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Get Connected in the Rain

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Venture Realty International

I love the connections that grow between members of ActiveRain. 


clipart purchased from iclipartOne of the ActiveRain Community Guidelines is:  "Get connected. At first ActiveRain may seem so big that you could never be heard, and so small and cliquish that you will never find your place. Everyone experiences this phenomenon! Our suggestion is to start off slow; read blogs, then start commenting on posts that interest you, and once you feel ready, blog away!"


It is fascinating to see newbies in the Rain.  At first they exist as a profile and a photo. Most start slowly and read some of the posts.  Next step is usually to comment and finally they start to write their own posts. (Of course there are exceptions - some start off really fast and some really never get started).  Then the fun begins, members start to recognize each other and the comments show that members really do take the time to learn about each other.

 

clipart purchased from iclipart It is especially nice to see the way members support each other in times of trouble and sorrow.  ActiveRain is a community where the members become so connected that it starts to feel like one big family.We connect through our posts and comments, through email and phone calls and even with face to face meetings.


Recently I challenged my self to start calling other members and I can't tell you how much I am enjoying it.  The post is

Call Two Each Day in the Rain

  clipart purchased from iclipart I also have the benefit of building my referral network and helping others as they build networks of their own. 


This community guideline is the basis for my feelings about ActiveRain --- I Love ActiveRain.




 

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Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Gary--great suggestion that takes connecting to the next level.  While a few people like, Jon, may not feel comfortable talking I sense that most people here would welcome a call.  A few people use Skype that adds another element and makes the connection seem more personal, almost like meeting a friend for coffee.

Jan 22, 2012 01:26 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®

Suggested! Let's see how more people in the rain feel about one of their subscribers giving them a call! Well... you know how I feel. We had a great chat today. THANK YOU for calling! ☺

Jan 23, 2012 09:13 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Hey Joni - Gary called my during the Christmas holidays.  We had a good talk about many areas of life and business.  I didn't have a problem at all with his calling.  If I had been with a client I would have just told him I would return his call.  No big deal... not a problem with me at all.

Jan 23, 2012 09:52 AM
Lindsey Hasford
Edina Realty - Elk River, MN
Bringing you home...

This is funny because I really understand both sides of the coin. I had one gal from the Rain call me several times and she seriously managed to call me at every bad moment possible. One of my children bonked their heads and started screaming, I was at a funeral, Christmas shopping. By the third or fourth call like that I felt horrible. I kind of felt like there was gonna be no good time to chat with her. On the other hand? I love yakking on the phone so I welcome as many conversations in my day as come.

Jan 23, 2012 10:35 AM
Judith Parker
ProStead Realty - Charlotte, NC
CRS, GRI, CMRS, Charlotte, NC

Hi Gary, I think your idea of reaching out and contacting two ActiveRain members a day is an excellent idea.  It is great to network and share. 

Jan 23, 2012 11:33 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Jon, Well, I guess I have to respond to your comment first.  It is always good when their are differing viewpoints and I do understand yours. I feel bad that my viewpoint seems to have upset you. 

 

In explanation, I guess you didn't read my original post because rather than being just social, it started out with the premise that I was making calls to increase business for myself and anyone that I talk to.  My first sentence was:  Have you ever stopped to think about the referral business that you could generate if you had 730 new team members? Then I discussed having the opportunity to get to know others. 

 

This was not my original idea.  There is an ActiveRain group "Calling All Active Rain Members" It was started by Judi Barrett and there were a number of posts that touted the benefits of visiting with each other. 

 

The original post that set up the Ambassador program asked the Ambassadors to call other members, especially the newbies.  Other members have joined in with the idea of being informal Ambassadors. 

 

Back to my feelings about phone calls versus yours.  I grew up on a ranch and very isolated.  It was difficult to communicate  except by phone and very, very slow snail mail. I love the ability to get to talk with someone -- I usually learn very interesting things from anyone that I get to visit with.  You, for example, have a fascinating background and some very interesting things to offer that cannot be summed up in a quick comment or even a post.  You have so much to offer that you could write a book and it would be fantastic.  I am disappointed that I won't have the chance to visit with you. 

