to ask for additional conditions? why don't they send a HUD statement with 48hrs in advance like they are supposed to? Why are closings seldom on time? why, why, why?
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