 

As to the others that I have called, the only problem that I have seen is that everyone wants to talk so much that it goes on and on -- we have a great time -- and I find it hard to find enough time to make my two calls. I also have received one definite referral and because I learned something new about another person, I will probably be able to send them a referral or two in the near future.  If you want to read my original post it is:

 

 

 

Call Two Each Day in the Rain

 

Jan 23, 2012 11:37 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Doug, It is amazing how many comments that I have seen where someone tells how wonderful it was to get a call with help or the answer to a question. I'm glad you are adding this back into your routine.

Jan 23, 2012 11:39 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

John, I guess I have always seen Active Rain as more than just simple information.  Like you, AR seems to be more like family.

Jan 23, 2012 11:42 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Debra, Thank you.  There are always two sides and I do respect Jon and his comment.  I try very hard to call at times that should not interrupt meals and I ask if someone has a chance to talk -- that should give a good quick out if someone does not feel comfortable.  So far it seems that my calls have all been happily received.

Jan 23, 2012 11:45 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Suzanne, Thank you.  it is taking more time because everyone seems to want to talk and I am loving it -- I hope I can keep the two call commitment. It will make it much easier for me to place my referrals with members that I know better.

Jan 23, 2012 11:46 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Sharon, I agree -- it is very special.

Jan 23, 2012 11:47 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Mary, Thank you.So far it seems that everyone has welcomed my calls.  If not, I will try to get right off the phone.   The Skype idea should be great although I can't do it right now because I have satellite Internet and Skype doesn't work on it -- there is a  lag that garbles the conversation..

Jan 23, 2012 11:50 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Joni, Thank you for the suggestion. I really enjoyed talking with you today and I really liked the suggestion about the book, Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back.  I bought the Kindle version and have started reading it. It was hard to set it aside to answer comments.

Jan 23, 2012 11:54 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

John, Thanks for your comment.  I know I really enjoyed my conversation with you.

Jan 23, 2012 11:54 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Lindsey, You are right and it is interesting how it can be so hard to find the right moment in some cases.  If I call you when it isn't a good time, i will always understand.  I also hope if someone doesn't like the idea that they let me know -- it won't hurt my feelings and I don't want to impose when not wanted.

Jan 23, 2012 11:57 AM
Gary Coles (Coaching)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Judith, Thank you.  I think the more we can network and share, the better we will be in our business.

Jan 23, 2012 11:59 AM
Juli Vosmik
Dominion Fine Properties - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale/Cave Creek, AZ real estate 480-710-0739

Gary, I know you sure made my day when you gave me a personal call.  I enjoyed talking live with you and need to get back to calling at least one member a week - which is what I used to do.  Never as ambitious as you, but still it's fun making that live contact!!!  Talk to you soon.  

Jan 23, 2012 04:20 PM
Ellie Penaranda
239.776.5077 Downing-Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Florida Real Estate - Waterfront & Beach Co

Gary, it took me a while before I figured out, I can use the AR email to send a personal message to someone I wanted to connect with... then a little longer before I picked up the phone and called an agent whose advice I wanted to get... I am sure she was very busy, but she didn't show it and was very happy to help to me out, we chatted and I got to know her more.  I like your idea of calling and connecting without having to wait for an occasion. 

Jan 23, 2012 04:25 PM
Amy Hahn
Pine Knoll Shores Realty - Morehead City, NC
Realtor/Broker - Crystal Coast, NC

I remember my first AR phone call (other than staff), and must admit, I was actually Star Struck (It was Craig Rutman).  Since then, I have formed relationships with many folks in the rain, and If a week goes by without a call from them, I worry!  I have attended several "MeetUps", some official and some just for fun, and in a couple of weeks, my family will be heading out on a mini road trip to "Hang" with a fellow AR member.  A few months ago, my family met up with One of my AR Friends at an amusement park for a weekend and had a great time.  These are the same folks that have called me with referrals and I do the same.  These are the folks that I know I can call with questions about the business, technology or well.... Life.

I love sending note cards and I love calling folks.  Sometimes, when I get a really good comment, I call to respond vs. putting it in writing.... So far, no one has ever hung up on me ;0)

I know I could do better, so I'll make it a point to make a few more calls this week!  Thanks!

Jan 23, 2012 11:21 PM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®
It's funny that you should mention Judi. She was one of the very first AR people to call me, if not the first! I am going to meet her in person one day! :))) Heading to NC in March to meet Amy and the rest of our great NC girls! :)
Jan 24, 2012 02:27 PM